First, the true meaning of home
For Jiang Yafei, home is the supreme place in her heart and must be maintained first. Although this girl looks cold and tough on the outside, there is an unusual tenderness and sensitivity hidden in her heart.
When Jiang Changyi suddenly came and broke the harmonious and warm married life of his father Jiang Defu and his mother An Jie, Yafei undoubtedly suffered a heavy blow. In her cognitive world, her father Jiang Defu is the most noble and admirable existence, like a solid foundation that stands forever.
However, when she found out that her father had made such a "mistake", the disappointment and indignation in her heart could not be contained.
She resolutely resisted taking family photos with her father as a way to vent her strong dissatisfaction and protest against his behavior. What Yafei didn't expect was that her mother, An Jie, who has always been outspoken and bold, would bow her head and bend her knees to her bitter mother-in-law Ge Meixia for her own sake.
Seeing her mother's dull eyes and humble posture, Yafei felt her heart cut like a knife and tears welled up.
When her aunt Dehua was snubbed by her own children, Yafei was furious again. Like her second mother, Dehua treats them as her own. Yafei decided to seek justice for Dehua, and she invited her uncle's family to dinner, and affectionately recounted her aunt's bitter experience and selfless dedication, and tears rippled with tears.
Eventually, when her mother was admitted to the hospital due to overwork, Yafei deeply realized the fragility and preciousness of family love. Seeing her father Jiang Defu guarding the bedside day and night, she could no longer suppress her inner emotions, and her tears were like water bursting the embankment.
Indeed, home is what we should cherish and care for the most.
Second, Yafei's growth path
From a gentle heart hidden under the indifferent appearance, it has gradually grown into a towering tree that can shelter her family from the wind and rain, this is Jiang Yafei's transformation and growth process.
In the beginning, she was just a thoughtful little girl. Faced with Jiang Changyi's unexpected appearance, which destroyed her parents' originally happy marriage, Yafei was deeply traumatized.
She resolutely rejected this "incomplete" family, and even refused to take photos with her family, trying to express her dissatisfaction and anger with her father in this way.
As time passed, her mother An Jie had to bow her noble head to submit to the bitter mother-in-law for the sake of her life events, which made Yafei's heart extremely heavy and her grief uncontrollable.
She did not expect that her mother, who had always been arrogant and unyielding, would whisper like a lowly servant for her, and her mother's lowered eyes and humble demeanor pierced her heart deeply.
In order to defend the dignity of her aunt Dehua, Yafei stood up for her family without fear and burst into tears. When An Jie was admitted to the hospital due to overwork, she couldn't hide the fear and uneasiness in her heart.
The maintenance of family crises and family ties gradually shaped Yafei's inner firmness and fortitude.
Gradually, this once weak little girl has grown into a big tree that can stand up to the sky and the earth and can shelter her family from the wind and rain. It is precisely because of this change in her that An Jie and Jiang Defu are willing to hand over the burden of the family to her, making her the most solid backing for the family.
3. The tortuous course of the parents' marriage
The marriage road of Jiang Defu and An Jie, an ordinary couple, has gone through magnificent twists and turns.
At first, their married life seemed peaceful and supportive. However, just as the whole family was reunited, Jiang Changyi's sudden appearance was like a thunderbolt in the clear sky, completely shattering this tranquility.
It turned out that Jiang Changyi turned out to be Jiang Defu's illegitimate son. For Yafei, this is undoubtedly shocking news. In her heart, her father Jiang Defu has always been a model of tall and mighty and well-behaved, a solid pillar that will never collapse.
However, now, she found that her father was burdened with such a "crime", and the disappointment and anger in her heart could not be described in words.
Yafei resolutely refused to take a photo with his father, trying to express his strong dissatisfaction and indignation at his actions. An Jie, on the other hand, chose to be obedient and tried his best to maintain the apparent harmony of the family, although Jiang Defu was not really honest with each other.
Just when Yafei completely lost faith in her parents' marriage, she was deeply moved by another turning point. For the sake of her marriage, her mother, An Jie, who has always been arrogant and uninhibited, had to whisper to her mean and ignorant mother-in-law Ge Meixia.
When Yafei witnessed her mother's humble gesture, her heart was filled with shock, like falling into an ice cave. An Jie's lowered eyes and helpless expression pierced her heart deeply, and she could no longer hold back her tears and cry loudly.
