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Cai Ming, a man of the hour who was born in the Chinese cross talk industry and quickly became popular, believes that the majority of audiences must have heard of his name. Her clever and funny performance style is deeply loved by the audience, so everyone has given her the honorable title of "sketch queen".
Whether on the stage or in the audience, Tsai clearly and unmistakably maneuvered around, showing confidence and composure that people seem to see her interpreting life as an interesting work.
However, underneath the glamorous exterior of this talented master of humor, there has always been a secret that is thousands of miles away from others - she has a son under her knees, Tintin.
Yes, it is this obscure "Ding Ding" that has become Cai Ming's deep regret in her heart, which is not only the brilliance that makes her proud, but also the biggest trouble that makes her uneasy day and night.
For those of us who are ordinary, having a son may just be an ordinary part of life. But for Cai Ming, the birth of Ding Ding was not completely festive.
On the one hand, she is extremely proud to have such a lovely child; However, on the other hand, Tintin's presence also brought her endless troubles.
Even in the family environment, Cai Ming treats Ding Ding not without reservations. Sometimes, she would shake her head and sigh at this son, saddened by his completely different personality and behavior; Sometimes, she would be proud of Tintin and admire his unique personality.
The relationship between mother and son is like the two sides of a coin, always intertwined with contradictions, love and hate.
Time flies, time flies, and in a blink of an eye, Ding Ding has grown into a mature and stable man. In 2011, with his outstanding talent and perseverance, Ding Ding successfully founded a unique cultural communication company.
In the process of long-term cooperation with the company's team, he gradually realized a set of effective interpersonal skills, because the professional background is closely linked to the work of choreographers, Ding Ding has shown extraordinary creative talent, assumed the important responsibility of film screenwriter, and contributed his wisdom to the popular comedy film "Thai Embarrassment" at that time.
Watching his son climb step by step on the road of his career and continue to achieve brilliant achievements, the pride and pride in Cai Ming's heart are really indescribable! However, at the same time, her heart is also full of worries and worries about her son still unmarried and lonely for a lifetime.
Let's go back in time to 2009, when Ding Ding, who had just returned from school, was like a sharp double-edged sword, which brought a heart-shaking impact to his mother Cai Ming. The experience of living in a foreign country for a long time has made Ding Ding lose his original love and interest in the traditional Chinese food of his hometown.
In order to satisfy his son's taste needs, Cai Ming had to redevote himself to learning Western cooking in addition to his busy work. What is even more distressing is that in many aspects such as living habits and interpersonal communication, the generation gap between mother and child is deepening day by day, and the relationship has gradually become alienated and indifferent.
In addition, Ding Ding also faced great challenges in the workplace environment in China, and repeatedly encountered failures and setbacks.
Looking back on the past years, let's go back to 1997, when the 15-year-old Tintin was carefully arranged by his parents to leave his hometown alone and embark on the road to study in the distant United Kingdom.
As a mother, Cai Ming naturally misses her distant children all the time, but because they are thousands of miles apart, they can only convey their emotions to each other on the phone, which is undoubtedly melancholy.
In 1985, after two years of passionate love, Cai Ming and Ding Qiuxing, the two confidants and lovers, finally entered the palace of marriage. Although the wedding ceremony at that time was a little simple, for the couple, this moment is undoubtedly the happiest and most precious moment of life.
Time flies, time flies, and in the blink of an eye, the second year, the newlyweds ushered in the crystallization of their love - a lively and lovely boy. Cai Ming's mother and son are overjoyed, and their only regret is that they have not yet given their child a suitable name.
Faced with this question, Cai Ming and Ding Qiuxing pondered repeatedly, looked through the dictionary, consulted relatives and friends, and never found a satisfactory answer.
Just when the two of them were in a predicament, Ding's father, who was sitting on the side, suddenly proposed: "Why don't you consider calling it Ding Ding?" The name is concise and easy to remember, which is very much in line with the temperament of our little baby.
Hearing their father's words, Cai Ming and Ding Qiuxing looked at each other and smiled, and the doubts in their hearts suddenly disappeared.
