Stay-at-home moms, in fact, are also quite remarkable.
It is not an easy thing to run the home and take care of the children, especially when the children are still young and a mother may not have any rest for a day, she will not eat well during the day and sleep well at night, and she will be really tired.
It's not easy, but I feel inferior, because I don't recognize the value of a full-time mother, I feel that I should have another world, and I think that I can be considered capable, valuable, and confident if I am financially independent and have a career.
What's more, the outside world does not recognize the contribution of full-time mothers, many husbands, in-laws, and even too many others will feel that it is just to have a child and bring a child, which is nothing at all, and has no contribution to the family at all.
Yes, too many people will also use money as a measure to measure a woman, but if a woman does not make money, even if it is only temporary, then even if she keeps her home in order, takes good care of her children, is considerate to her husband, and respects her in-laws, she will not be recognized.
Too many people have never seen the difficulties of stay-at-home mothers, and they are not willing to bear the efforts and sacrifices of a mother.
All of this will naturally make stay-at-home mothers feel worthless, feel useless, and even feel inferior.
It is true that women in the past were also husbands and children at home, however, women in the past may not be recognized, may not feel happy, and may not feel worthless.
At that time, women were more dependent on men, and they had no way to control their own destiny.
I had to be stuck at home, I had to succumb to that life.
Even if it is painful, even if it is unwilling, even if it has ambition in its heart, it can only accept fate.
Even if it seems ordinary, everyone thinks that women should be like that, but women should never be characterized like that, and many women are actually struggling, thinking, and fighting in their own way.
It is precisely because of the struggle of many people from generation to generation that there is a current situation, women have the same right to education, and more and more voices in many fields.
Women are becoming more and more independent, but at this time, there will be another great change, for the positioning of women, the value of women, the tradition and the new era of women, there will always be some confrontation, but also need women to adapt, the outside world to adapt.
Among them, the environment is changing, women are still groping, husbands and children, full-time mothers, are still in a relatively embarrassing situation, and further understanding, further seeing, and further recognition.
At that time, when a woman has to become a full-time mother in a certain period of time, women can be a full-time mother in a down-to-earth manner, without fear, inferiority, and self-pity.
Text / Tan Meng
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