Author: Wen Qiusheng
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01. Introduction
Love is like a cloud in the sky. It's soft, it's light, and I really want to lie on it and sleep beautifully.
Men and women are attracted to each other, and they drift apart when their patience and enthusiasm run out.
If you don't want to end up looking at each other and hating each other, you should do more things that are beneficial to your relationship when you get along.
If you keep doing the following things, the relationship between men and women will get better and better.
02. Affirm the dedication of your lover and give praise
In the process of accompaniment, we should be good at discovering the advantages of our lover, affirming our lover's efforts in life, and giving praise in time.
Your lover pays for you, in fact, deep down you also have something to look forward to. She expects you to be able to take her to heart and cherish everything she does.
Affirm, give, and praise your lover, the relationship between the two will be closer.
Don't underestimate a simple compliment and affirmation, "It's good to have you", "I'm so lucky to be able to marry you in this life", these words will ripple in the lover's heart.
Leo Tolstoy said: "Praise plays a great role not only in human feelings, but also in human intellect." ”
Your compliments will give her a full sense of accomplishment.
Husband and wife not only believe that their hard work has not been in vain, but also give each other more confidence and motivation to maintain their relationship.
As long as you keep doing it, and truly recognize your lover's contribution from your heart and cherish your lover's company, the relationship between the two people will become sweeter and sweeter.
03. Discuss big things and share more in small things
In "The Sun Accompanies Me", Sheng Xiangqian and Luo Meijuan have been married for more than 20 years.
The two people, although there are occasional quarrels, the relationship between husband and wife is always sweet and deep.
Luo Meijuan is the head of the family, Sheng Xiangqian is very protective of her family status, and always firmly implements her decisions.
In small matters, Luo Meijuan has the final say alone. In major matters, she will take the initiative to discuss with Sheng Xiangqian and come up with countermeasures.
Their son Sheng Yang is unemployed and is ready to start his own business, Luo Meijuan feels that she should support her son.
She and Sheng Xiangqian took out the family's passbook, totaled it together, and decided to use all the savings saved to support her son's career.
The husband and wife have a good relationship, and the family atmosphere is particularly relaxed and harmonious, which is enviable.
Life is in the midst of countless trivial things, mixed with some unexpected big things. It's like a rolling torrent, pushing people forward.
When two people live together, they must insist on discussing big things, sharing small things, and keeping the two of them together.
When managing relationships, you can't be too self-conscious. Always thinking about yourself will push your lover away.
To respect each other, to share, to integrate each other's strength, to make life better.
04. Communicate well when you have something, don't quarrel casually or get angry
People, when encountering contradictions and disagreements, many people can't control their emotions.
Accustomed to quarreling and angry ways to express their dissatisfaction and protests.
This is the most ineffective way.
Blindly getting angry will also continue to consume feelings and cause estrangement between each other.
Get along with each other, learn to communicate well, speak well, keep a calm mind, and listen patiently to your lover's heart.
Talk openly and honestly with each other and express your thoughts and feelings honestly. So that both parties can be aware of their own negligence and shortcomings.
In this way, the feelings will surely become deeper and deeper.
I have read this sentence: "Good communication is the cornerstone of a couple's relationship." ”
Communicating well in case of trouble and being an emotionally stable person will bring your lover more peace of mind, and your feelings for each other will be deeper.
05. Hug more, say more love words, and take the initiative to express love
If you want love to flow for a long time and never fade, you must learn to express love.
No matter how many years two people have spent together, they still don't forget to express their love.
Although life is dull and the days are always repeated, as long as you can feel love and warmth always echo between each other, your heart will be infinitely bright.
When two people are together, try to express more love in life.
For example, when you come back from work, the first thing you do is give your lover a hug to increase your intimacy.
Go on more dates and create opportunities to be alone. In a romantic atmosphere, say more love words and turn the love in your heart into sweet language.
Create a sense of ritual, add more color to life, and let feelings have better room for development.
The more they take the initiative to express their love, the more they can awaken the enthusiasm in each other's hearts and carry out the love to the end.
06, Wen Qiusheng's message
I love someone and want to be with her for the morning and twilight. I hope that when I open my eyes every day, I can see her.
If you want to keep love alive, you must learn to manage, learn to meet the inner needs of your lover, and sprinkle love in the corners of life.
The more you invest in each other's love, the more brilliant the love will be, and the lives of the two will be embellished.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.