Before this, she had never seen such a weak side of her mother, which made her deeply experience the hardships and difficulties of maintaining a marriage It was this tragic scene that shook Yafei's heart and prompted her to re-examine her parents' marriage process Yes, although their marriage road was full of ups and downs, their parents were a pair of like-minded partners after all, and they cherished and guarded this deep affection in their own unique ways Since then, Yafei's understanding and tolerance of her parents have become more deeply rooted in the bone marrow.
Fourth, the maintenance of family affection
The bond between family members is a solid foundation that supports the long-term continuation of a family. Jiang Yafei's cherishing of family affection and selfless dedication to her relatives have just become the most powerful driving force in her growth.
First of all, let's take a look at her filial piety and maintenance of her aunt Dehua. Dehua's contribution to the Jiang family is obvious to all, but when she entered old age, she was treated indifferently and even hurt by her own children.
When they planned to bury Dehua and her late husband Wang Xiu'e together, Dehua's heart must have been filled with endless pain and helplessness, however, Dehua chose to swallow his anger and did not dare to provoke right and wrong, so he had to ask his eldest brother Jiang Defu for help.
Just as Yafei was indignant about this incident, she suddenly recalled the meticulous love and care of Dehua for their children when she was a child. Since then, Yafei has known that her aunt has a very important place in her heart.
Therefore, she decided to stand up and fight for the respect and dignity that Teckwah deserves.
Yafei invited Dehua's sons for a meeting, and she affectionately recounted her aunt's bitter past and selfless dedication, with sincere and touching words, and finally burst into tears. Her sincere plea deeply touched the hearts of her aunts and sons, and finally succeeded in convincing them to avoid the tragedy of Dehua being forced to be buried with her ex-husband.
The love between family members should not only be a one-sided request, but also need to be reciprocated. When her mother, An Jie, fell ill and was hospitalized due to overwork, Yafei once again deeply realized this.
She remembered how An Jie was busy day and night in order to prepare an 80th birthday gift for her father, and she didn't even care about eating.
When she saw the picture of her father Jiang Defu taking care of her mother An Jie in front of the hospital bed, the young daughter Yafei finally couldn't suppress the emotional torrent in her heart, and tears rolled down like rain.
The power of family affection deeply touched her soft heart, made her deeply understand the preciousness and fragility of family love, and made her know more that she should cherish and repay this affection.
Fifth, the far-reaching significance of home and prosperity
When Jiang Defu is about to enter the 80th year of his life, the whole family is carefully planning to hold a grand celebration for him. However, what is unexpected is that in order to prepare a unique birthday gift for her husband, An Jie actually put into work without sleep and food, and even neglected the time to eat.
An Jie plans to knit a set of warm and comfortable sweaters and pants for Jiang Defu, which is not only practical but also full of heart. However, as the birthday celebration approached, her production schedule seemed to be a little behind, so she decided to go all out and work day and night, leaving herself little time to rest.
Seeing this, the family was full of pity and worry, but they couldn't convince the stubborn An Jie to stop what he was doing. She was determined to complete this ingenious gift with her own hands, as she had done quietly at home for many years, without complaint.
Looking at An Jie's gradually emaciated body and tired expression, Jiang Defu's heart was also full of anxiety. However, whenever he tries to persuade his wife to take a break, An Jie always shakes his head firmly and looks at him with resolute eyes, as if telling him to "wait and see".
In this way, An Jie gritted his teeth and persevered until that unfortunate night came. Jiang Defu woke up in the middle of the night and found An Jie having passed out on the sofa, his face was pale, his breath was weak, and his life was in danger.
He immediately panicked and immediately rushed An Jie to the hospital for treatment.
When An Jie struggled back from the brink of life and death and woke up, Yafei looked at her mother's haggard face and weak body, and finally couldn't control her emotions anymore, and tears poured out like a flood that burst the embankment.
As a daughter, she felt powerless and could only watch her mother torture her body like this, and her heart was filled with endless pain.
At that moment, Yafei deeply understood the preciousness of family love, and finally saw the story behind the loving couple of her parents. In order to give her husband a special birthday gift, her mother An Jie did not hesitate to make great efforts, and even put her personal safety at risk.
When his beloved father Jiang Defu faced the dying life of his beloved partner, how could he guard the sickbed day and night, full of deep and extremely concerned love and worry? It is precisely because they cherish and maintain this beautiful marriage with such deep and sincere emotions that they have created a family full of warm and harmonious atmosphere.
The meticulous care and maintenance of her relatives have long been deeply rooted in Yafei's heart, making her grow into a tenacious "tree" in her family.