Indeed, Tintin's nickname is both simple and humorous, and it is really tailor-made for their cute little angel. So, at the suggestion of Ding's father, Cai Ming and Ding Qiuxing happily named their son Ding Ding.
Since then, this plain name has always accompanied Ding Ding through every memorable era, witnessing and recording his growth process at every step.
For Cai Ming, the story behind this naming undoubtedly gives her endless cordiality and warmth.
At the end of 1983, Cai Ming successfully won the title of "Sketch Queen" with his excellent acting skills and unique charm. At a grand event, she met Ding Qiuxing, a very innovative and brave young director, and they met and started a beautiful love journey.
Immediately afterwards, Ding Qiuxing poured all his heart and went through a lot of hardships, and finally deeply touched Cai Ming's heart through 100 sincere letters, and the two officially confirmed their relationship.
Time seems to go back to that cold winter night in 1983, Mr. Ding Qiuxing, who was the director of the China Broadcasting Art Troupe at that time, was fortunate to participate in a meaningful event.
The moment he walked into the venue, his eyes were instantly attracted by a young, beautiful and elegant woman - that was Cai Ming, the internationally renowned "Queen of Sketches" in the future. As an experienced director, Ding Qiuxing is naturally extremely familiar with and appreciates this talented actress on the stage.
The intersection of fates often originates from those seemingly accidental moments. That night, under Cai Ming's delicate face and elegant and decent posture, Ding Qiuxing's heart was touched like never before, and he decided to summon up the courage to take the initiative to get to know this talented beauty.
However, at this moment, he fell into a small dilemma: he couldn't find a pen and paper on his body that could be used to write. For a moment, Ding Qiuxing felt a little anxious and overwhelmed.
However, the clever director didn't give up, and he quickly came up with a clever plan: take a box of newly purchased ointment from his bag, write down his contact information on the box, and then pretend to inadvertently stick it on Cai Ming's clothes.
This seemingly reckless move was actually a bold show of love and confession carefully planned by Ding Qiuxing.
As expected, a few days later, Cai Ming couldn't suppress the curiosity in his heart and took the initiative to get in touch with Ding Qiuxing. Since then, Ding Qiuxing has worked hard to create one after another affectionate letters full of poetry and picturesqueness for Cai Ming.
Because Ding Qiuxing is well versed in the inside information of the film and television industry, he can accurately deliver love letters to Cai Ming's filming site every day. In this way, 100 affectionate letters touched Cai Ming's heart one after another, and the two gradually sublimated from teacher-student friendship to lovers, and finally tied the knot.
Although Ding Ding has made remarkable achievements in his career, as a loving mother, Cai Ming has been unable to let go of his son's lifelong events for a long time.
Seeing that Ding Ding, who has entered the threshold of thirty years old, his peers have already stepped into the marriage hall and even started to run a family, but he is still alone, which can't help but make Cai Ming feel distressed and worry day and night.
As an unwavering supporter of traditional values, she deeply understands the importance of marriage and family to milestones in a person's life, and eagerly hopes that her son can find true love as soon as possible, form a happy little family, and enjoy the good times of life to the fullest.
In addition to marriage, Cai Ming also has unique insights in educating his son. She firmly believes that too much didactic truth cannot really touch the hearts of children, on the contrary, it is more effective to guide children to understand the philosophy of life in a subtle way by telling vivid and interesting stories.
As shown by the experience shared in various variety shows, on the road of Ding Ding's study, she has never suppressed her child's unique thinking ability because of her role as a "mother", but actively asked her son for various novel fields of knowledge.
Whenever he encounters difficulties in the process of parenting, Cai Ming always does not hesitate to ask Ding Ding for help. She knows that children are the most precious source of nutrients in the process of growing up, and only by maintaining a humble and studious attitude and accepting children with an open and inclusive attitude can the emotional bond between mother and child be stronger and lasting.
It is this unique concept of "reverse education" that makes the family relationship between Cai Ming and Ding Ding deeper and closer.