In interpersonal relationships, sometimes you feel uncomfortable because the other person is not the same person as you. Or maybe it's because the other party looks down on you.
So all kinds of behaviors are imposed on you, and it makes you very uncomfortable.
For your own good, I advise you not to have deep friendships with people who look down on you. Even if it's for profit, don't.
Because you are looked down upon for a long time, you will have an unbalanced mentality. In many things, you may not even be able to control yourself. It's bad.
Even when the time comes, you will explode directly, causing very serious consequences. It's all the result of repression.
To identify a person, whether he looks down on you or not, you can look at his 3 behavioral characteristics.
01 Observe his attitude
In reality, when we make friends, we often have circles. In other words, when one person is dealing with you, there may be other people around.
You can compare his attitude to know whether he respects you or not. Very accurate.
If a person is very casual with you, but normal with other people, then don't doubt it, he just looks down on you.
watched a film and television drama before, and the protagonists in it have super good family conditions and similar personalities.
They treated the other two friends very arrogantly. Because of the economic conditions, there are too many differences.
This differential treatment is obvious.
In reality, judging whether a person looks down on you or not, just look at his attitude towards you.
Is it to pay attention to you and love you? Or do I think of you as a casual person? See it at a glance.
02 Verbal offense
In reality, whether a person looks down on you or not, you can tell from the way he speaks.
If you are often verbally offended by a person, either or he is not of good quality. Either that, or he thinks he's superior and can despise you.
He's enjoying the pleasure of bullying you in words.
If you encounter a verbal offense, it is time to be vigilant and see the relationship for what it is.
Let's say you meet an acquaintance who ridicules your privacy and is very dismissive of you. Even likes to suppress and criticize you.
In other words, one of your relatives deliberately made you unable to get off the stage and blocked you.
Then this person, in essence, has a sense of superiority over you and wants to bully you.
When it comes to speaking, people who don't know how to respect don't need to have deep friendships. Even contacts can be avoided as much as possible.
You don't live to be angry. The low quality of others should not be borne by you.
03 See what he thinks
In reality, whether a person looks down on you or not, you can verify it through his various opinions.
Generally speaking, people who are particularly tolerant are in the minority.
Most people will identify with people who are similar to themselves and who have similar values.
And for people who are completely different, they don't agree.
Suppose a person has many different views than you, or has a completely different lifestyle.
Then, his unhappiness when he gets along with you may come from "disapproval". He looks down on you in his bones.
For example, some people are more snobbish in their opinions.
Then if you are in average condition, even if he is kind, he may essentially look down on you.
There are also people who agree on how old they are to get married and have several children.
If you are different from him, he may also reject you.
In reality, judging whether a person looks down on us or not is actually to avoid potential harm and is a kind of self-protection. It's as simple as that.