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Huang Yimei first met Zhuang Guodong at a party.
He looks like he's stepped off the cover of a magazine, with a charming smile and a confident stride.
As soon as Zhuang Guodong saw Huang Yimei, he felt that there was a special light in her eyes, like fireflies on a summer night, which made him unable to take his eyes off.
Their encounter is like a classic scene in a movie, the moment they look at each other, it seems that the whole world is quiet.
Zhuang Guodong took the initiative to step forward, introduce himself, and casually chatted about the weather of the day.
Although Huang Yimei felt that this opening statement was a bit old-fashioned, she was also infected by his sincerity and humor.
Before they knew it, the two of them chatted, from their favorite movies to their favorite books, and then to their respective dreams and life goals.
That night, they laughed so much as if they had known each other for many years.
In the following months, Huang Yimei and Zhuang Guodong were almost inseparable.
Whether it's a weekend walk in the park or a late-night phone chat, there's always something to talk about.
Zhuang Guodong would prepare a surprise candlelit dinner for her, and she would give him a hand-knitted scarf on his birthday.
The two are immersed in sweet love, as if there are only the two of them in this world.
However, as time went on, some minor issues began to surface.
Huang Yimei found that Zhuang Guodong sometimes disappeared inexplicably for a whole day, and his mobile phone could not be contacted.
Zhuang Guodong felt that Huang Yimei sometimes interfered too much with his work and always asked for details, which made him feel a little depressed.
At first, they will try to communicate, but each time it ends in an argument.
Huang Yimei felt that Zhuang Guodong was not honest enough, and Zhuang Guodong felt that Huang Yimei did not trust him enough.
These contradictions are like snowflakes that accumulate and eventually form an avalanche that cannot be melted.
Once, the two had a big quarrel over a trivial matter, and Huang Yimei was so angry that she slammed the door and walked out.
At that moment, she realized that what was lacking between them was not only understanding, but also tolerance and trust.
After a night of calm thinking, Huang Yimei decided to end the relationship.
She understands that continuing to be together will only make each other more miserable.
In the days after the breakup, Huang Yimei began to reflect on this relationship.
She admits that she also has shortcomings, but at the same time understands that love requires two people to work together, and unilateral efforts cannot sustain long-term happiness.
Although the breakup hurt her heart, she also learned a lot from it and became more mature and independent.
When Huang Yimei was still healing, Fang Xiewen appeared.
That afternoon, Huang Yimei was flipping through books in a café, and Fang Xiewen happened to be sitting opposite her.
His gaze lingered on her face for a moment, as if to watch her every move.
Fang Xiewen has never been the kind of handsome guy who amazes the four, but there is an indescribable attraction in his eyes and speech.
When Huang Yimei raised her head, the eyes of the two happened to meet, and Fang Xiewen showed a warm smile, which made her feel inexplicably warm at this moment.
Fang Xiewen did not immediately take the initiative, but chose a more roundabout strategy.
He first appeared at the place where Huang Yimei frequented by chance, and approached her under the banner of various coincidences.
He found that Huang Yimei likes small animals, so he excused himself by saying that he also had a cat, hoping to exchange some cat raising experience with her.
Huang Yimei was a little wary of this sudden appearance of the man at first, but as time went on, she found that Fang Xiewen was indeed an interesting person, with unusual delicacy and patience.
In order to further bring the relationship between the two closer, Fang Xiewen rented a house near Huang Yimei's residence.
He says he loves the quiet neighborhood and wants to find inspiration here.
Huang Yimei felt that this reason was a bit far-fetched, but she couldn't deny that this arrangement gave them a lot more opportunities to meet.
Gradually, they went from seeing each other occasionally to meeting every day.
Fang Xiewen's appearance has become a landscape in Huang Yimei's life, making her gradually forget the pain of the past.
After a long time, Fang Xiewen's existence became indispensable to Huang Yimei.
They drink coffee, go to the park, and talk about trivial things in life.
Huang Yimei found that Fang Xiewen was always able to make her laugh in a unique way.
This light-hearted feeling was something she hadn't felt for a long time, and she felt like she had rediscovered her passion and motivation for life.
Fang Xiewen also inadvertently revealed his good impression of her, and there was always a hint of sweet ambiguity between his words.
After graduating, Fang Xiewen originally had the opportunity to go to Beijing for development, but he chose to stay in Shanghai.
This made Huang Yimei feel both surprised and moved.
Fang Xiewen said that there are people and things in Shanghai that he cares about and does not want to leave here.
Huang Yimei knew in her heart that the so-called "person he cared about" was actually her.
This feeling of being valued and cherished warmed her heart.
The relationship between the two has gradually become deeper in this kind of long-term relationship.
However, as the relationship deepened, some of Fang Xiewen's actions began to make Huang Yimei feel uneasy.
