The starting point of fate.
Many men will play the role of initiative.
In the face of men's confessions, as well as tireless overtures.
Many girls will speculate:
Why did this man fall in love with him?
Fate seems to be predestined, but in fact it is driven by some factors.
For example, when a man can't help but take the first step in love, he often has a special feeling.
It is precisely these feelings that give men the "subconscious" to grasp love, and make men desperate to squeeze into the world of girls, and strive to impress women's hearts.
A man takes the initiative to chase you? It's the two "feelings" that work!
So, what exactly does it feel like? Let's find out.
01
Resonance of the heart
What kind of woman is worthy of love?
Men are very rational, and even if they follow their feelings, they can find the love they want.
Saying goes:
"Correct communication depends on appearance, and long-term relationship depends on the inside."
If men, just play with the mentality.
Then, even if he will only be attracted by his appearance, he will take the initiative to please a certain woman.
Like a man, from the bottom of his heart, admires a woman.
Then he often discovers the inner beauty of this woman. From the words and deeds of women, I found a feeling of resonance.
Here's an example.
Xiao Li and Xiao Fang are classmates, and their personalities are very different.
Xiao Li is an introvert and is not good at words, while Xiao Fang is cheerful and sociable.
In the process of getting along, Xiao Li found that Xiao Fang could understand his inner world and give him warm care.
And Xiao Fang also found that although Xiao Li was silent on the outside, he was a talented person. The resonance between the two made them attracted to each other and eventually came together.
As the writer Victor Hugo said:
"The resonance of the heart makes men willing to give everything for women."
Many times, the reason why a man takes the initiative to pursue love is mostly because he finds a sense of resonance from this relationship.
02
The attraction of charm
Does appearance matter?
Obviously, the advantage of appearance can leave a good first impression.
In Plato's words:
"A woman's beauty is God's smile."
This sentence describes the importance of women's charm.
Although it is said that men will value a woman's inside, it does not mean that they will reject a woman's appearance.
When a man sees an attractive woman, he will also be tempted.
For example:
At a party, Zhang Ju met Xiaoli.
Xiaoli's beauty and temperament made her stand out from the crowd and attracted Zhang Ju's attention.
Zhang Ju was deeply attracted to her, so he took the initiative to talk to her.
During the conversation, Zhang Ju found that Xiaoli was not only beautiful in appearance, but also smart and understanding.
This kind of charm of both internal and external cultivation completely conquered Zhang Ju, and made him take the initiative to pursue Xiaoli, hoping to win her heart.
It can be seen that the reason why men will take the initiative and stay enthusiastic.
Mostly because he is attracted by the charm of girls, so he will put down his son and muster up the courage to fulfill love.
Many times.
Fate seems to be ethereal, but in fact there is a reason.
Being a woman leaves a man with a feeling of spiritual resonance and a feeling of infinite charm. Then men, most of them, under the guidance of these two feelings, will actively create opportunities for communication and take the initiative to grasp the love of two people.
In your opinion, isn't that so?
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