#头条创作挑战赛#
Text by Kusushiba
Introduction: If you are tired, in pain, and don't love it, just click on this passage to take a look! Very healing.
01
There is a saying that childhood misfortunes take a lifetime to heal.
When Xiao Rou looked at the mess all over the ground, looked at her grandmother who was sitting on the ground crying, and looked at her grandfather who had long since gone away, Xiao Rou didn't even believe in love.
Xiaorou is tired and painful, and she can't love anymore.
Gradually, Xiao Rou became covered in thorns, refusing to approach anyone and resist anyone's approach.
How many people are like Xiao Rou?
obviously longs for love, but in the end, he was hurt by love, and he gradually had to refuse love.
No longer believe that there is true love in the world, and no longer believe that there is true love in the world, a person hides in his own world alone, tasting the taste of loneliness alone.
There is a saying that when Heaven closes one door, it opens another window for you.
It is better to bravely accept the present moment and reconcile with yourself, so that there are countless possibilities in life and a new beginning.
Don't run away, don't be afraid, life is all about learning from others in order not to let yourself fall.
02
Tired, painful, not loving.
Probably hurt, probably hopeless, probably not seeing the light, probably not seeing hope.
Life is like this, there will always be a dark time, there will always be a time that is difficult to let go.
The past reminds us to fight for strength in the present moment and live for yourself.
Although the future is unknown, although everything is like this, we must face it with a transparent heart, a relieved heart, and an open-minded heart.
Thirty years in the east of the river, thirty years in the west of the river, it is impossible to never be smooth, nor can it be in the quagmire forever.
Life has its ups and downs, sometimes it's not good, sometimes it's going to last for a day or two, or even for a while.
But I also told myself in my heart that this is the norm, which means that I am going uphill, which shows that I am growing.
Use successful methods to break through over and over again, use successful methods to heal yourself over and over again, if it really doesn't work, then change another way until you get better.
03
The most difficult thing for people to cross is themselves, it is always easy to persuade others, and it is always easy to cross others.
But when things really happen to you, you will panic, you will be sad, and you will think too much.
Tired, painful, not loving.
How did you deal with it? Maybe lock yourself in your room like most people, maybe resist the world like most people.
There is always a time when there is no sunshine, no rain and dew, no life.
But on second thought, isn't that what life is all about? Every day I adjust my mood, every day I adjust my state.
Everyone is trying to learn to reconcile with themselves, and everyone is struggling.
There are sufferings and pains, this is normal, there are sorrows and joys, this is also normal, people have seven emotions and six desires, everything is normal.
So don't give up on yourself at any time, you will eventually believe that you are a budding flower that will eventually bloom.
04
It's really easy to lie flat, it's really easy to give up, and it's rare to be able to live calmly after being in pain, tiredness, and love.
I won't complain about life, and I won't give up on myself.
Everyone has only one life, the first time they have come to this world, the first time they have been a human being, and they are inevitably afraid of life.
After suffering countless injuries and paining for a long time, I gradually realized that this is life.
There will be no numbness, no lack of consciousness, experience with your own life, experience with your own life, everything is the best arrangement.
Tell yourself that no matter how painful it is, no matter how uncomfortable it is, you must learn to heal yourself by yourself.
There can be countless failures in life, and there can be countless losses in life, but there can be countless times of giving up in life.
Prove your worth, feel the meaning of your life, and everything will be beautiful.
May everyone be reborn in Nirvana.
05
If this world is indifferent, but your heart should not be cold, it should be warm.
No matter what kind of relationship you have, don't expect the other person to be kind to you, let alone love you.
In fact, the love given by others is the icing on the cake, and it doesn't matter if you don't have yourself.
When two people meet, know each other, and be able to come together, it is actually a kind of fate, but also a blessing.
Don't think it's absolute, the other party must not let you down, otherwise what will happen to you?
You must be determined, but you must not forget your original intention, and there is no need to push yourself to a dead end.
If one day, you don't love anymore, then you don't love, let go, let him find his own sky, let him be free.
In the dark, fate gathers and scatters, everything follows fate!
Therefore, if you deal with it calmly, you will not be tired in life.
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