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Text: Yening Wantang said entertainment
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Preface
Love, is it the most beautiful gift in life, or the cruelest torture? It will give you a sweet and intoxicating feeling, but it will also bring heart-rending pain.
Shi Nansheng's story may provide the answer.
, a former strong woman in the Hong Kong film industry, once gambled desperately for love, but in the end she was exchanged for pain and betrayal.
But she didn't sink there, but used her talent and tenacity to shine again and achieve something extraordinary.
Let's unravel the secrets of love together.
1. Bright Star Journey
In the 1980s, Hong Kong's film and television industry was booming.
In this golden age, a talented woman is gradually emerging - she is Shi Nansheng.
With a keen sense of smell and outstanding planning ability, Shi Nansheng soon became a rising star in the Hong Kong film industry and attracted much attention.
At that time, Shi Nansheng had a capable and neat personality, shrewd and strong, and was completely a model of a strong woman.
Many peers looked at her differently and secretly regretted this beauty's status as a "single aristocrat".
Who would have thought that this seemingly lofty woman would also be injured by the arrows of Eros?
The twist of fate came from a young director who returned from abroad - Tsui Hark.
This talented newcomer left a deep impression on Shi Nansheng.
Tsui Hark is full of enthusiasm and has lofty ideals and ambitions for film creation, which is exactly what Shi Nansheng's 'Filipino' heart is.
Two like-minded souls soon collided in the temple of art.
2. Know each other
In the face of Tsui Hark, a "madman", Shi Nansheng was really impressed by his enthusiasm and talent.
She sincerely admired the young man's dedication to his career and was even more moved by his idealism.
As a result, an unusual relationship gradually warmed up between the two.
Compared with Tsui Hark's young and vigorous appearance, Shi Nansheng is more sophisticated and stable.
She knows very well that in this circle, it is difficult to rely on individual talent to blossom everywhere.
Therefore, when Tsui Hark proposed the idea of starting his own film company, Shi Nansheng did not say a word and chose to fully support it without hesitation.
Investment? No problem, she can make a big stroke.
Connections? It's even more at your fingertips.
With years of experience and interpersonal relationships accumulated in the film and television industry, Shi Nansheng is like a wise mentor who has created a near-perfect entrepreneurial environment for Tsui Hark.
In addition to the emotional fit, Shi Nansheng and Tsui Hark are the best partners in their careers.
The two joined forces and set off a bloody storm in the film industry.
Tsui Hark is in charge of creation, and Shi Nansheng is good at planning and operation, and the two work together seamlessly, and the works are remarkable.
In this way, with the full support of Shi Nansheng, Tsui Hark soon became a hot "ghost director".
His fame is getting bigger and bigger, and Shi Nansheng's dedication is obvious to outsiders.
No one thought that with the rapid development of their careers, their feelings were slowly turning on the red light.
3. Love without love
If love is a flower that needs to be watered with heart, then fame and fortune are moths buried in the roots.
As Tsui Hark's fame grew, so did the lace news.
The paparazzi squatted at the door of the hotel, just to take ambiguous photos of him and the female star; The gossip girlfriend lined up to get to him, hoping to get his light.
In the face of all this, Shi Nansheng chose to turn a blind eye.
"It's good if he's happy", this is what she really said.
Despite knowing that the relationship is in jeopardy, she still has infinite trust in Tsui Hark, confident that he will not betray her.
However, the facts hit her hard.
On the eve of Shi Nansheng's 45th birthday, Tsui Hark announced that he would "tie the knot forever" with her on the grounds of marriage.
Shi Nansheng thought that marriage would be a solid fortress of love, which could sublimate the relationship between the two.
But who would have thought that this would become a turning point in her life.
After marriage, Tsui Hark still went his own way and was lukewarm to his wife.
He frequented bars and nightclubs and became a regular visitor to the paparazzi.
Some media even directly photographed him and Xiao San's intimacy, which is simply a ruthless humiliation of Shi Nansheng.
Faced with her husband's cheating behavior, Shi Nansheng chose to endure it silently.
She didn't want to think that those young girls who were intimate with Tsui Hark could be her daughters.
In the face of love, she chose to deceive herself, preferring to be blindfolded rather than face the cruel fact that Tsui Hark had changed her mind.
IV. Painful Thoughts
In 2014, when the news of "Tsui Hark's cheating on his 30-year-old girlfriend" appeared in the newspapers, Shi Nansheng could no longer deceive himself.
64-year-old Tsui Hark actually wants to give birth to a woman 30 years younger than him? This thunderbolt on a sunny day completely shattered Shi Nansheng's last illusion.
36 years of companionship, it turned out to be only in exchange for nothing.
The shrewd and capable strong woman in the past seemed so vulnerable and helpless under the weight of reality.
The decision to divorce was not easy, Shi Nansheng hid in the room alone, crying for a long, long time.
She didn't understand why she had given so much, but in the end it ended up like this.
The dreams of my youth have come to naught; That seemingly eternal marriage also ended in such a cruel way.
Without the "constraint" of Tsui Hark, Shi Nansheng fell into a low point in his life.
Yes, life is simply a blow and a blow to her.
When she was young, she was crazy about love and was willing to give everything for Tsui Hark; When she was middle-aged, she was brutally betrayed by that man and broke her heart.
However, every time she is on the verge of collapse, she will use her strong inner strength to regain hope in life.
After the tears, Shi Nansheng wiped away his tears and regained his strength.
She finally understands that men are not all she has, and if she loses her love, she has to go on.
So, she devoted herself to her career again, numbing herself with work, and also rediscovering the meaning of life.
5. Rebirth from the ashes
After the divorce, Shi Nansheng seems to have regained his life.
With her lonely courage and proud talent, she has successively produced popular and popular films such as "Dragon Gate Flying Armor" and "Qimen Dunjia".
Her works have won many international awards such as the Golden Mulberry Lifetime Achievement Award and the Berlin Film Festival Photography Award.
When the list of "50 Most Influential Filmmakers" was released, Shi Nansheng was impressively listed.
Only then did people discover that outside of Tsui Hark's aura, she had been shining.
She used her strength to declare to the world: A woman does not need to be dependent on a man to live a wonderful life.
This time, Shi Nansheng didn't let defeat break him.
On the contrary, it was after the fall that she actually got back to her feet.
All kinds of misfortunes on the way of life have become her stepping stones and helped her to reach a higher stage.
6. Imperdy
When people talked about Shi Nansheng again, they were surprised to find that the woman in front of them was no longer the girl who was crazy about love.
Today, she has transformed gorgeously and grown into a generation of legends.
No one connects her with Tsui Hark's past anymore, because at this moment, she is completely the master of her own life.
The boat of love is overturned, but it does not affect Shi Nansheng's demeanor at all.
On the contrary, it was Tsui Hark, who was pushed to the forefront of public opinion because of the scandal of "Happy Father".
The former "ghost director" became a street rat overnight, and everyone shouted and beat him.
It can be seen that Shi Nansheng is not a victim of fate, on the contrary, she is the master of her own life.
With her tenacious willpower and perseverance, she rewrote a glorious chapter in her life.
And that love entanglement with Tsui Hark is just an episode in her magnificent life journey.
epilogue
Shi Nansheng's life journey reveals a profound truth: although love is beautiful, it should never be the whole of women.
We must use our independent and strong hearts to hold up our own sky in order to live a truly wonderful life.
She used her personal experience to explain the importance of women's self-reliance, showing the world an inspirational example of how you can get ahead without relying on men.
When encountering setbacks, you must be like her and face them bravely, and you will eventually regain your happiness.