Author: Wen Qiusheng
Original article, plagiarism must be investigated
01. Introduction
Love is like flowing water, which will carry the people who love each other and drift to distant places.
If a woman loves someone, she can't wait to stay by his side all the time, watch his every move, and accompany him through the mountains and rivers.
As long as she is with her beloved, she feels at ease, feels down-to-earth, and is not afraid wherever she goes.
The love that a woman believes will give her great courage and strength, so that she is willing to follow the figure of a man.
If a woman, who was originally very clingy to you, suddenly became very cold to you, it must be this reason: she is no longer in love.
02. The more a woman loves a man, the more she likes to stick to him
Charlotte Brontë wrote in Jane Eyre: "When you fall in love with someone, you will expect all the stories to be related to him, the sun, moon and stars in this world are him, the grass and trees are him, the three meals and the four seasons will also be him." ”
The most obvious manifestation of a woman's love for a man is that she likes to cling to him and does not want to be separated for a moment.
She sees men as beacons in her own world, and will move in the direction he directs, feeling the taste of being surrounded by happiness.
If the man does not have time to accompany her, she will let go of her reserve, take the initiative to enter the man's life and be by his side.
For example, when men work overtime, she will lean aside to catch up on dramas, and make small movements from time to time to attract men's attention.
When a man goes on a business trip, a woman will also create an opportunity to appear in front of him and turn a boring work trip into a unique outing.
Even in the ordinary daily life of fireworks, women will gently hug a man when he is busy washing dishes and stir-frying, to relieve the love in her heart.
When she falls in love with a man, a woman will gradually forget herself, and her heart will be in the man.
She cherishes the time the two of them spend together very much and doesn't want to miss a moment.
03. When she feels that she is not being treated well, she will retract her sincerity
In "I May Have Met a Savior", Ye Shilan and Jiang Huaiming are colleagues in the same department.
However, no one around knew that the two were in love.
Jiang Huaiming chose not to make the relationship between the two people public, ostensibly in order not to affect each other's work, but in fact he had ulterior motives.
When he met Dr. Xu, Dean Xu's niece, he immediately broke up with Ye Shilan and allowed false rumors to spread wildly.
In the gossip, Ye Shilan became a crush and wanted to ruin the relationship between Jiang Huaiming and Dr. Xu. In the end, his confession was rejected, so he unwillingly chose to go to a remote village for free treatment.
In this regard, Jiang Huaiming did not make any explanation, and did not consider the harm that Ye Shilan would suffer.
He only thought about himself, how to climb the high branches.
Ye Shilan slowly retracted his heart, and no longer had anything to do with him.
When they met again, they also behaved very detached and polite, as if the two had never had any relationship as the rumors said.
A woman's love needs to be reciprocated.
It takes a man to give her the same care and care in return, so that she will have a steady stream of motivation and enthusiasm.
When she can't feel the man's sincerity, and her own efforts are also used and ignored, she will retract her sincerity and leave lonely.
A woman treats you with sincerity and treats you as the whole of life. If she doesn't feel treated well, she will come to her senses quickly.
She can love you desperately, or she can forget you lightly.
04. If a woman becomes very cold to you, that is not love
A woman's temperature towards you is actually the attitude of love.
When I love you, I can be passionate about you, reluctant to cling to you, and have endless vitality to accompany you.
When she becomes very cold to you, no longer cheers to your dates, no longer shows interest in your topics, it means that she no longer has a place for you in her heart.
Whether you are sincere or false to her, she doesn't want to delve into it.
She didn't want to spend time and effort looking for a plausible answer.
Even if there is an ambiguous object around you, and even constantly provokes her bottom line, she will turn a deaf ear and ignore it.
Because in this relationship, she has exhausted all her enthusiasm and sincerity, and she has never been able to get an exact response from you.
For this emotional chase, this game of chasing me, she is tired and unable to continue.
If a woman behaves coldly to you and no longer responds to you, it is not loving.
No matter how hard a man tries, it is in vain.
05, Wen Qiusheng's message
Many people always don't know how to grasp the happiness in front of them. I feel that I will meet better people and have a more perfect love in the future.
As everyone knows, some people will no longer be able to miss it once they miss it, and some people will not be able to turn back once they are disappointed.
Therefore, cherish the person in front of you, and don't let down the girl who likes to stick to you and treat you with all sincerity.
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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.