Text/Xia Mo
01, frontispiece
Life is like a big river, with twists and turns. Sometimes the waves are rough, sometimes the waves are calm.
There are always many accidents and opportunities.
There are many special turning points in life.
In the trough or in the mire, if we can seize the opportunity, it is easy to achieve a counterattack.
A person who is starting to get lucky will have a "turnaround".
02. Find collaborators and break through the situation
My best friend, a few years ago, opened a physical clothing store, and the business was not bad.
In recent years, business has become more and more difficult.
When she wanted to change careers and not do it, she met a friend who did goods, and it happened that she had experience in selling goods online, but she couldn't find a reliable purchase channel.
The two hit it off, one provided the source and venue, and the other used his own technology and experience to help sell.
Unexpectedly, after several months of hard work, the store was successfully revitalized.
The two of them are getting more and more comfortable, and they are also ready to expand their business and recruit some like-minded friends to do this job better.
It is not enough for people to have the ability and resources, but also for the tacit cooperation of professional talents.
In a difficult situation, if there is a reliable partner, a win-win effect can be achieved. By leveraging each other, we can reverse the defeat and make the career have greater development.
This is a kind of good luck.
Mencius said: "The time is not as good as the place, and the place is not as good as the people." ”
When you find reliable partners and rely on each other, you can work together to realize your own value and create more wealth.
03. I got some positive feedback when I did things
Hua Zhi in "Cherish the Flowers", in order to make more money, rescue the exiled Hua family men, and let the old and young women and children in the family have a stable life, she came up with a way.
She decided to sell red fruits and snacks.
After a period of hard work, the food they made was very popular.
After having some money, he bought a house and moved back to the city to live, so that a large family could see hope.
Hua Zhi also found Mr. Wenwu for the children at home, taught them to read, practice martial arts, and straighten their backs. Let them become more courageous and strong in heart.
Although she has gone through many hardships, her efforts have not been in vain, and everything has developed for the better.
There are always many ups and downs in life, and there are times when you fall into a low point.
When you are depressed, do what you can, try to find the right direction, and after you have achieved something, your heart will be more steady.
With a goal and continuous efforts, you will feel that your career is getting better and better.
Receiving positive feedback can not only improve your current material life, but also give you confidence and regain your strength.
04. Make up your mind and run towards your goal
Albert Einstein said, "Working non-stop, supported by a noble purpose, even if slow, is bound to be successful." ”
Once, in the book, I saw such an experiment:
A person, put a fly in a glass bottle and open a small mouth.
However, I only saw flies scurrying inside, and they didn't fly out until they were exhausted.
In life, many people are like this, they are not lazy, they work very hard.
However, because there is no one right goal, many things are often done, but there are no good results.
Before doing something, you must have a clear understanding of yourself.
What is suitable for what to do, and how far you can do it with your own ability, set a suitable goal.
Then, go and implement it step by step.
You'll find yourself growing faster and achieving more.
Do things with perseverance, perseverance, have a precise plan and feasible goals, do things with half the effort, and you will have better luck.
Whether it is a crisis or opposition from others, they all move forward persistently. I believe that if you persist until the end, you will definitely succeed.
05. Summary
"To be successful, you have to create your own opportunities, and you must not be foolish enough to sit on the side of the road and wait for someone to pass by and invite you to join you on the road to wealth and happiness," Gofu said. ”
It is not easy for everyone, and if you want to succeed, you will definitely take a more difficult road.
It is necessary to withstand more pressure, put in more effort and energy.
It is necessary to have a pattern of judging the situation and a sense of cooperation with others.
Work hard to cultivate yourself, improve your realm, and put it into action, and wealth and good luck will follow you.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the whole network, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotion, sexes, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.