Each woman has a unique charm at different stages, whether it is the beauty and passion of youth, or the stability and wisdom of maturity. Each stage deserves our appreciation and cherishment.
Just as we are full of energy and youth when we are young, we are mature and elegant in middle age, and we are amiable in old age. It's like the different stages of our lives, each with its own unique beauty.
Of the three stages in a woman's life, neither the passion of youth nor the sigh of old age make people feel as happy as the quiet years of middle age.
Of course, not all women who reach middle age enjoy the blessings. The premise is to keep your mind quiet at this stage in order to receive blessings.
For the tacit understanding between husband and wife, "quiet" means to be able to understand each other's emotions and intentions without words every day.
After middle age, women are most often approached by their husbands. The relationship between husband and wife is no longer affected by hormonal shocks as they were when they were younger, and marriage has become more comfortable and familiar.
I envy the love between my second aunt and my second uncle. For as long as I can remember, they have been living together in a way that makes me yearn for love. This kind of relationship between elders makes me feel warm and gratified.
Now, women who have entered middle age, their feelings are not affected by time, on the contrary, they have become sweeter.
Many people believe that the second aunt in our family is the most blessed because she is married to a gentle gentleman, that is, our second aunt.
The good life that the second aunt enjoys today is inseparable from her restrained and elegant temperament.
The second aunt has a gentle personality and has never had any conflicts with the second uncle for many years. She always brings a sense of calm and serenity, like the clouds that slowly stretch on the horizon.
The relationship between my second uncle and I was very tacit, and we have known each other so well for many years that we can understand each other with just one look. This tacit understanding makes our relationship more relaxed, more formal and pleasant.
The second uncle has always believed that the most correct decision in his life is to make the second aunt his wife.
The second aunt is different from other women, she will not talk non-stop, nor will she ask questions to the end, which makes her husband enjoy a peaceful and beautiful married life.
Because of this, the second aunt is particularly partial to the second aunt, as long as he is in the place, the second aunt can enjoy the treatment of a happy woman without having to work.
Yes, since we've been together for most of our lives, there's nothing we can't overcome. Instead of arguing, it is better to quietly play the role of a good wife and do your part. After all, a peaceful family atmosphere is what we crave.
For children, "quiet" means to watch them play quietly, sometimes with one eye open and one eye closed.
There is a common saying that "the poor raise a son, the rich raise a daughter", but in the eyes of the second aunt, children are equally important.
My second aunt said that she herself had experienced her childhood and knew what children did not like their parents to do the most. She understands the emotions of the children very well. This understanding allows her to get along better with the children and gain their trust.
Currently, my cousin and cousin are adults, and my second aunt is giving advice and support to them.
At this age, the adolescent is in a rebellious phase, and the more the parents are against it, the more the child will feel disgusted. The second aunt has a deep understanding of this.
On the other hand, if parents simply state their opinions and the pros and cons to their children, and leave the final decision to the children themselves, they are more willing to accept their parents' advice, which is more relaxed and formal.
Since her cousin became an adult, she has brought home two men one after another, just like her marriage.
First of all, because of his work arrangement, he can't be by your side all the time. After getting married, you have to be prepared to face all the difficulties that come your way at home.
Secondly, his mother is the only surviving relative. This means that in the future you will be completely dependent on yourself, because the help of your in-laws is limited.
Subsequently, because of something, my cousin decided to give up the relationship.
The second boy is from Guangzhou, his family is wealthy, and his parents are businessmen. He was also very nice to his cousin.
To be honest, at first, I thought my cousin was married a little far away, and it was difficult to get help from her family. However, when I saw my in-laws' care for my cousin, I let go of my previous concerns.
The man's parents, who are good manners, have been inviting my family to visit Guangzhou and discuss their marriage since they confirmed their relationship. This made us feel warmer and strengthened our relationship.
This time, the second aunt was very supportive of her cousin's decision and did not obstruct it because of distance like other parents.
That's right, for a girl, having a sensible in-law is more important than distance.
The second aunt also has the same attitude towards her cousin's studies. She had always believed that her cousin should follow her interests and not force him to score too many exams. In this regard, she did not interfere with any interference or interference, and allowed her cousin to develop naturally.
There is a saying in ancient times, "Mother is kind and filial to her son", and the second aunt treats her children leniently and makes the children very satisfied.
Her cousin and cousin are very filial. Even if her cousin marries away from home, she still comes back on holidays to give gifts to show her filial piety. Although my cousin is studying in other places, he will not forget to call her every week to greet her. This embodiment of family affection is heartwarming and touching.
After middle age, in addition to being loved by her husband, a woman can also feel happy with the filial piety of her children. This kind of care and affection is an important factor in making middle-aged women feel warm and happy.
Middle-aged women should learn to be silent and calm when dealing with their husbands and children, so that they can create a comfortable family atmosphere and allow their families to live comfortably.
What man would not feel sorry for such a wife, and what child would not honor such a mother? Their good qualities are truly loved and cherished.
As a middle-aged person, remember that family harmony is the key to all things going well. A woman can only have happiness if her family is prosperous.
It is not difficult to observe that in real life, some middle-aged women have paid a lot for family pressure, but because the discipline is too strict or too broken-mouthed, they do not get the due reward. They need to know when to control their emotions and words so that they can maintain good family relationships and exert their influence.
Once women reach middle age, they should remember to control their desire to control their husbands and children, and not to always tie them to their side or even try to change their lives.
Women, sometimes it's good to be just a little silly. When I say "silly", I want to remind you to know how to enjoy a simple, quiet life. This is not to say that your thinking skills are bad, but to realize that it is very important to live your life well.