Hello everyone~ I'm Hachi
Today's babies are like treasures in the hands of their parents.
It may also be because the current family does not pursue multiple births, and the quality of children's training and education will be relatively high, and they are all pursuing high-quality growth, high-quality training, and high-quality education.
Therefore, it also makes the baby a treasure in the palm of the parents, but is there really no harm to the baby if the sense of protection is too strong? Mothers don't take it seriously, overprotection is not necessarily a good thing.
When I was in school, my teacher always said: if you rely on your parents at home and your friends when you go out, then you are born a burden.
Therefore, if the sense of protection is too strong, it will corrode the baby's own advantages, but it is easy to carry forward the baby's shortcomings, and the mother should pay attention.
Then again, if the sense of protection is too strong, what will be the impact on the baby's growth?
01
Poor ability to be frustrated
Babies who are often protected will have a poor ability to be frustrated.
Especially when the baby is learning to walk, this impact is very great, and it will delay the process of the baby learning to walk, including the learning of other basic skills, which will be affected.
Therefore, it is appropriate to let the baby experience frustration, and then encourage the baby. If the baby wrestles, the parents will feel distressed, which will also "kill" the baby.
02
Over-reliance on adults
Over-protection and over-spoiling of the baby will make the baby overly dependent on himself.
When you are young, you rely on adults, and when you grow up, it will be a defect for children, and when children need to be independent and self-reliant, parents are also old, and at this time the baby lacks self-care ability, and it will be particularly easy to give up on yourself.
Therefore, the baby does not need excessive protection in the process of growth, while avoiding danger, it is normal to let the baby experience frustration and frustration, which will help the baby grow healthily.
03
Affects mental health
Excessive protection of the baby will also affect the baby's mental health.
It will make the baby timid, selfish, and introverted, and most of the so-called "white-eyed wolves" are raised in this way.
And this will also cause great trouble to the child's future socialization, because the child himself feels noble, he has been overprotected since he was a child, and the childhood experienced by other children is completely different, so it is difficult to integrate with other children.
When the baby is 0-1 years old and has no safety awareness, the awareness of protection should be improved.
After one year old, the child will be able to express himself verbally and know how to communicate, at this time the sense of protection does not need to be too strong, and it is appropriate to improve the child's self-safety awareness and communicate with the child more, which is more useful than overprotective.
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