C text丨Lily of the valley tells a story
Editor丨Lily of the Valley tells a story
Preface
My mother was hospitalized some time ago, and a young doctor made rounds every day, and she looked very cold. At one point, she couldn't help but ask him why he didn't smile. As a result, the doctor said, "Auntie, I have to deal with dozens of patients every day, and sometimes I really can't laugh." Only then did my mother understand that in fact, these doctors and nurses were not indifferent and ruthless, but that they had become numb from long-term and high-intensity work.
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Once I went to the hospital to register, I saw the nurse processing a large pile of papers with a blank face, and the people in line were complaining that she was too cold. Later, when it was my turn, she was still cold, but she handled it very efficiently. I was also a little uncomfortable, but later I realized that they may have been accustomed to protecting themselves in this way when they face so many patients every day, otherwise they would have been crushed a long time ago.
Once I took my child to the emergency room and saw a little nurse handling a patient, very mechanical and expressionless. I was a little dissatisfied, thinking she was too cold. Later, I heard from the doctor at the nurses' station that she had been working for 12 hours straight, and she had just dealt with an emergency patient, which was really hard. Only then did I understand that their indifference was actually to protect themselves from being led away by emotions.
My friend's father was seriously ill and hospitalized, and the family was very anxious, but every time they asked the doctor about the situation, the doctor always answered a few words coldly. My friend was angry and thought the doctor was too unkind. Later, I learned that this doctor had to deal with dozens of patients' family members every day, and if each one had to be patiently explained, he would not be able to keep himself busy at all. In fact, doctors and nurses are also human beings, and they also have their own pressure and helplessness.
I once went to the hospital for a physical examination, and there were a lot of people in line, and the nurses were very busy. I saw a nurse who kept her head down and worked on the papers, occasionally looking up with a cold expression. Later, I heard from another patient that she had just finished dealing with an emergency and had not had time to rest. I realized that their apathy is to stay productive and not be swayed by emotions.
My friend's child was sick and went to the hospital to see a doctor, only to meet a cold doctor, and the child was scared and cried. My friend was very upset and thought that the doctor was too impersonal. Later, the doctor explained that he had just treated a few emergency patients and had not had time to recover. In fact, doctors and nurses are faced with life and death, and sometimes they must be calm and indifferent in order to do their jobs well.
I went to the hospital to accompany my dad for a check-up and saw a nurse who was busy and didn't have a smile on her face. I also felt in my heart that she was too cold. Later, I heard another patient say that she had been working for more than ten hours in a row, and she didn't even have time to drink saliva. Only then did they understand that their indifference was to protect themselves from being crushed in high-intensity work.
I once went to the hospital to visit a friend who was sick, and I was always cold to see her attending doctor. When I asked my friend, she said that doctors have to deal with many patients every day, and they don't have the time and energy to be kind to every patient. Friends also said that in fact, doctors also have their own pressures, and they also need a way to protect themselves. After listening to it, I think it makes sense, indifference does not mean ruthlessness, but just a kind of self-protection in the face of high pressure.
My mother was sick and hospitalized, and I was a little dissatisfied when I saw that the nurses were dealing with various things coldly every day. Later, I talked to a nurse who said that they had to deal with many patients every day, and that they had to learn to be apathetic in order to be productive due to long hours of intense work. Only then did I realize that their indifference was actually a helpless way to protect themselves.
A friend took the child to get vaccinated, but the nurse looked indifferent, and the child was scared and cried. My friend was angry and thought the nurse was too impersonal. Later, the nurse explained that she had just dealt with a few emergencies and had not had time to adjust. In fact, they work under high pressure every day, and indifference is just to stay calm and productive. My friends also understood a lot after listening to it, and felt that it was not easy for them.
I once went to the hospital for a check-up, and I felt a little uncomfortable when I saw a doctor dealing with a patient's problem with a cold face. Later, I heard from another patient that the doctor had just performed several surgeries in a row and had not had time to rest. Only then did I understand that the indifference of doctors and nurses is actually a way to protect themselves, so that they can stay calm and efficient in high-intensity work.
My wife was hospitalized some time ago, and the doctor who rounds the ward every time is very cold. She couldn't help but ask the doctor why he was so indifferent, and the doctor said: "Facing so many patients and family members every day, if I don't be indifferent, I can't work normally." My wife listened and understood, in fact, the indifference of doctors and nurses is not ruthless, but a way of self-protection under long-term high pressure.
I have a friend who works in a hospital, and he said that every day with so many patients and emergencies, there is really no way for every patient to be pleasant. Long hours of intense work have taught them to be apathetic, so that they can stay productive. After listening to it, I think it makes sense, indifference does not mean ruthlessness, but just a kind of self-protection in the face of high pressure.
I once went to see a doctor and met a doctor who was particularly indifferent, and I felt very uncomfortable. Later, I heard from the nurse that the doctor had just treated an emergency patient and had not had time to rest. Only then did I understand that the indifference of doctors and nurses is actually a helpless way to protect themselves, allowing them to stay calm and efficient in high-intensity work.
A friend took the child to see a doctor, but met a cold nurse, and the child was scared and cried. My friend was very upset and felt that the nurse was too impersonal. The nurse later explained that she had just treated a few emergency patients and had not had time to adjust. In fact, nurses work under high pressure every day, and indifference is just to stay calm and productive.
I went to the hospital to accompany my mother for a check-up, and I felt a little uncomfortable when I saw a doctor who was particularly indifferent to the patient's problems. Later, I heard from another patient that the doctor had just performed several surgeries in a row and had not had time to rest. Only then did I understand that the indifference of doctors and nurses is actually a way to protect themselves, so that they can stay calm and efficient in high-intensity work.
My wife once went to the hospital for a check-up, but she met a doctor who was very indifferent. She was angry and felt that the doctor was too impersonal. Later, the doctor explained that he had just treated several emergency patients and had not had time to adjust. In fact, doctors and nurses work under high pressure every day, and indifference is just to stay calm and productive. My wife also understood a lot after listening to it, and felt that it was not easy for them.
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