In today's society, big guys always like to label people, dividing them into "smart top faction" and "cute and silly white sweet".
But guess what?
Those who are branded as "smart" are often those slippery ghosts who are clever and love to take advantage; And those who are called "fools" are those who are honest and straightforward and unwilling to care.
This world is sometimes so upside down black and white, and it's so fun.
The little cleverness that mixes in the streets and alleys, as soon as he meets the master, he immediately reveals his true form.
Why? Because the real master doesn't eat that set, he can see through your careful thinking at a glance, just like watching a monkey show, which is boring and a waste of expression.
As a result, these "smart people" have been going around in small circles all their lives, and they have nothing to do.
On the other hand, those honest people who seem to be stunned often get the favor of big people.
Why? Because they are sincere, they don't play false, they eat as much as they want, they don't exaggerate, they don't pretentious, they get along with such people, they are down-to-earth, and they are naturally popular.
To say that the best smart people in the world are not showing off their skills in front of smart people, but not pretending in front of "fools".
They don't waste time on inconsequential people and things, this calmness and calmness is the real kung fu.
Speaking of which, I have to mention Du Yuesheng, who started in the underworld, but later he was able to turn around gorgeously and walk on the right path.
This guy is the kind of ruthless character who can not only play clever, but also play with great wisdom, and he is simply a fighter among human spirits.
Back then, the newspapers and magazines in Shanghai Tang did not make a lot of fun of his black material, and the "Life" weekly chased him and "made headlines" for him every day.
If it were someone else, he would have been angry a long time ago and would have come to the door to smash the field.
But Du Yuesheng was biased, he didn't laugh angrily, asked his subordinates not to be rude, and helped to solve the siege in private, so that the editor-in-chief escaped.
This wave of operations has directly turned the opponent into an ally, so it's amazing!
Later, there was a "traitor" named Wu Shaoshu who dared to break ground on Tai Sui's head and openly sang against Du Yuesheng.
Du Yuesheng was generous at first, and gave him a chance to turn back, but unfortunately people didn't appreciate it.
The result? As soon as Du Yuesheng made a move, he joined his brother Dai Li, and easily let this kid plant a big heel and make people happy!
Therefore, treating people with sincerity is fundamental, but we must also have skills for those who don't know what to do.
This is like singing, you have to be able to perform on and off the stage in order to sing a good show.
To be a man, you must not only have the heart of a bodhisattva, but also have thunder means, and both hands must be hard, this is the true meaning of walking the rivers and lakes!