He was always very concerned about her whereabouts, and even sometimes showed an overly protective desire.
Huang Yimei thought it was just a way for him to show his love, but she slowly realized that this kind of care seemed to be mixed with some kind of control.
Whenever she had her own arrangements, Fang Xiewen would always find various reasons to persuade her to change her plans, and even sometimes get a little angry.
Huang Yimei and Fang Xiewen's relationship quickly warmed up, and soon they began to discuss marriage.
That day, Fang Xiewen said to Huang Yimei with a serious face: "Let's get married, I will make you happy."
Huang Yimei looked at him, and a sweet warm current surged in her heart.
She felt like she had found someone who was willing to give everything for her.
But as the wedding date approached, the real problems gradually became apparent.
Although Fang Xiewen's family background is not poor, there is still a gap between him and Huang Yimei's family.
Huang Yimei's parents are typical middle-class and have many expectations and requirements for her marriage.
Fang Xiewen comes from an ordinary family, his parents are working-class, and his financial situation is not well-off.
Despite these gaps, Huang Yimei decided to marry Fang Xiewen without hesitation.
She feels that these external things do not determine the happiness of two people.
She firmly believes that as long as two people truly love each other, any difficulties can be overcome.
In order to prove her determination and dedication to marriage, Huang Yimei decided to help Fang Xiewen start a business.
When Fang Xiewen proposed a business plan, Huang Yimei did not hesitate to take out her savings to support his dream.
She feels that this is not only the support of the other party, but also an investment in their future.
However, things did not go as smoothly as Huang Yimei imagined.
In the early days of the business, Fang Xiewen's company encountered many difficulties, such as shortage of funds, fierce market competition, and poor business development.
Although Huang Yimei was anxious, she still stood firmly by Fang Xiewen's side and encouraged him not to give up.
She believes that as long as the two of them work hand in hand, they will eventually usher in the dawn.
In the process of starting a business, Fang Xiewen's performance also made Huang Yimei feel a little uneasy.
He began to become impatient, and he had to personally inquire into every detail of the company, and he didn't even allow Huang Yimei to meddle in any affairs.
Fang Xiewen's behavior made Huang Yimei feel a little depressed, but she understood that it was not easy for him to start a business, so she chose to support it silently.
After a long time, Huang Yimei gradually discovered that Fang Xiewen's desire to control her was not only limited to her career, but also extended to all aspects of life.
Fang Xiewen didn't like Huang Yimei to go out with friends, and did not support her to continue working, feeling that she should take care of the family at home wholeheartedly.
Huang Yimei began to feel that her freedom was being deprived little by little, and her inner uneasiness intensified.
What made Huang Yimei feel most depressed was the attitude of her mother-in-law and Fang Xiewen towards family responsibilities and the distribution of housework.
No matter what happens at home, the mother-in-law is always on her son's side.
Fang Xiewen is busy with work every day, but when he comes home, he never participates in housework, but pushes everything to Huang Yimei.
Her mother-in-law also "pointed out" from time to time, making Huang Yimei feel that she was not only serving her husband, but also making cattle and horses for her mother-in-law.
Once, Huang Yimei couldn't help but complain to Fang Xiewen: "Your mother is always picky about what I do, I really can't stand it."
Fang Xiewen said disapprerovingly: "She just wants our family to be better, you can bear with it."
When Huang Yimei heard this, she only felt half cold.
She began to wonder what the marriage was for.
In this oppressive atmosphere, Huang Yimei gradually lost her enthusiasm for life and hope for the future.
She found herself becoming more and more silent, more and more lonely.
Fang Xiewen's control and her mother's interference turned her originally beautiful married life into an endless torment.
She began to miss that time of freedom and freedom, and she also began to think about how to continue her life.
Huang Yimei walked out of that marriage full of control and hurt, and welcomed the beginning of a new life with a heart full of hope.
Life after the divorce was not easy, but she gradually regained balance in her life with the support of friends and family.
The appearance of Fu Jiaming and He Xi became a new highlight in her life.
Fu Jiaming's humor and sincerity made Huang Yimei feel the warmth of being loved again, while He Xi's carefulness and thoughtfulness made her feel the importance of being respected.
She began to slowly open up in a new relationship, letting go of all the unhappiness and troubles of the past.
Huang Yimei, who regained her freedom, also began to regain her career and interests.
She is no longer bound to the trivialities and control of her family, but bravely pursues the life she wants.
She returned to social activities, expanded her social circle, and enjoyed life with her friends.
This new life is full of hope and possibility.
Huang Yimei gradually regained her smile and self-confidence in the company of Fu Jiaming and He Xi.
She has learned to free herself from the pain of the past and cherish the happiness and beauty in front of her.