The choice of mother's love: the road to retirement in her son's home
As the sun sets on the quiet street, I sit in the living room of my son's house with an open photo album of photos of me and my son when we were young. It was my first day moving to my son's home for retirement, and my heart was full of anticipation and anxiety. However, I never imagined that a small habit would make me make a big decision.
"Mom, you just came, are you still used to it?" My son, Xiao Li, asked me with concern.
I smiled and replied, "It's good, you're busy with work, don't worry about me." ”
However, it wasn't long before I found that every time I went to the toilet, my daughter-in-law Xiaoling would always follow her in. At first, I thought she just needed to use the toilet, but gradually, I realized that things were not so simple.
One day, I couldn't help but ask Xiaoling: "Xiaoling, is there any reason why you go to the toilet every time?" ”
Xiaoling hesitated for a moment, and then said softly, "Mom, I'm ...... I'm checking to see if you've dropped anything and I'm afraid you won't be able to pick it up. ”
I was stunned, and the doubts in my heart were like clouds that had been removed, and I instantly understood her intentions. It turned out that she had been silently caring for me, but in a somewhat special way.
"Mom, don't mind, I just want to make sure you're safe." Xiaoling's explanation warmed my heart.
I smiled and patted her hand: "I know, you are all good and filial children." ”
However, this incident made me think: am I really suitable for retirement here? I don't want to be a burden to my children, and I don't want them to change their lifestyle for my sake.
A few days later, I made my decision. I told my son and daughter-in-law that I was going back to my hometown.
"Mom, why do you suddenly want to go back? Is it because we don't take good care of it? Xiao Li asked anxiously.
I shook my head, took their hands and said, "No, you've done a great job. I just want to have my own space and don't want to cause you guys trouble. ”
A trace of reluctance flashed in Xiao Ling's eyes: "Mom, we will be reluctant to give you up." ”
I smiled and comforted her: "Don't worry, I won't go far, you can come to see me at any time." ”
After returning to my hometown, I started a new life. I redecorated my house, planted flowers and plants, and joined a senior interest group. I find myself having more freedom and time to do what I love.
Xiao Li and Xiao Ling often brought their children to visit me, and we spent one pleasant weekend after another together. I realized that sometimes, letting go is also a kind of love, allowing children to have their own living space while also giving themselves a fresh start.
During this new journey, I learned how to use social media and even opened my own account on Toutiao to share my life and insights. I have found that retirement does not mean the end of life, but a new beginning, full of infinite possibilities and fun.
"Mom, your headline article is so well written, I'm a little jealous." Xiao Li said jokingly.
I smiled proudly, "Thank you, son." It's the joy I find in my new life. ”
My story resonated in the headlines, and many seniors like me began to share their retirement experiences. We encourage each other, learn from each other, and explore this new phase of life together.
In this process, I learned that caring for the elderly is not just about waiting for the care of my children, but also a process of self-realization and self-growth. I learned to be independent, I learned to enjoy life, and I learned how to treat myself and my family with love and tolerance.
Now, whenever I sit in the garden and look at the blooming flowers, I think of the days when I was in retirement at my son's house. I am grateful for that experience because it made me cherish my current life more and also made me stronger and more independent.
"Mom, we're here!" Xiao Li's voice came from outside the door, interrupting my thoughts.
I greeted them with a smile: "Come in, today I made your favorite braised pork." ”
Life goes on, and I will continue to write my own wonderful chapter on my retirement journey.