01. Introduction

Society, like a huge jungle, lurks countless crises. If you are not careful, you will bury all your stability and happiness.

After a man gets married, he not only needs to put out a lot of energy to manage his marriage, but also has to resist temptations that may arise at any time.

When you fall in love with a woman outside of marriage, a man will begin to doubt his choice and mistakenly believe that a woman outside of marriage is true love. Even at all costs, be with true love.

If you have a wife, you are still tempted by a woman outside of marriage, so face it like this and don't let yourself make the wrong choice.

02, seeing love outside of marriage is a mirage

When a man is tempted by a woman outside of marriage, it is like an old house on fire, and it will become out of control.

His heart that was silent in marriage would suddenly be awakened. I was full of energy, as if I had returned to my youth.

With a woman outside of marriage, the man is surrounded by freshness and passion, and completely loses the ability to think.

At this time, men should not make any decisions impulsively, but think about it: what do you love about the other person, and what does she love about you?

Perhaps, you don't really love her, you just want to escape the dullness and boredom of marriage.

Even if it is a different person, after consuming the enthusiasm, it will still come to the current situation.

Mr. Yang Jiang said: "Extramarital affair is two sick people who think they have encountered good medicine, but in fact, they have encountered anesthetics. ”

Women outside of marriage admire you, favor you, and miss you. Probably because of the wealth, resources, connections, etc. you have.

If you have nothing and are no longer in your prime, I believe she will not look at you at all.

Men should see clearly that love outside of marriage is a mirage, each taking what he needs, and an emotional exchange based on interests, which cannot withstand any test at all.

03. Stop loss in time, you have family responsibilities to bear

One of my buddies, Yang Bin, once we went to a party together.

Inadvertently, he reunites with his first love. At first, they just asked each other about the situation and exchanged very polite words.

With the increase in contact, the two couldn't help but recall the past and express the regrets and emotions in their hearts.

Later, when the first love chatted with him, there was more ambiguity and coquettishness. And Yang Bin, although he has already married a family, did not maintain the boundaries, allowing this seemingly nonexistent atmosphere to spread.

Once, Yang Bin's mother-in-law was sick, and his wife was in the hospital with the bed, leaving her son to him to take care of.

In the evening, the first love sent him a message, saying that today was her birthday and wanted to wait for him to blow out the candles and cut the cake together.

Yang Bin thought about it, changed his clothes and prepared to go to the appointment. Before going out, he came to his son's room, covered his son with a quilt, and found that his son was very hot, and when he measured it, he had a high fever.

He immediately packed up some of his usual belongings, picked up his son, and drove to the hospital emergency room. He stayed with his son until the fever subsided, and he was relieved.

At this time, he remembered the date with his first love, and he couldn't help but be afraid. If he really went to the appointment and his son had a bad day, he would really regret it.

After that, he completely broke off contact with his first love, ran the family more attentively, and no longer allowed himself to have any wandering.

When a man gets married, he has to realize that he is no longer alone.

It is necessary to shoulder family responsibilities and bring a stable life to the family.

Any behavior that is not conducive to family management must be cut off in time, and always be vigilant and not to commit it again.

A married man carries the happiness and stability of a family.

In the face of extramarital feelings, it is necessary to stop losses in time and be more clear about their responsibilities and responsibilities to the family.

04. Don't be greedy and cut off feelings outside of marriage

When a man is attracted to a woman outside of marriage, he will have a feeling that he will feel that no matter how she looks, it is pleasing to the eye, and his wife will not be pleasing to the eye.

You must know that the beginning of every relationship is extremely sweet and seductive, full of ambiguity and heartbeat.

Even if there is no such throbbing between him and his wife, it is undeniable that the two of them have also come from love.

It's just that time has diluted the feelings, and life has faded the aura of each other. Between him and his wife, day after day, his heart gradually began to be restless.

Men should put away their greed, cut off their extramarital feelings in time, and take back their hearts.

The more greedy you are, the more you will lose yourself.

If it completely breaks his wife's heart and makes the relationship irreparable, there will only be regret and helplessness.

Don't let your heart wander outside of marriage wantonly, and know how to rein in the precipice, so that you will not let yourself fall into the bottomless abyss and never turn over.

05, Wen Qiusheng's message

The husband and wife have lived together for a long time, and without the initial enthusiasm and heartbeat, they will think that there is no love for each other.

Learn to awaken love and increase the expression of love.

Care more about your partner in life and meet her expectations and needs.

Cherish your partner's dedication, be grateful to have her always by your side, and strive to fulfill her promise and bring her a happy and stable future.

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About the author: Wen Qiusheng, make a living from words. Autumn wind and rain, a glass of sake, three or two stories, on the lonely road with you as a companion.