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As long as there are people, there will naturally be strife, and where there is strife, there will naturally be suffering.
Nowadays, people seem to make us feel the pain of life, and few people in life are easy.
Maybe just walk out of the door and you will be able to encounter something that makes you unhappy. If you go out every day, you have a very high chance of getting angry.
Because of a very small thing, you may be scolded, such as unintentionally stepping on someone's shoes, or pestering, provoking, picking quarrels and provoking trouble for no reason, just like the road rage you may encounter in your life.
When you are studying or in the workplace, you may also encounter inexplicable discrimination and oppression from your classmates or colleagues and bosses.
Just like the scandals about sexual harassment in the workplace that you often brush up on the Internet, it may make you have some kind of pain in your life.
I was told:
"In the adult world, there is no such thing as easy."
Nine times out of ten, unsatisfactory things are the norm when encountering unhappiness and frustration, I took my thoughts and began to have an epiphany, life is really hard, only self-crossing, the real power must lie in the heart.
Su Shi said:
"Those who have achieved great things in ancient and modern times not only have supernatural talents, but also have perseverance."
My friend's child was depressed, and I had a stronger understanding of the meaning of my writing.
02
If you ask me why I try to write, there are always too many factors.
But there may also be a point, which is still very important to me, that I once had a particularly bad emotional time, and it seems that now I am gradually forcing myself into cynicism, resenting this, hating this, and gradually showing signs of depression in my heart at first, and every day of life will make you feel what kind of gloom it is.
And that feeling, even when I think about it again after many years, is still terrible, but I am also lucky.
I didn't choose to lose, but began to find a good cure through writing, reading, and writing.
Words are destined to have power, and their strength will consolidate the foundation of inner strength bit by bit, just like replenishing your blood, nourishing your spirit, and slowly becoming fuller.
In the process of writing, I felt as if I was talking to myself, like two people sitting on the ground, face-to-face communication and deep thinking, and slowly I began to calm my emotions, and began to think about why I was angry, because of why I was depressed.
In the process of such interaction, it seems that all the emotional garbage can be vented, and the heart is gradually smooth, the mountains and rivers have no way out, and the willows and flowers are bright and another village, it is because of such a personal experience, for such a sentence to have enough painful understanding, when you stare into the abyss, the abyss is also staring at you, change an angle, change a way of thinking, a person's fate is also changing, I found vitality in the text, found the opportunity to turn in the fate.
03
Human nature often can't stand scrutiny, when you are doing well, the people around you will still say painless words behind your back, and it is human nature to say that grapes are sour when you can't eat grapes.
When you are not doing well as others, all kinds of criticism and slapping that may come to you in front of you are often one after another, and I began to understand a little law of human nature.
I hate you, laugh at you, fear that you are rich, and hate you for being poor.
You see, how well others have summed it up.
It is said that people's words are terrifying, but this is true, public opinion on the Internet can kill people after all, and not everyone can be strong enough to remain unmoved no matter what kind of invasion there is from the outside world.
My friend's child is in high school, I don't know what the specific reason is, but the child may be a little introverted since he was a child, and his emotions are that sensitive type, even if he has been wronged, he still chooses not to say it, even if it is his mother.
When I became aware of this situation, I felt afraid, everyone will have their own emotions, sorrow, anger, joy and sorrow, but a person's inner space is often not as inclusive as a hundred rivers, often only the size of a fist.
I deeply understand this truth, a person will have his own emotions, but a person's emotions accumulate too much and cannot be vented, that is terrible, just like such a saying, when the pain is unbearable, a person will sooner or later hold back an illness, sometimes on the verge of death.
04
Sometimes in life, I often appreciate those people who are very aggressive, say what they should say, laugh when they should laugh, and they will not feel sorry for their tears even when they should cry, sometimes this is not a kind of self-catharsis?
Over the years, there seem to be more and more people with mental illness, and even the people and things that happen around you are not as unusual as they used to be.
The more rapidly the material world develops, the easier it is for one's spiritual power to anchor in a barren and shallow state.
In the era of material scarcity, people at that time could be said to have strong enough spiritual strength to survive the sorrows of food and clothing again and again.
However, now, the material level has almost improved a lot for many of us, but there are more and more problems exposed in our hearts.
Ridicule, blows, sarcasm, wearing small shoes, family changes, worldly beatings, unemployment, broken love, bankruptcy, debt, being left out, loneliness, being bullied, being bullied, these are the sufferings that can be seen everywhere, at any time, and often encountered.
05
The indignation is unremitting, and the anger is unremitting.
The living environment is never as simple as you think, if you don't adjust yourself in time and leave yourself a little time to talk, a person's heart will naturally not accumulate enough strength to resist the back-and-forth of the outside world.
After all, a person must find a way that suits him and cure himself.
Everyone should become their own psychiatrist, figure out some skills of seeing, hearing and asking, often check their pulse, ask questions, and prescribe suitable prescriptions, so that they can continue to resolve the anger in your heart bit by bit, and will not go to the tragic situation of deep depression.
There is often no love and hate for no reason in life, and the longer a person's emotions are suppressed, the heavier the burden in his heart will naturally be, and sooner or later he will eventually reach the point where he can't let go of his feelings for a day.
The embankment of thousands of miles collapses in the anthill, sometimes because the foundation is not so solid for a long time.
Ten thousand laws are idealistic.
In this world, people always put too much attention into the bells and whistles outside, and rarely gather a little energy to really talk to themselves, and constantly consolidate the energy in their hearts.
Most of the pain in life often needs to be self-digested, heart disease still needs heart medicine, the bell still needs to tie the bell, the intricate situation, but also a person needs to have a hard sober understanding, the internal cause determines the external cause, and calmly responds.
It was only on the path of practice and writing that I finally figured out one thing, that the greatest ability or wisdom of a person in this life is that the state of mind should change with the heart, and it is precisely not that the mind changes with the situation, otherwise no matter where you go or what kind of things you go through, it will be a personal disaster.
The rain is so heavy that it doesn't moisten the grass without roots, the Dharma is boundless, and it doesn't cross the people who have no fate.
It is said that words have power, I hope so, and I also hope that my words have such a power to heal people's hearts and bring warmth.
My friend's child was depressed, and I had a stronger understanding of the meaning of my writing.
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