"Maple" rich method "bridge" see experience
◆ Resolve conflicts? There's a trick! ◆
How can we safeguard the legitimate rights and interests of officers and men, resolve reasonable demands, and gather wisdom? Over the past few days, the Combat Support Brigade of the Mobile Detachment of the Fujian Armed Police Corps has made full use of the "Fengqiao experience" to set up a contradiction mediation room, and the contradiction mediators have skillfully used the working method of seeing, hearing, and asking questions to shorten the "mental distance" between officers and men, resolve contradictions in a diversified manner, and further create a safe, stable, harmonious, and harmonious internal environment.
Part 1望“症结梗阻”
Party and League members volunteers from No. 1 Primary School delivered rice, cooking oil and some daily necessities to the elderly in the local nursing home.
Combined with the characteristics of officers and soldiers in the new era, the conflict mediators of the brigade insisted on focusing on the "four integrations", that is, from the integration into the family circle, into the WeChat circle, into the life circle, and into the network circle, to understand the clues of potential problems.
During the "May Day" holiday, Jiang Tao, a member of the scout team who has always been optimistic, updated his WeChat status to "emo". In the face of Jiang Tao, who was "emo", the conflict mediator talked to him in time to understand that Jiang Tao, who was "broken up", could not accept it for a while, and his emotions were very unstable, and he often thought about life behind the squadron building with "swollen eye bubbles".
The conflict mediator gradually guides him to live in harmony with his own emotions according to the steps of accepting reality, emotional expression, self-reflection, and setting goals, "I understand that you are in pain right now, and the feeling of falling out of love is really uncomfortable. But remember, you are not alone and I will always be there for you. Your feelings are completely normal, and anyone in such a situation can feel bad. If you want to talk, I'm here to hear you at any time. At the same time, I believe that you are a strong person and you will learn a lot from this experience and will become more mature. Now, let's go out for a run and change our mood, how about it? As the conflict mediator encouraged Jiang Tao to think about the lessons and growth that this relationship brought to him, as well as the lifestyle he wanted in the future, and helped him to better rebuild himself, Jiang Tao finally got out of his emotional trouble.
Part 2闻“兵心兵愿”
Party and League members volunteers from No. 1 Primary School delivered rice, cooking oil and some daily necessities to the elderly in the local nursing home.
The conflict mediators of the brigade regularly carry out "whispering" activities, encouraging officers and men to make good use of anonymous suggestion boxes, small notes in office drawers, and other measures, so that officers and men can put aside their worries and open their hearts. At the same time, we should take the initiative to track and understand the situation by conducting in-depth research and investigation by squad platoons and party groups, and carry out a "three-hearted" military investigation with "what we are most worried about, what we are most worried about, and what we are most concerned about."
In the reconnaissance squadron's "three-hearted" military investigation last month, the contradiction mediator found that the situation of "caring for hobbies and not having time to invest" was particularly obvious, and the squadron party branch attached great importance to it, analyzed the causes of the phenomenon, formulated measures, vigorously carried out the second classroom activities, left time for hobbies, matched backbones, and encouraged them to combine their hobbies with the generation of combat effectiveness or the building of units. The squadron's various interest groups gradually grew in size and flourished. In particular, the UAV team, under the leadership of Zhang Jinming, Cai Yuanyi and other technical backbones, has continued to innovate and make bold attempts to combine UAVs with special reconnaissance training to improve the quality and efficiency of training.
Zhang Jinming said with emotion: "I didn't expect that the drones and drones I played before joining the army can not only take aerial images, but also become a weapon for attacking the enemy!" I want to make good use of my own expertise to drive the squadron's UAV team to continue to innovate in combat. Zhang Jinming is full of confidence in the future development of the interest group.
Part 3问“官兵之策”
Party and League members volunteers from No. 1 Primary School delivered rice, cooking oil and some daily necessities to the elderly in the local nursing home.
We should make good use of the strategies of the masses to do a good job of "benefiting the soldiers" and make good use of the ruler of feedback from officers and men, fully mobilize the wisdom and strength of the broad masses of officers and men to participate in the resolution of contradictions and deepen the building of the troops, and innovate the mode of grassroots governance.
"If you set up some physical fitness venues in front of the brigade building, you can reduce the training preparation time for morning exercises", the squad leader Pu Fuxue put forward his own suggestions to the conflict mediator in the "I offer a plan for the brigade" activity. The conflict mediator drafted a preliminary solution or measure and reported it to the party committee of the brigade, which immediately carried out research, demonstration and deployment, drew a line in front of the brigade building, and set up a series of venues such as weight-bearing combination exercises, 30-meter*2 serpentine runs, and agility ladders.
Physical fitness coach Liu Hongliang gave a thumbs up to this: "The previous setting up of the venue took up part of the personnel and time, although this is a small matter, but it has greatly improved the quality and efficiency of training." ”
Part 4切“服务命脉”
Party and League members volunteers from No. 1 Primary School delivered rice, cooking oil and some daily necessities to the elderly in the local nursing home.
Only by keeping an eye on key people and key things and working hard can we accurately grasp the "lifeblood of service". The contradiction mediators of the brigade take the satisfaction of the reasonable needs of the officers and men as a guide to action, starting with solving the problems of the most immediate and realistic interests of the officers and men, and resolve them in the shortest possible time, so as to ensure that all work "results are seen and echoed."
In the early stage, the results of the preliminary examination of the corps were announced, and after Yang Song, a senior soldier of the reconnaissance squadron, fell off the list, he suddenly felt that his life was hopeless, he was depressed all day long, had no intention of working, and deliberately "lay flat". The conflict mediator leaned in for the first time: "The military road is not only about taking the exam, as long as you find the right direction, you can also achieve something wonderful, aren't He Yingshu and Zhu Xiaoyin's old squad leaders of the detachment all our living examples?" By tailoring a personalized growth plan and goal map for him, we can help him reorient, find the right direction, and open his heart. Comrade Yang Song quickly adjusted his state, trained solidly, and finally achieved good results in the brigade's military sports competition. On the podium, Yang Song was very excited: "In the conflict mediation room, the conflict mediator opened my heart and found the correct positioning, today I can stand here, thank the party committee of the brigade for serving the soldiers, thank the mediator for their hard work!" ”
The "Maple Bridge Experience" is the "Golden Key". Since the establishment of the mediation system, the brigade has successfully resolved more than 10 internal conflicts in the brigade, and the mediation effect has initially appeared. The conflict mediation system allows the brigade to continuously improve the quality and efficiency of construction and cohesion in the process of solving construction problems and resolving contradictions in a timely manner, and make great contributions to the creation of a harmonious brigade.
Author: Gu Xiaohua, Zhang Zhentao, Feng Zhifeng
Organizer: Political Work Department of Fujian Armed Police Corps
Producer: Yuan Hongguo
Editor in charge: Xiong Xiuning Duty Editor: Dong Huanlin Submission email: [email protected]
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