1. In the world of marriage, each partner has his or her own unique way of getting along. Some seem incomprehensible, but in fact they are the most comfortable and comfortable way of life.
Marriage is the solemn union of two souls who love each other deeply, and is the sacred starting point for building a family. The process may seem uneventful, but it contains countless moving stories.
Some couples choose a plain and simple lifestyle, while others bravely break the mold and embark on a seemingly different path.
For example, the famous singer Rene Liu and her husband Zhong Xiaojiang, although they live under the same roof, their lives hardly intersect. Liu Ruoying even resolutely refused to let Zhong Xiaojiang step into her bedroom, and maintained the principle of "roommate non-ethics" in her life.
This seemingly cold and distant relationship is actually the embodiment of "personal space" and "free life" that Liu Ruoying cherishes.
For another example, celebrity couple Tony Leung and Carina Lau, after they got married, not only did they live alone in one room, but even their daily necessities were used separately, and they never shared them. This is because Carina Lau has a serious cleanliness habit and has almost strict requirements for the "dividing line" of personal belongings.
There are many "alternative" life patterns like this, such as Li Ai and her husband living two stories apart, Wu Junru and Chen Kexin have been in love for 20 years but have not received a marriage certificate, etc. However, no matter how peculiar their way of life is, as long as they truly love and respect each other, then in their eyes, all lifestyles are reasonable and happy.
2. Ying'er and Fu Xinbo's AA system caused controversy: Fu Xinbo was worried that his wife would leave because of his poor financial situation, and even insisted on implementing the AA system during his wife's pregnancy, which caused widespread doubts from the outside world.
However, as time passed, Fu Xinbo gradually realized his mistake and took the initiative to hand over the financial power to his wife.
At the recording site of a variety show, Fu Xinbo's sentence "Will my wife leave me because I have no money?" The questions made the guests present laugh. It was Fu Xinbo himself who said this, and his wife Ying'er was sitting next to him.
Chen Xiaochun mercilessly exposed Fu Xinbo's "hypocrisy and affection", pointing out that Ying'er had never spent his money, and the two had always practiced the AA system, so Fu Xinbo's worries were completely unnecessary.
Fu Xinbo's fear that his wife would leave him because of his poverty is incomprehensible.
After the show aired, the celebrity couple's relationship mode caused a lot of controversy and questions. Fu Xinbo's behavior was included in the "scumbag quotations" by the majority of netizens.
I didn't expect it to be such a hidden rich kid! Even when his wife is pregnant and expecting to give birth, she chooses to adopt the AA system to manage the family's finances, which is really incredible.
Yinger also generously shared some details in the variety show - in order to earn the necessities of life, she immediately devoted herself to trying to lose weight and maintain a perfect figure after giving birth, ready to start filming as soon as possible.
As soon as this remark came out, the guests on the field were all shocked by their professionalism, and the new mother needs to manage many matters after giving birth, but Ying'er can quickly adjust her state and put herself into work, which is really admirable.
In the face of public doubts and criticism, Fu Xinbo seems to have gradually realized the impropriety of his behavior. In the end, he decided to take out part of the property and hand it over to his wife Ying'er to manage.
Although the process was full of twists and turns, Fu Xinbo finally "woke up" and learned how to care for his partner through practical actions.
3. Wu Junru and Chen Kexin have not received a marriage certificate for 20 years: they adhere to the concept of freedom and do not want to be bound by a marriage contract. Despite this, their relationship has undergone a severe test of Chen Kexin's loss of 500 million, and Wu Junru stepped forward and fully supported her husband to tide over the difficulties.
"I'm convinced that we're going to go through the rest of our lives together, and I'm willing to give you plenty of freedom." In the face of her husband Chen Kexin's many romantic proposals, actor Wu Junru always politely refused.
This is not because she doesn't love Chen Kexin, on the contrary, because she loves this man deeply, so she is more willing to give him the greatest freedom.
has been married for 20 years, but Wu Junru and Chen Kexin have not yet received their marriage certificate, and there are reasons for this. She firmly believes that ceremonies such as obtaining a marriage certificate, holding a wedding, and living together are actually superfluous for two people who love each other.
She hopes to be able to continue the feeling of freedom when she is in love, and not be bound by marriage.
Although they have not yet received their marriage certificates, the relationship between Wu Junru and Chen Kexin is rock-solid. In 2007, Chen Kexin suffered huge losses in filming films, as high as 500 million yuan, and fell into trouble.
At this critical moment, Wu Junru did not leave him, but firmly re-entered her acting career, and went all out to help her husband relieve pressure and tide over the difficulties together.
There is a famous saying: "Adversity sees the truth." Wu Junru's selfless dedication to Chen Kexin is undoubtedly the best interpretation of sincere love. Their relationship is unique and unmatched.
