Traveling with my post-00s son, I didn't expect my son to list 12 "crimes" and accuse me of being too picky! This collision of father-son affection made me realize that in the process of growing up, we all need to understand and tolerate each other. This article interprets these so-called "crimes" one by one, in order to provoke reflection on family education and recall a pleasant trip.
Son, you're such an outspoken lad! On the day we embarked on our journey together, you secretly prepared a list of 12 "crimes" against me. I was both amused and surprised when I saw that piece of paper. But as our trip deepened, I began to understand that this was a special educational journey of growth and an opportunity for us to get to know each other.
I know you think I'm a little too focused on the budget, but remember, I want to give you a good idea of the economy. That doesn't mean I value money more than anything else. It is because I love you that I want to teach you the importance of financial management. So when traveling, we can calculate the budget, but don't forget to immerse ourselves in the beauty of the moment.
Child, you may not understand that when I was a child, my family was not wealthy. The habit of saving money when I was young became a part of my life, and it was one of the motivations for me to work hard. I hope you can understand that not everything is worth a price tied to it. I hope you learn to find more fun in your limited resources.
Son, although I account for every expense, I will not hesitate to provide you with the best conditions. I may not be willing to pay for unnecessary luxuries, but for what you need, I will do my best to meet it. I hope you understand my attitude towards money and become more aware of your own worth in the future.
Son, I want our travel to be experience-oriented, not just to compare and consume. Choosing to travel on a budget is not to spell a seemingly lofty label, but to better feel the meaning of the journey. In the off-the-beaten-path of travel, we are able to adapt to the local scenery and life, and the experience of being different from others brings us unforgettable memories.
Kid, I'll admit that I'm sometimes too perfectionist. I like to be well prepared during my trip so that I can avoid some unnecessary hassles. However, I also understand that sometimes inspiration and opportunity only belong to those who are adventurous and eclectic. So, on my next trip, I'm willing to let go of the details and give us more opportunities to explore and enjoy the unknown.
Son, although your "list of crimes" is full of ridicule and resentment, it in turn makes me reflect on my own performance in the role of father. Whether it's homeschooling or traveling, mutual understanding and tolerance are indispensable. It is because of you that I can better reflect on my own shortcomings, face up to my own problems and actively improve.
Although there was a little friction in this trip, it was more about bringing us deep memories and opportunities to grow together. I believe that whether it is the post-70s or post-00s, every family has its own story and experience. And these stories are the bond that connects us to understand each other and grow together.
I hope that every father and son can have a trip like this to explore each other's hearts and understand each other's suffering. Don't be afraid of conflict, because it's conflict that makes us more real and mature. Let's feel with our hearts, understand each other, and create more beautiful memories together!