Looking at those harmonious families,
All have one thing in common,
That is: let!
When you want to argue for reason, let go,
Don't always think about the big reason among family members;
When you want to fight for right and wrong, let go,
Harmony is sometimes more important than winning or losing!
know how to be humble,
Less chatter to blame the other party,
Don't argue about the long and the short and the other party is angry,
Less righteous indignation makes himself angry.
Maintain family harmony,
The best way to do that is to talk less!
01, Shao Grudge
A lot of families are out of harmony,
It's all because of "complaining".
A little thing, just complain about the heavens and people;
When you're in trouble, you can't stop nagging.
When a person is full of negative energy,
The house will be filled with low air pressure,
There are even times when
Because we have a bad temper,
None of our families dared to speak.
At home, complain less!
Life gives us countless challenges,
Not to make you complain,
It's to hone our minds.
Blindly complaining will consume yourself,
It can also affect relationships with family members.
Be a man, don't always complain,
Every one of us as an adult,
are the benchmark of the family,
are all role models for children,
Only we ourselves are in the right direction,
Our family will have a better development!
02. Less persuasion
It takes months for a person's habits to form;
The formation of a person's character takes years.
Regardless of the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law,
Or a husband and wife relationship,
The best way to maintain a relationship,
It is to be yourself well and ask less;
It is to seek common ground while reserving differences, and to be less demanding.
Let's not think that
Relying on his own persuasion in a few words,
can improve the other person's deep-rooted habits,
That's not going to get along with each other,
It's also hard to get along with yourself.
When we spend time with our families,
Don't always stand in the "me" position,
to consider the problem, to blame the other party,
Only by knowing how to live with tolerance can the family be harmonious;
Empathy to get along can make each other easy!
03. Less argumentation
You are not at the same level as your child,
Therefore, one thing, arguments do not produce results;
You don't have the same concept as your lover,
So they fought for it, and they didn't get recognition.
Don't embarrass yourself, man,
Especially when you get along with your family,
Any relationship requires,
Patient maintenance on the premise of love.
If you don't follow the good path, how can the child be sensible and motivated?
You always argue with reason, how can your family get along easily?
The road is walked by people,
We envy the achievements of others,
But I never saw the effort behind him.
Behind every harmonious family,
There are both husband and wife,
With generosity, tolerance, and understanding,
to create a cozy family atmosphere.
In the family,
Talking less, of course, is not a refusal to communicate;
Talking less, in fact, is not to ignore it.
but we know that
Take harmony as the premise and say less hurtful words;
Give more encouragement to your family and less complaining;
Know how to empathize and think, and say less oppressive words.
Family sometimes needs us more,
To understand, love, and encourage.
Let's work hard to run a family,
Create a comfortable family atmosphere,
Create a harmonious and happy home!