In intimate relationships, we often hand over the emotional switch to another person, so the performance of one partner in the relationship has a huge impact on the other party.
There is a young couple, because of a meal, the emotional switch is out of control, and the emotional wife, in a fit of anger, dumps all the hard-earned meals into the trash.
Here's how it happened
Simple family of three, young mom and dad + a cute baby boy.
The husband was ready to lose weight, and the night before he told his wife that he planned to lose weight, so that his wife didn't have to bring her own portion when cooking.
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I don't know if the wife has forgotten, or is it a habit to do it, or if she doesn't take her husband's words seriously at all, after all, losing weight doesn't have to be the same as skipping meals, it's okay to eat less, the wife puts herself in her shoes, in case her husband wants to eat again, what should be done is still to be done.
Therefore, the next day's meal, the wife still made it according to the usual portion of the two.
Unexpectedly, when it was time to eat, my husband really stopped eating.
The wife who was feeding the baby stood up suddenly, picked up the garbage can, put it on the dining table, and picked up the plate and fell down violently.
A table of food was all put into the trash, and the wife suppressed her anger, held back her tears, and sat in front of the baby's chair to continue feeding the baby.
When the husband saw that his wife was angry, he was immediately blindfolded, and saw that the dinner table was embarrassed by his wife's pouring of food, and he didn't dare to squeak, so he quickly cleaned up and started cleaning the dining table.
The husband felt that since he had told his wife in advance, it was normal for him not to eat, and he couldn't understand why his wife was so angry?
In intimate relationships, we are often afraid of conflict, afraid that the other party will be unhappy, afraid of adding burden to the family or the relationship between two people because of our ignorance, so as to suppress and hide our needs, and in the long run, there may be "resentment" and "sacrifice" in our hearts.
Freezing three feet is not a day's cold, this wife, perhaps under the superposition of "resentment" and "sense of sacrifice", made such a move.
A mother takes her children to do housework alone, maybe this meal is interrupted by the baby many times before it is finished, perhaps, the wife hopes to be able to sit at the table with her husband at the table and chat, when the expectations in her heart are disappointed, there must always be an outlet for emotions.
Yes, although it is said that a man has greeted his wife in advance, in family life, sometimes there is no right or wrong, especially between husband and wife, how can there be so much truth to talk about, the most is to tolerate each other!
But any mother who has taken a child can understand that really, in such a special period, sometimes she will lose her temper inexplicably.
The stage of parenting is joyful, but sometimes it is also devastating, and it is not surprising that occasionally the superposition of emotions and sulking yourself as a vent is not a strange thing.
Some netizens also disagree with their wives getting angry in front of their children, for fear of being scared of their children.
Some people do not approve of this practice of their wives, thinking that since their husbands say that they will not eat, they will not make it for him, and they are still happy, so why not do it? Sometimes self-touching dedication can actually be very tiring, and it is also a burden for close people.
Friends, what would you do if it were you?
When your partner says that you won't eat at night, what do you bring him to eat? Or don't you take his share of the meal?
And as men, how do you deal with your wife's anger?
If there are emotions between husband and wife, in fact, they can directly explain it, confess it to each other, and have a good chat, because the suspicion between each other will make all the care become ulterior motives.
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