People are poor and their clothes are torn, and everything they say is wrong
Author丨二十八画生
来源丨星韵之声（ID：xingyunzs2018）
No one asks about the poor in the long street, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains. Although cruel, this is the social reality.
In ancient times, Su Qin, a fellow villager in Luoyang, failed to lobby the King of Qin, and he didn't even become a village head. Ragged and unkempt, he begged for food all the way home. He was greeted by "his wife is not a wife, his sister-in-law is not cooking, and his parents are not talking". It means that the wife ignores it, and she doesn't even get off the loom; The sister-in-law wouldn't even boil him a bowl of water; The parents were even more desperate, pretending not to see this destitute son, and they didn't even say a word.
Today, the richest man Ma Yun suffered repeated failures in the early days of his business, and he couldn't even afford to eat. I wanted to find a friend to borrow a few copper plates to have a full meal, but people avoided it like hiding from the new coronavirus. Talk about entrepreneurial ideas and ideas, and want to pull in a few partners. It's all like a cat chanting the scriptures there, and what I'm thinking is: I want to pull me on your back, fooling the ghost!
As the old saying goes, words suppress gentlemen, and clothes and hats suppress villains. It means not to judge people by their appearance, but to pay attention to character and knowledge. But the problem is that in real life, gentlemen are like the sun and moon in the sky, and few are like morning stars. Not everyone can be lucky. But villains emerge in endlessly, abounding, and there is nowhere to hide, and there is nowhere to hide.
So when you are not famous, but a commoner, you must understand that people are poor and their clothes are torn, and everything is wrong. The reason is very simple, since what you are saying is the truth and the golden rule, why didn't you mix up an official and a half-job? Didn't become a billionaire? Mixed with poverty? So when I don't love my uncle and my grandmother, I don't talk about it, and I talk about it in vain.
Just as the world's discourse is always in the hands of a few major powers. The right to speak in our daily lives is also in the hands of a few dignitaries and wealthy people. If you succeed and have influence, what you say is wrong, and there will be a large group of people lining up to tout and say: This is all a truth with 10,000 sentences. Even more sensual touted that there are two suns in this world, one in the sky and one in the ground, which is you.
What the common people say is right, and what they say is bitter, and the listeners will impatiently reprimand: How can you listen to your nonsense? Stay where it's cool. Therefore, a civilian will always have the right to obey, but not the right to speak.
My fellow Luoyang countryman Su Qintou finally became the joint prime minister of the six countries, which is equivalent to the prime ministers of the six countries today. When I went to Chu on a business trip, I was going to pass through my hometown in Luoyang, and my parents heard about it, and they led a group of people to knock on the pot and beat the pot in the suburbs for thirty miles. Despite his old age and illness, the old father took the lead and raised his arms and shouted welcome, welcome, warm welcome! The wife was so frightened that she knelt on the ground and didn't dare to raise her head, kowtowing like a chicken chattering rice. The sister-in-law was even more frightened and didn't dare to look at this former dilapidated uncle.
Su Qin asked her sister-in-law why she was so respectful? Why, in the past, was he so arrogant and rude, but now he is respectful? The sister-in-law replied that because of "dignity and gold". The modern words are: Uncle, you are now such a big official, and the most important thing is that you have too much gold in your waist.
After Ma Yun became famous, Ma Yun was still the same Ma Yun as before, and what he said was the same as before. But when you say it when you are poor, everyone thinks that this is a crazy person's crazy words, and a fool's dream. Now if you want to hear it, then you have to pay for the tickets, and the tickets are very expensive, so that you can listen to Jack Ma teach you the unique secrets of business success.
Those who reach help the world, and the poor are alone. When you and I are a commoner in cloth, it becomes the best choice to be alone, keep silent, talk less and observe more, do not say what is right and wrong of others, do not comment on the rights and wrongs of others, manage yourself, and do what you should do.
The so-called silence is golden, and silence is the last clear high. This is how we keep our high in the ordinary, and do not follow the crowd; Maintain your self-esteem when you are frustrated, and you have the best choice for different streams. There are countless stars in the sky, but there is only one moon. It's also good to let ordinary you and me be a star holding the moon with many stars!
Because every star is different and irreplaceable. All have their own value and rationality. Without the stars, the moon is destined to be lonely and lonely; Without ordinary you and me, this society cannot function, and successful people have no reference, so they will not become successful people, let alone audiences.
What's more, feng shui takes turns, and the prince will have a kind of Xiangning? As long as you and I have good thoughts, do not give up ideals, and do not become discouraged; Diligently and unremittingly pursuing, the heavens are fair and will take care of all sentient beings. Fate is also fair in the end and will not let all our hard work be in vain. The mulberry field becomes the sea, the sea becomes the soft field, and everything will be there.
In a word, you can talk less or even not at all when you are frustrated, but daydreaming still has to be done. What if the dream comes true?
About author:Tong Jianguo, pen name 28 painting student.