Of course, Wu Junru's emotional concept is also slightly unique. She once said frankly: "I am not Mrs. Chen, I am just Miss Wu. You're not my husband, you're just Mr. Chen. ”
Fourth, Li Ronghao and Rainie Yang were separated by 300 days: After a short wedding sweetness, they began the process of long-term separation, which caused the outside world to have many doubts about the couple's emotional condition.
However, in the face of many difficulties, the couple always adhered to the true nature of love, and despite all difficulties, they still firmly loved each other and walked hand in hand.
As a new generation of artists in the entertainment industry, the married life of Li Ronghao and Rainie Yang has undoubtedly become the focus of everyone's attention. Due to their busy careers, the two have not seen each other for 300 days, and the only two video calls are particularly precious.
Such a long-term separation has made the outside world deeply question the relationship of the newlyweds. After all, couples who have just entered the marriage hall should be like glue and inseparable.
However, the reality of Li Ronghao and Rainie Yang is completely different, and people can't help but wonder if their relationship has cracked.
When Li Ronghao talked about the years of separation in an interview, his tone was full of melancholy. "I didn't see her for 300 days, and I only had two video calls during that time, so I missed her so much.
"For a singer, losing his wife's company can seem like an unusually long time.
Fortunately, there was finally a chance for Rainie Yang to participate in the recording of the show, and the two were able to meet again. However, the reunion was extremely short-lived, and just a few days later, Rainie Yang hurried back to Taiwan to devote herself to intense work.
Despite the extremely limited time spent together, the couple's relationship was not affected in any way. Whenever there are rumors about "marriage change", they will always immediately stand up and clarify the facts.
Li Ronghao even publicly expressed his heart on social media: "Although I can't see you, my love for you has never changed."
This is the power of true love. Even if you face many difficulties, as long as you have love in your heart, it will last forever. Just like the lovers Li Ronghao and Rainie Yang, they interpret the innocence and immaculate love with practical actions.
5. Liu Ruoying and Zhong Xiaojiang are "non-ethical in the same room": Although the two live under the same roof, their lives have no intersection, and even entering each other's bedrooms are forbidden. This seemingly indifferent relationship is actually the "private space" and "freedom" that Liu Ruoying pursues.
"Walking the streets together, walking into all kinds of movie theaters together, watching all kinds of films; On the way home, they walked in opposite directions, drifting farther and farther away." Such a seemingly strange scene is actually a true depiction of the married life between singer Liu Ruoying and her husband Zhong Xiaojiang! Although they live under the same roof, they have little in common, so that there are few opportunities to eat together.
Even, Zhong Xiaojiang was strictly forbidden to even step into Liu Ruoying's bedroom, as if the two were just ordinary roommates.
For onlookers, this "roommate" state of life is undoubtedly incomprehensible. However, in Liu's view, this is precisely the perfect embodiment of the "private space" and "free life" she pursues.
In her books, she describes her married life as follows: "Never ate together, refused her husband to enter her bedroom", and although it may seem cold and detached, this is exactly what she thinks the ideal marriage should look like.
Rene has always been keen to enjoy solitude and freedom, and comfort and ease are the state of life she is looking for. She firmly believes that marriage also needs to have its own "private territory", free from external interference.
There should be clear boundaries in life and emotions, and Zhong Xiaojiang can provide her with these.
Perhaps in the eyes of others, Liu Ruoying's behavior seems quite "peculiar". However, for herself, being able to live the life she longs for, respecting each other and sharing her heart with her husband is the greatest happiness in life.
This is the most suitable mode for the couple to get along.
6. Conclusion: Everyone's understanding of happiness is different, and there is no fixed answer to marriage. As long as both parties truly love each other and respect each other, even if it seems to be a "strange" lifestyle, it is the most suitable way for them to get along.
Marriage is not a one-size-fits-all definition, and everyone has their own unique interpretation of happiness deep down. Looking at the seemingly "bizarre" ways of these six celebrity couples, we should not forcibly instill our values into others.
As long as both parties truly love and respect each other, then in their eyes, any lifestyle that seems to be "deviant" will become the most suitable existence.
Perhaps in the eyes of others, Li Ronghao and Rainie Yang have not seen each other for 300 days, which seems quite "deviant"; Rene Liu's restriction of her husband's access to the bedroom can be called "unique"; Tony Leung and Carina Lau live in two rooms separately and use their own belongings...... However, this is exactly the way they aspire to live, full of freedom and happiness.
The road of marriage is like a long march, and each couple is exploring their own way of harmony. Some people like the traditional way of helping each other and helping each other in the same boat; Others seek to be free and live a life of "doing their own thing".
Either way, as long as both parties have a clear heart and love each other sincerely, there is no difficulty in stopping it. Just like the love story of Wu Junru and Chen Kexin, although the two did not officially enter the marriage hall, when Chen Kexin suffered a heavy blow, Wu Junru did not hesitate to give up her career and fully support her husband.
She interprets the purity and preciousness of emotions with practical actions.
Therefore, each couple should treat each other with sincerity and sincerity, and write a unique chapter of a happy marriage in their own way, rather than being confined to some so-called "norm".