Author: Wen Qiusheng
Original article, plagiarism must be investigated
01. Introduction
Love, the most torturous thing is that you fall in love with someone, but you don't know if she is emotional about you, you guess all day long, but you have no clue.
Love, there must be traces, and neither is love.
In the process of getting along with her, you must be able to feel her reaction, her attitude, and the temperature she transmits to you.
Women don't have feelings for you anymore, two words: rejection.
02. Reject your proximity and psychologically do not accept
Women don't have feelings for you, so they want to keep a long distance from each other. She always exudes a "don't get close" aura to you.
As soon as you get a little closer to her, she will arm herself with guard and indifference.
She doesn't accept you psychologically, and only treats you as an ordinary friend, colleague, or classmate.
She was able to maintain the most basic courtesy and friendliness within the safe distance she had set.
As long as you break through her safe distance, her rejection will be unobstructed.
She has no feelings for you and has never seen you as an object to develop affection for, so she doesn't want to waste time on you.
Even if you show favor to her, take the trouble to please her and buy her a gift she likes. She won't be touched, she won't give you any chance.
A woman who loves you will take the initiative to approach you and will long for you to step into her world step by step.
She has already opened the door of her heart, ready to welcome you in.
03. Reject you from speaking and feel that your values are incompatible
A reader named Lin Qiao confided in me.
She said she was arranged by her parents to go on a blind date and have an awkward conversation with a man in a café.
She felt like she was living like a year, and finally found an excuse to slip out.
It can be seen that the man has a crush on her and keeps sending her messages and asking her to go out to play. However, she felt that the man was not the same kind of person as herself, and refused directly.
The man began to follow the strategy of saving the country by taking the initiative to visit Lin Qiao's parents, and was left by his parents for dinner.
At the dinner table, the man talked eloquently and pointed out the country. He also expressed his opinions on the current economic situation, quoted scriptures, and went out of control.
Lin Qiao didn't even finish the meal, so she said that the company had something to deal with temporarily, and she had to deal with it, so she got rid of the nightmare like a teaching director.
A woman doesn't have feelings for you, probably because you are not the type she likes, and there is too much gap between her and her three views.
When two people talk together, she will feel very strained. It's like a chicken talking to a duck, and it's like two people pointing fingers through the glass, and they never get the word out.
Women reject you from speaking because there is too much gap in their values.
She likes petty bourgeois romance, while you talk a lot about the social situation; She likes to listen to sad music, watch literary movies and cry silently, and you say "those who act are crazy, and those who watch dramas are fools".
People in the two worlds can't get along at all, and even if they are forced together, they can only be repulsed.
A woman who loves you loves to talk to you, as if there are endless topics to talk about.
When I am with you and talk, she will feel very sweet and happy.
04. Reject your "merits" and don't appreciate you at all
In "Little Days", after Petunia met Shen Yoyo, he felt that she was a very perfect woman.
He pursued her with all his might.
first confessed affectionately downstairs where Shen Yoyo worked, but she felt that he was grandiose and refused directly.
After that, he learned from Shen Yoyo's circle of friends that her family's water pipe had burst, so he volunteered to come to the door with tools. At this time, Shen Youyo had already repaired the water pipe by himself, but still refused his kindness.
Even later, Petunia managed to enter the same company as her, buy her breakfast, deliver coffee, and stand up for her when she was ostracized and targeted.
Shen Yuyo, still unable to appreciate him.
This is because, from the beginning, Shen Yoyo had no feelings for him. I only feel redundant with everything he does.
If a woman doesn't feel for you, no matter how good or rich you are, it will be difficult for her to be tempted.
She doesn't appreciate your merits at all, and she seems indifferent to everything you have done.
Women who don't love you will reject your merits and reject your overtures.
Perhaps, you are a quality partner in the eyes of others, a potential stock. In her eyes, she is just an ordinary person.
A woman who loves you deeply will see your merits and will feel that you are the most perfect man in the world.
05, Wen Qiusheng's message
Women have no feelings for you, and the more you do it, the more she will reject you and hate you.
When your efforts and pursuits become an interruption, don't continue.
Men, manage themselves with their hearts and cultivate their own minds. Believe that you will eventually meet someone who truly appreciates you and reap a romantic love.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.