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Story: If only I hadn't gone to college

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Story: If only I hadn't gone to college

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Do you still remember Li Yunxi, a Henan girl who can go to the hall and the kitchen, catch fish and touch shrimp, and seems to know everything?

In her video, I saw the kind of life that everyone may yearn for in her own notes:

"You want to live a comfortable life with the same fun."

Have you ever brushed a girl called Black Pig Run on Douyin, a 23-year-old new farmer who graduated from college and returned to the countryside to start a business, whenever she sees her black pig troops all over the mountains in the video, I especially admire this is a great girl in the new era.

Just like she remarked, there is nothing left, so why not be afraid to start all over again.

If only I hadn't gone to college, I could have taken off Kong Yiji's long shirt and gone to the fields to experience the fragrance of the soil and the ups and downs of the mud.

Even if you are looking for a life partner, in the eyes of your parents, it is destined to mean that you must find a partner who is on par with your academic qualifications.

Except for what they think is an iron rice bowl, it seems that other jobs are not decent enough.

Going to college, on the contrary, is not a kind of pride, in the time is not conducive to my employment, it seems that it has already become a faint scar in the hearts of many people who go to college, secular pressure, external environment and self-emotions are often intertwined, or pain or itching, has become a survival curse for many people.

The meaning of going to college should not be like this, what can really bind a person is thought, not academic qualifications, the vast world, and great achievements.

Story: If only I hadn't gone to college.

Story: If only I hadn't gone to college

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Zhao Xiaona from Anhui said:

"I didn't go to college at the time. In this way, I can farm in my hometown with peace of mind, and no more people will say that my university was for nothing. ”

Parents and relatives often think that as long as you go to college, you are naturally not an ordinary person, and in their eyes, you should have more advantages and opportunities than those who have not gone to college, and you will not have to work hard for a few years to go to college, and you have to return to your home to farm and inherit their great career.

It seems that in the eyes of the world, such an arrangement is destined to be a loss-making transaction, and if you go to school early in the early years, you may earn enough.

Zhang Rong, a girl from around Anhui, seems to be driven crazy by her parents, and she wants her children to work hard to get an iron job, even if she has taken the exam for five or six years, her age has gradually lost her advantage, and she still hasn't gone ashore, and her hair is getting less and less, and a person's spirit is on the verge of collapse.

Life is also happy, death is not bitter, the most rare thing in life is free and easy, not a way to go to the black, if so, it is destined to no longer be the meaning and value of reading.

Story: If only I hadn't gone to college

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In fact, the so-called reading does not mean that we are obsessed with a piece of academic qualifications that bind us in life, but it is not.

Reading is to get rid of our narrow self, and to make us fade away from the expression of immaturity and ignorance.

You will find that sometimes the greatest tragedy for adults is precisely the self-closed loop of cognition, he begins to cut off the constant exchange of information with the world, and he begins to stubbornly think that the world is the world that he believes or sees in his head.

You must know that life is impermanent, change has always been the biggest law, and reading books is to let us see the real status quo clearly, with the sudden attack of various changes, more of their own flexibility, and be able to stretch and bend to be a big husband, so as to show the true character of a hero.

A person will not eliminate the era, but the era will quickly eliminate a person.

In this world, there are few iron rice bowls that can be used once and for all, so that you can sit back and wait until your children and grandchildren are full.

In a rapidly changing moment, a person should look at the six ways, listen to the eight directions, and strive to be a person who is truly applicable to change, a person who can endure labor pains in the tide of change, and slowly become a fish in water.

Story: If only I hadn't gone to college

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Some people say that when you can let go of the so-called face to survive, this is a kind of maturity, and when you can use your own strength to win back face for yourself, this is a kind of success.

Sometimes, you will find that a person's biggest failure may be to put more of his energy and mind on the so-called vanity level, but often do not have all kinds of down-to-earth performance, and do not have the courage to bow down and be willing to be a son of a cow.

It is always right to be pragmatic sometimes, and Darwin said in "On the Origin of Species":

"Survival of the fittest, survival of the fittest."

This has always been an ancient law of nature, sometimes like when we look at the animal world, the big fish eat the small fish, the small fish eat the shrimp, even the African cheetah, if his hunting instinct is degraded, he will also suffer the risk of starvation.

A person has a figure, which is an innate advantage, but a person can let go of his body, which is a kind of ability.

Reading is to ask us to fight against ourselves, have mountains and rivers in our minds, have good strategies in our stomachs, pay better attention to our own growth, and be flexible, which is the spirit that reading should improve, rather than a nerdy learning method.

Story: If only I hadn't gone to college

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When I reached a certain age, I began to have such a kind of thinking, the so-called reading changes fate, it is not a secular definition, but to improve and sculpt your concept of life, and slowly have a certain hysterical inspiration and deep reflection on your own outdated and outdated values.

The Book of Changes says:

"If you are poor, you will think about change, change will be successful, and you will last for a long time."

I have also seen too many people who don't read, their way of thinking goes all the way to the black, persevering to the end, and they are not good at transformation and growth, so they have to use their cognitive defects to pave the way for their life with their own hands and unimaginable risks.

There is never only one track in life, reading and education, it is just a strategy for us to see the world better.

I like to say that reading a book may not bring you a good destiny, but you can treat your destiny in a better way.

The ancients said:

"Those who know others are wise, and they are self-aware."

In life, the most difficult thing for a person is often to recognize oneself, but reading books can provide us with a channel for in-depth communication with the soul.

