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The plot of "chasing love" and "being loved" in a live broadcast room has recently set off a huge wave on the Internet. A 41-year-old male netizen revealed that in order to please a 33-year-old female anchor "Cambodia Little 6", he had swiped gifts of 110,000 yuan within a year.
But when he finally expected to enter a relationship with his favorite female anchor, he was ruthlessly abandoned by the other party. This episode of "chasing love failed" once again pushed the familiar phenomenon of the Internet celebrity industry using fans to contribute to the moral turpitude to the forefront, causing heated discussions among netizens.
Love at first sight
According to the 41-year-old netizen's self-disclosure on the short video platform, his relationship with "Cambodian Little 6" can be traced back to April 2023. It all started from his "accosting" with the young female anchor in a private message, and after the conversation gradually got better, in the live broadcast room of "Cambodian Little 6", the other party began to hint and constantly asked him to go to show his love with gifts.
"Don't come if you don't have any money, I'm not welcome here." "Cambodian Little 6" said to him in a private message.
Although male netizens have repeatedly said that their financial ability is limited, in order to please the "goddess" in his mind, he still dominates the screen and swipes gifts in the live broadcast room of Cambodian Primary 6 to the level of the first big brother. And Cambodian Xiao 6 continued to put hypocritical pressure on him, and repeatedly used "our relationship is like this" as an excuse to coerce him to continue to show his love with gifts.
I secretly hope that I can establish a relationship between men and women
The male netizen revealed in his self-exposed article that the reason why he worked so hard was because he hoped to establish a relationship between men and women with Cambodian Xiao 6. He even admitted frankly that if he continues to consume like this, he will not even be able to make up the bride price.
But Cambodian Xiao 6 only regarded him as a financier who could be belittled and used at any time, and turned a blind eye to the emotional needs that male netizens craved and ignored them.
It is worth mentioning that although the two have formed an online "relationship" for more than a year, the male netizen has never received any private contact information from Cambodian Xiao 6, and all contact can only be through private messages on social software.
This extremely unequal "relationship" model with a huge power gap is undoubtedly worth pondering whether there is intentional manipulation and calculation by female anchors behind it.
The male netizen finally "woke up" and was blocked
In the face of Cambodian little 6's behavior of asking for gifts excessively, male netizens finally "woke up" a year later and took the initiative to say that they would no longer continue to brush gifts. As a result, Cambodian Xiao 6 immediately blocked him as if he had "changed someone", intending to rule out this "trouble" forever once and for all.
In order to find out the relationship between the two, the male netizen sent a private message to Cambodian Xiao 6 again to ask. The reply from the other party was:
"I'm not sure, but your previous gifts were all 'voluntary' from you, and they have nothing to do with me."
On the one hand, Cambodian Xiao 6 refused to give a clear definition of the relationship between the two, and at the same time implied that the behavior of male netizens who had frantically brushed gifts was just out of personal will, so don't expect to get any "return" through this. There is no doubt that these words are undoubtedly a heavy blow to the remaining expectations of male netizens. made this passion for "chasing love" come to an abrupt end, and the final ending turned out to be so "worthless".
Netizens hotly discussed: The female anchor behaved unethically
This episode quickly sparked heated discussions on the Internet, and netizens from all walks of life also criticized it harshly:
"This is the trick that female anchors often play with fans, first flirt, then sell **, and start to be the shopkeeper when they catch the gold owner."
"It's simply a living portrayal of 'social morality', an out-and-out immoral behavior."
"It's really disappointing that such a female anchor has long been spurned, and she is still complacent in the entertainment industry."
Obviously, Cambodian Little 6's scheming behavior has completely lost the last trace of the bottom line in the eyes of netizens. The unspoken rules of "traffic supremacy and disregard for morality" within the industry have once again been ridiculed and questioned.
In this regard, Cambodian Xiao 6 was even more justified in the live broadcast, saying that this was just a male netizen in his 40s harassing him, and he was just making the other party retreat. As everyone knows, this kind of excuse has already fallen into an irremediable "abyss of immorality".
Public Opinion Condemnation and Reflection: The Fall of the Internet Celebrity Economy
This failed love pursuit incident caused by an Internet celebrity anchor undoubtedly once again aroused people's concerns about "mercenary" within the industry to a certain extent, and also exposed the narrow and cruel side of the "Internet celebrity economy".
Looking at the similar incidents within the Internet celebrity circle, it is not difficult for us to find that behind the manipulation of factors such as commercial interests and money games.
The unspoken rule of blindly chasing traffic, only paying attention to how much money and resources fans pay to Internet celebrity idols, and ignoring morality and emotional reason as nothing, has obviously fallen into the quagmire of pathological development.
Comments: Netizens have multiple views
In response to this incident, in addition to the condemnation of the female anchor's behavior, netizens' comments also showed diversified views:
Although this male netizen seems to be a little too obsessed with Internet celebrities, at least he has a sincere heart. On the contrary, the female anchor was full of lies and behaved shamefully. "
But then again, it's ridiculous that a man in his 40s is so obsessed with an Internet celebrity who is 8 years younger than him. Think twice and be sober. "
"I've always been skeptical of this kind of consumption of virtual relationships through online platforms. This kind of unspoken rule that highly monetizes feelings and brutally instrumentalizes interpersonal relationships is destined to be a deformed child under the development of pathology. "
It can be seen that although most netizens have negative evaluations of the behavior of female anchors, some netizens reflect on the lack of rational judgment of male netizens.
At the same time, some netizens pointed out from a higher dimension that this is just a microcosm of the abnormal development of the "Internet celebrity economy", and whether we should reflect on the potential harm of the emotional links between people being rationalized by excessive tools in the Internet environment.
Going to the roots: Delivering the "barrenness" of emotions
Obviously, the above-mentioned incident reflects a deeper social problem: the emotional life of modern people is gradually "impoverished". It is not only reflected in the distorted relationship between Internet celebrities and fans who deliver false emotions, but also reflects the hesitation and helplessness of ordinary people towards emotional sustenance.
We can't help but ask, is the spiritual and cultural life of modern people suffering from unprecedented deprivation? Do the values dominated by instrumental rationality lead us away from the true nature of human nature? Faced with the separation of the virtual network and the real world, where will the emotional life of individuals go?
The Road to Redemption: Regaining the True Sense of Humanity
It is true that we have fallen into the "value swamp" in a highly materialistic environment, but it is not the end of the day. Only by re-examining the value and dignity of human relationships, and focusing on human care and kindness, can we finally rebuild the sincerity of emotional delivery and the authenticity of human interaction.
To this end, we should not only urge the influencer economy to re-establish industry ethics and put an end to all kinds of corrupt behaviors that take advantage of fans' feelings; Moreover, we should guide the whole society to attach importance to the concept of humanized life, oppose all instrumentalization and objectification of people, advocate individual autonomy and emotional independence, and cultivate a positive and mutually loving humanistic environment.
Only in this way can we make people care for each other and feel warm for each other, and avoid the unfortunate situation of public outcry like this from flooding society. Let's work together to inject new spiritual impetus into the rebuilding of a humane society!
Finally, I sincerely hope that this public opinion dispute of "failure to pursue love" can make each of us reflect: in the face of complicated life experiences, how should we correctly treat the independence and dignity of personal emotions?