Chapter 01
As the saying goes, no one is always lucky or unlucky. Everyone wants to be lucky, but they don't know how. While there is no guarantee of luck all the time, these efforts help improve the chances of success.
Generally speaking, luck does not come by chance, but requires one's own initiative. Because, at the end of the day, opportunities often favor those who are well prepared.
Many people pursue the secret of good luck and even resort to improper means to make quick money, get rich overnight, and become high society.
You have to understand that success doesn't come automatically, even if it seems to be. Even if you're not set up for success, the outcome will only be bad.
As the saying goes, "you get as much as you give", and that's how our lives are. As long as you put in the effort, it will not go unnoticed, and it will leave a mark in your life and make you feel the change and growth. If you want to live the life you want, you have to put in the effort.
When you have these three changes, it means that you will have good luck.
Chapter 02
The ancients said: If you don't work hard when you're young, you regret it when you're old. In order not to regret your future self, you must plan well and work hard now. This is to make our lives more meaningful and valuable.
Yesterday, my girlfriends and I were shopping when we accidentally met Xiaomei, a classmate who had lost contact with her for a long time in college. At first, she was as vigorous and lively as us, but after graduation, she seemed to be a different person.
According to her, her sudden change in temperament stems from the shock she received when she entered the workplace. She felt she had too much to learn, which led to this.
After a week of thinking, she developed a detailed plan that included various aspects and even specifics for each day. The plan is accurate, comprehensive, and practical.
She chose the accounting profession and set a goal: to obtain elementary, intermediate and CPA (Certified Public Accountant) certificates in the accounting profession between the ages of 22 and 30. She pursues a high level of professionalism and commitment with the aim of succeeding in her future career.
Since then, she has been thinking about how to meet the day's tasks on time to ensure that she achieves her goals at the age of 30. This move made her more focused on her work, while also giving her more confidence to pursue her dreams.
Because of this, she not only exercised her perseverance, but also gained a lot from this continuous learning.
In addition to studying and working, she also made some social rules and refused unnecessary socialization so as not to waste time.
That's why Xiaomei suddenly started to stay away from us and stay at home except for work. There may be some reasons for this behavior of hers.
Initially, we mistakenly thought that there was a psychological distance between her and us, but now it seems that we are actually just an obstacle in her way of becoming better.
There is no doubt that we considered dragging Mei into the water. But fortunately, Xiaomei resisted the temptation and left us in time with her own reason.
The reason why Xiaomei has more time to manage herself is that she does not choose to waste her time, but uses this time to learn her favorite piano and has time to concentrate on reading at home. This allows her to devote herself to her hobbies more than others, and to have more opportunities and space to learn and grow.
It is precisely because of these things that her strength and aura have become very strong. Not only that, but she has persevered in self-cultivation for ten years, which makes everyone deeply moved and admired. Undoubtedly, these experiences have made her more complete and brought her more and more success.
Love affects women's determination and speed of decision-making, making them more inclined to pursue personal feelings and emotional experiences. However, when women are deeply in love, they may give up rational thinking and career pursuits, and become idle and depressed. We need to remind women not to rely on love for their lives.
Xiaomei had a relationship after graduation, but the man was completely irresponsible and overly dependent on his parents, which made Xiaomei lose trust and patience with him. This "giant baby" made Xiaomei feel exhausted, and finally chose to leave.
Xiaomei left her psychological dependence and focused on finding ways to make money, rather than distracting herself from the emotional aspect.
Xiaomei understands that it is difficult to change her destiny with a part-time job, so she has tried to start a business many times, including catering, business planning, financial management and other fields, as long as it is profitable, she will practice. This spirit of exploration deserves our recognition.
Fate never owes credit to everyone who works hard, in view of Xiaomei's continuous excellence, now she is a company with a house, a car, and strong assets.
Hearing this, several of us sisters began to feel a little embarrassed. In fact, when we broke into society together, it was only because of each other's different choices that we had different journeys today.
We often only complain to ourselves about our bad luck, but Xiaomei has ushered in good luck because of her ability.
If we can realize as early as Xiaomei that we can only rely on ourselves to change our fate, then maybe we will be just as lucky today.
Chapter 03
When you think about it, in fact everyone is responsible for their own choices. If you want to be lucky, you must first take action. After all, Heaven only favors those who don't give up easily.
Sunflowers love the sun, so they keep revolving around the sun every day until the fruit ripens and lands. It's a sign of tenacity and a sunny quality.
The stream longs to flow into the sea, so it keeps flowing, exerting its full strength until it is embraced by the sea. This inspires us to keep forging ahead and pursuing forward in order to achieve our goals.
The ants have the ambition to build their own fortress, and despite the fact that they need to carry a burden several times larger than their own body every day, the ants never give up. They kept working until the fort was perfect.
Obviously, luck is never given by others, but should be achieved by our own efforts.
It's never too late to start. As long as you have the courage to change like Xiaomei, you will also usher in good luck.