You may say that if you are destined to farm, why do you need to go to college, but those who have gone to college are destined to have a different way of thinking about life than those who have not gone to school to farm.

They can use their own strengths, knowledge, experience, resources, vision, and know how to be flexible, and they may naturally encounter different results.

Story: If only I hadn't gone to college

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is also a pig raiser, pig raising is also very different from pig raising, just like you will see a student of Peking University doing dry pork for a living but stunned can do hundreds of millions of industrial chains, just like you will see a black pig running, an authentic college student, people raise pigs at the same time without delaying to make jokes, engage in online sales and live broadcasts, and this is not destined to be something that ordinary people can do casually.

If you've ever been to an authentic rural area, you'll find that the cost of living with and without reading is destined to have a huge marginal cost.

A person who graduated from junior high school, stunned when he took the driver's license test, lost in the theory, in the era when cars were almost popular, I don't know if such a person is blind in the new era.

I have personally seen the helplessness of some people who suffer the loss of no culture, and even if they take their passbook to the bank, they can't withdraw money, but such a small thing is a simple and small amount in the hands of a person.

I prefer that reading gives a person the opportunity to choose, and at least in your hands, you have many opportunities to choose other things to compete and try to spread your wings compared to those who can only choose jobs that you don't want to do.

Story: If only I hadn't gone to college

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Confucius said that a gentleman is not a weapon.

One should not be bound by worldly things.

I like that a person has more ideas and ideas to face every problem or dilemma that life may encounter, rather than being constrained by only one choice.

Maybe we don't have that kind of innate advantage and background, maybe we are destined to have better constraints that are difficult to survive, but reading books should not make us have such thoughts.

As reading Lu Xun's article, he said:

"The hope in life doesn't matter if there is or not, just like there is no road in this world, but when there are more people walking, it becomes a road."

I don't know how far a so-called stable and decent job can last in an era of rapid change, as we have seen that even people who work in large factories are still at risk of being laid off in the context of a sluggish employment.

Sometimes, I also admire those well-known TV media people, who have taken off their own packaging and shackles, taken off the halo above their heads, and chose the track of self-media, which everyone can achieve.

Story: If only I hadn't gone to college

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The ancients said:

"People always have the ambition to reach the sky, and there is no way to pass without luck."

In any era, the luck given to a person is not the same for a long time, and it is impossible for a person to go far in his life.

The so-called going far is more about the fact that you have to dare to go to have the so-called luck.

Kong Yiji's long shirt that he can't take off is an artificial self-restraint, which hinders the possibility of exploring more life tracks.

In fact, people who read books are more likely to fall into what Buddhism calls "looking", how can reading and farming be implicated, and how can reading choose to start a business instead of striving for a decent life.

In the arena of life, there is never only one track, all roads lead to Rome, and reading books is precisely for us to better pursue the avenues, rather than clinging to the defects and seeking fish.

Heaven and earth are not limited to man, but man is limited to heaven and earth.

Yi Zhongtian said in an interview:

"You used the wrong words at the beginning, what does it mean to not do your job, where is it wrong for me to talk about history, you are using the wrong words, right? If you want to say that it is also "not a major", who dictates what you want to study in college, and what you have to do in the future? Xiaosa didn't graduate from broadcasting, right? ”

Yes, you will see that many people are not from academic backgrounds, but there must be many people who are not from professional backgrounds to shine.

Academic qualifications should not be a medium that binds us, and neither should worldly discussions and evaluations.

I know that if a person always lives in the mouth of others, it will be a disaster after all.

Story: If only I hadn't gone to college

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If this can't be done, that can't be done, there won't be so many miracles in this world anymore.

Ma Yun did not give up and chose to be a Chinese yellow page because of people's breaking and unoptimistic.

Bill Gates did not give up the choice of dropping out of school because of other people's obstruction and discussion, or there would be no miracle in the Microsoft world.

I love a famous advertising slogan:

"What would the world be like if humanity didn't have associations?"

Sometimes the most terrible thing in life is that you dare to think, and only when you dare to think can you have more willingness and possibility to do things.

I also like this slogan:

"Anything is possible."

Han Han does not have a high degree of education, but it does not affect him to become a well-known writer, maybe in the eyes of secular people, maybe in the thinking of ordinary people, he has to rely on writing to grow old slowly, but we have also seen him have a flying life in the field of racing, when you feel that racing is his life back again, embarking on the road of directing has become his new life track.

I don't know what kind of role Han Han will become next, and I don't know what kind of life choices he will make, but I know that continuous exploration is the background of his life.

The purpose of reading is to let us have more knowledge reserves, have more and better visions to explore this rapidly changing era, and to have the determination to take root and truly realize ourselves.

Reading books has made it possible for us to see the world in a new way, even if we choose to farm, we have a different mood when looking at seeds and land.

Reading gives us a place to understand the world, even if we can only choose things that are flawed in the eyes of the world, we can still have light in our hearts.

It is an advantage for a person to have a figure, but a person can put down his body, which is a kind of ability.

I like the role of reading, I also like the non-stubbornness of the reader, he can be the Dong Yuhui we see with chapters and classics, she can be the one who has learned and is rich and five cars, she can be the new farmer Li Yunxi who we see, caught fish, touched shrimp, and planted tea, she is the black pig who is aggrieved and crying because of a swine fever but still continues to run with enthusiasm on the track of the black pig.

Heaven and earth are not limited to man, but man is limited to heaven and earth.

Life is not stopped, exploration is not stopped, if only I had not gone to college, but I seem to see a new light in the world of people who read.

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