As the saying goes: to do things, pay attention to the golden mean. In fact, we must grasp the proportions of doing things.
Some things, even if they are good, challenge human nature when done too much.
It's like the old saying: Ascend Mien, fight Mi Hate. If you help people too much, you will get into trouble and raise a white-eyed wolf.
Get along with your neighbors on weekdays, even if the relationship is good, you must grasp the proportion.
Don't do all these 3 good things.
01 Don't be "Zhuge Liang"
In reality, everyone is an adult, and everyone has their own ideas. So there's no need to be too upset.
The other party may not be able to appreciate you.
Don't even analyze other people's family affairs every day in order to prove that you are powerful and shrewd, and come up with all kinds of ideas.
There is no need to pursue this sense of superiority. Because there are a lot of troubles.
For example, if the other party wants to buy a house, you advise and persuade the other party. So later, how will your relationship go?
If you make a profit, people say thank you.
But time has changed, in case you find that you are not satisfied, or the price has dropped, guess what people think of you?
Maybe when I think about it, I want to scold you again.
It's all hard to say.
No matter how good the neighbor relationship is, don't always run to come up with ideas.
Because most people often change their stance according to their own gains and losses.
When it's good, I think you're right and the idea is particularly good.
When things don't go your way, you immediately turn around and say it's your responsibility.
This kind of thing is not uncommon.
02 Don't care too much
In reality, it is important to get along with neighbors in a measured manner. A nod is good.
If you are particularly in love, it is not too late to make deep friends.
Some people don't know how to grasp the proportions, it's easy to get too close, and then there are many problems, which is very bad.
When the time comes, it is also difficult to refuse.
For example, some friends may be a little enthusiastic about their neighbors.
Then the neighbor asked him to help the child and watch the homework.
Are you tired, you say?
I'm sorry if I refuse. But say yes, it's a nuisance.
There are also people who do not refuse to come to their neighbors, and as a result, their neighbors often come to the door and borrow things and money.
There are a lot of troubles like this.
Treat neighbors according to personality and adopt different strategies.
Some people are naturally enthusiastic and don't care about the proportions of people, so you have to be very careful.
While they are enthusiastic, they will also be overly involved in your life and point fingers at you.
It's also very self-cooked, looking for your help to help that.
You have to be cold, don't go too far.
03 Don't be disobedient
In reality, not everyone has the grace to tolerate people. Many people can't listen to criticism from others.
So, when you see something about your neighbor, don't just interfere with it.
Don't criticize and educate others for the sake of others.
People will only feel inexplicable, and since then they have formed a bond.
For example, some people run to teach their neighbors a lesson because of small frictions in their habits.
Or take the initiative to discipline the neighbor's children.
To be honest, small problems do not matter and do not affect life.
But the temper of the neighbor is not easy to figure out.
If we do, we may have to pay a bigger cost, maybe not.
In reality, when you get along with your neighbors, you can first be cold and get to know each other slowly. If you find someone who is very good, you can come and go more.
Don't be too enthusiastic and messy at the beginning.
When you get to the back, you can't stop the brakes.