Recently, there was a news that attracted a lot of attention in Nanjing, an old man fell down after drinking, but he falsely accused the kind rider, and afterwards the kind young man not only did not get the due thanks, but was also reprimanded by the old man's family in public. And the occurrence of this scene also reminds us of the label of shame, whether to help or not and "you didn't hit it, why do you want to help".
What the hell is going on? Why is it that it is obviously a well-intentioned help, but it leads to such misunderstandings and blackmail?! Or, behind this, what should we reflect on?
1. Do bad things with good intentions, but be thanked for being falsely accused
A septuagenarian in Nanjing fell after drinking and was in a critical condition. And at this time, a rider happened to pass by, he did not choose to ignore it, but like other well-wishers, he chose to call 120 to call the police, and at the same time kept guarding the old man until the old man's family arrived at the scene.
In the process of all this, the rider's every move was recorded by the helmet camera device on his body, and when the rider thought that everything was over, he did not expect that the old man's family had falsely accused him for no reason and demanded compensation from the rider.
For such misunderstanding and blackmail, the rider also felt very aggrieved, after all, everything at that time was for good intentions, but he didn't expect that it would be exchanged for such a result. At this time, the helmet camera device on his body became the key to solving the problem, which clearly recorded everything the rider did, and also proved that he was not the so-called perpetrator, everything was just a misunderstanding.
When the family members of the old man saw this video, they also felt very ashamed and guilty, after all, at the beginning, they did not have an in-depth understanding, so they lied to the kind rider. Now, there is such evidence, and they also express their sincere apologies and thank the riders for their help in times of crisis.
At this point, it seems that the matter has been satisfactorily resolved, the injustice of the kind-hearted rider has also been cleared, and the family of the elderly can also get a certain amount of reflection and vigilance from such a thing.
Second, whether you can help or not becomes a scar in your heart
After this incident, I believe that many people's hearts are very complicated, after all, such misunderstandings and blackmail are not the first time in our lives. Before that, there were many similar cases, some of which didn't even end so happily.
It can be said that such an incident has become a scar in our hearts, and every time it happens, it will touch and affect us to varying degrees, and it also makes us full of contradictions and confusion about the world.
Before this, we always believed from beginning to end that good people will be rewarded, and every time they pay, they will definitely be looked at, but through such things, we seem to understand that real life is not so beautiful, good intentions do bad things, and wicked people can get away with it.
Just like the previous news, after a girl got off the bus late at night, she encountered an unknown stranger, and the people around her clearly saw the girl's request for help, but no one dared to step forward, for fear that such a move would have a bad impact on herself.
In the end, the girl had no choice but to leave by herself, and this scene was also filmed by the surveillance on her body, and it was heartbreaking that no one could lend a hand and give the girl a trace of help, and all of them chose to ignore it.
The problem of whether to help or not seems to have become more and more serious, and it also makes our hearts full of struggles and contradictions.
Third, the problem of helplessness and helplessness
More and more people are beginning to realize that the problem of whether to help or not in real life is not as simple as we imagined, but full of all kinds of helplessness and helplessness.
Behind everyone, there may be his own hardships and considerations, maybe he doesn't want to help, but is afraid that his momentary kindness will bring unexpected troubles and troubles to himself.
This kind of question is also something we can't speculate and judge, after all, everyone's thoughts and situations are different, and only when we are truly in it can we feel the inner struggle and contradictions.
For us, perhaps what we should do is not to be harsh on others, but to start from ourselves, so that the problem of whether we can help or not will no longer become an endless scar, but be able to let go and understand, and give more tolerance and tolerance.
Everyone may encounter a time when they need help, and we also hope that we can get sincere help and understanding from others, so when facing the problem of whether to help or not, we may be able to think from the perspective of the other party, maybe we can give more encouragement and support, and let the world be filled with more warmth and hope.