"Force" your child to develop 4 habits to add more confidence to his future.
In the process of children's growth, parents are the first teachers, and they are also the people with the greatest responsibility. We have to think about the future of our children in the long run, and hope that our children will get better and better.
Nowadays, society is developing so fast, we know too well the importance of time, habits, knowledge and many other things to children. Sometimes when we see a child with all kinds of problems, we will reflect on what is the reason for such problems, so as to "force" the child to do something that is good for him. Let's say the following 4 habits.
The first habit: "force" your child to keep exercising.
"Force" children to insist on sports, in addition to making children fall in love with sports, but also hope that children have a good body, feel the happiness brought by sports, and at the same time cultivate children's perseverance through the process of sports.
Of course, in the process of "forced" children to exercise, we also need to arrange a reasonable exercise plan and arrange appropriate exercise intensity according to the child's age and physique.
Of course, "forced" children to exercise is only the result that parents hope to achieve, but the implementation process still needs to pay attention to methods. For example, accompanying children to exercise together will mobilize children's enthusiasm for sports.
Studies have shown that exercise can make children smarter, so whether it is from a health perspective, or from a learning perspective, or from a child's intellectual perspective, exercise has great benefits.
The second habit: "force" children to fall in love with reading.
Interest is the best teacher for a child's growth. But getting a child to keep reading is not an easy task. Especially in the case of children's cognitive ability is not strong enough and the amount of literacy is small, when children insist on reading every day and fall in love with reading, it is actually a test of parents' perseverance.
How do we make children fall in love with reading?
The first is the insistence of parents. Don't stop reading just because you're tired. In the same way, parents should also set an example for their children to love reading, in addition to reading to their children, they should often look at paper books and let children imitate.
Secondly, children's interests and hobbies are related to their own cognition, so we can give children different content to read books, increase children's choices, and stimulate children's interest in reading.
Finally, there should be feedback on the reading. Positive feedback stimulates the concentration of interest. After reading to the child in person, we can communicate with the child about his ideas and recognize his ideas. Thus igniting children's enthusiasm for reading.
The third habit: "force" children to have good habits.
In the process of children's growth, there are too many habits that are a growth aid. For example, good living habits, good study habits. Many parents encounter a lot of resistance in the process of cultivating good habits in their children. In fact, we have mastered three small skills, and good habits will be easily reflected in children.
Take the study habits that many parents are concerned about as an example.
First of all, we need to clarify what good study habits we want to cultivate in our children over a period of time.
The second is that we need to know how to plan to meet the growth of children, so as not to encourage the growth of seedlings and make children feel stressed.
The last thing is to make a habit plan. Don't forget to encourage your child after executing the plan, this is what motivates them to keep going.
For example, if a child's Chinese performance is poor, and if you want to improve your child's Chinese performance, we should cultivate children's reading habits and writing habits according to their children's Chinese learning.
Refer to the good habit of "how to make linguistics good at learning and excelling" in "Good Habits Bring Good Grades" Start by reading the text aloud, read the text for 10 minutes every morning, a text does not take 10 minutes, and the rest of the time reads the words after class, accumulating knowledge that needs to be memorized over time.
Only a plan that is gradual and that the child can stick to and stick to the plan that the child's grades will improve after a period of time is the right plan for the child. For more good habits that need to be cultivated in primary school, you can refer to "Good Habits Bring Good Grades".
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The fourth habit: "force" the child to be independent.
The child's growth process is the process of parents gradually letting go, which also means that the child will gradually become independent. However, in the process of children's growth, if parents grasp their children too tightly, handle and deal with everything for their children, and do not let children face difficulties and challenges, it is difficult for children to get opportunities for self-growth.
Therefore, in the process of cultivating children's independence, we must also let children learn to think, learn to weigh the pros and cons, learn to analyze problems, learn to make their own choices, and learn to take responsibility for themselves.