Author: Wen Qiusheng
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01. Introduction
Love, like a veil of lightness, is full of irresistible mystery, and it often makes people lose themselves.
A man's sincerity is hidden very deeply, and it is easy not to reveal it.
Even if he says that he loves you forever and is extremely gentle with you, it doesn't mean that he has given up his sincerity.
Men, who have never been sincere with each other and do not want to be responsible for you.
02. Money will tell you the answer
In "Ode to Joy", Fan Shengmei met the rich second-generation Qu Lianjie at a cocktail party.
He kept showing favor to Fan Shengmei, praising her for being beautiful and charming, and Fan Shengmei couldn't help but be complacent.
Subsequently, Qu Lianjie gave her a shopping card and took her to play golf. Fan Shengmei's vanity swelled, and she fantasized that she could use Qu Lianjie's resources to change herself.
When she saw the brand-name clothes that Qu Lianjie gave her, she was completely dizzy. thought that Qu Lianjie really loved her and had an intimate relationship with him.
It wasn't until later that Fan Shengmei urgently needed money because of a family crisis, and she called Qu Lianjie for help, hoping that he could help her.
Qu Lianjie immediately cleaned himself up, and jokingly said that he was willing to take out a thousand yuan to show his little heart.
Fan Shengmei realized that Qu Lianjie didn't have any sincerity for her at all, he just wanted her.
Sometimes, money is the best litmus test.
In the face of money, a man's vows will take on their original form and become vulnerable.
Women, you want to know if men are sincere to you, and see what kind of attitude men have when you need money.
When a man doesn't want to be responsible for you, he doesn't want to spend money for you.
When you are in trouble, it is also possible to turn a deaf ear and ignore you completely.
03. When you quarrel, you can know whether a man loves you or not
Li Bihua said: "He is attentive, that is when he has just fallen in love with you, he is clumsy, that is that he loves you deeply, he is calm, that is that he is tired of you." ”
A man who really loves you is reluctant to quarrel with you at all, and he doesn't want you to be unhappy.
Even if there is an argument between two people, he will quickly calm down, take the initiative to communicate with you, and take the initiative to make concessions.
When quarrelling, the man who always treats you with the meanest side and doesn't let you go at all actually doesn't think about how far he will go with you at all.
He just enjoys the freshness and benefits of this relationship, but is unwilling to put in any effort to maintain the relationship.
Therefore, after a quarrel, he can still sleep soundly, he can eat, drink and have fun as usual, and he doesn't care about you.
Your grievances, sadness, crying red eyes, tossing and turning nights, for him, will not be touched or distressed, but disgusted in his heart.
Even if he knows that you don't like the Cold War and hopes that he can take the initiative and make concessions, he is still the same.
From the attitude during the quarrel and the reaction after the quarrel, you can see whether the man really loves you or plays with you.
04. The more you love your man, the more responsible he is
I saw a news article that said:
A woman was in a car accident and was paralyzed in bed, unable to move from the cervical spine down.
Someone needs to be there to take care of you 24 hours a day, and at the same time, the cost of treatment is a very real problem.
The woman's husband kept watch at the hospital bed, telling her not to worry and leaving all the problems to him.
In the days that followed, the man went to work during the day and came to the hospital to see her after work.
He fed her water, gently massaged her limbs, combed her hair, and told her what she had seen and heard outside.
The man used all the family's savings for treatment and borrowed money from many friends around him.
The woman felt very sorry for the man's hard work and felt that she was dragging him down, but the man said that he had never regretted it.
He said that on the day he got married, he promised to take care of her for the rest of his life, and he would definitely do it.
If she is blind, he will be her eyes, and if she is injured, he will be her crutch.
A man who treats you sincerely, hopes that he can be your dependent, and will take the initiative to shoulder the pressure and responsibilities in life.
At no time will he leave you behind, and he will not leave you alone to face the storm.
The more a man loves you, the more he will give you a sense of security and will use practical actions to fulfill his promises.
He will do what he says, always be steadfast and see you as the most important person in his life.
05, Wen Qiusheng's message
If you want to know a man's sincerity, don't listen with your ears, see with your eyes, and feel with your heart.
People can lie, but the details in getting along, men's knee-jerk reactions don't lie.
If a man has never treated you sincerely, you must know how to stop losses in time, and don't think that you can move him.
Take back your sincerity and dedication, and stay away from his life from now on, so that you can regain your life and start a bright future.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.