Weddings are supposed to be the happiest and most beautiful moments in life, but occasionally there are some ridiculous episodes. Just like the recent wedding of a couple in Shangqiu, Henan, it was originally lively and festive, but who expected the bride to suddenly break out because of a "little thing", not only threatened not to get married, but also clashed with relatives and friends, and finally made this grand wedding burn. After the whole incident was spread on the Internet, it sparked heated discussions, and netizens accused the bride and her best friend of behaving out of shape.
The grand joy suddenly changed into a tragedy
On May 3, the wedding ceremony of a couple of newlyweds in Shangqiu, Henan Province was in full swing. The groom's family was busy going in and out, relatives and friends were also present, and the neighbors were even more lively. Everything is ready and just waiting for the bride's wedding car to arrive.
Sure enough, the wedding car quickly drove into the groom's door. However, just when everyone was looking forward to welcoming the bride, an unexpected episode happened - the bride was unwilling to get out of the car! She and her girlfriend are in the car, and you seem to be talking about something.
After a stalemate, the bride finally said the "reason" why she refused to get off the car - she had to give a "go-off gift" of 28,800. Her best friend said proudly: "Our drop-off gifts there start at 60,000 yuan, and I have to give 2,000 yuan for ordinary friends to get married." It seems that she thinks that the bridegroom's family has given too little bride price, so she makes this excessive demand.
The groom's family was naturally angry and thought it was vexatious. The two sides were at a stalemate for more than half an hour, and the scene was very awkward for a while. The bridegroom once pleaded: "You get off the car first, and I will make it up to you later." But the bride turned a deaf ear and insisted on not leaving the carriage half a step.
What's even more unbelievable is that the bride then punched and kicked a relative who stepped forward to dissuade her! It is said that it was because the relative criticized her best friend, "What's the matter with you, your hand is so long." When the bride heard this, she was furious, not only scolding, but even beating people.
It is also human to pity the beaten relative, and he scuffles with the bride in a hurry. The bride suddenly broke down and cried, angrily threw away the bouquet in her hand, and roared, "This marriage, if you don't get married, whoever loves to tie the knot!" After that, he took his girlfriend and left, leaving only the groom's family looking at each other, speechless.
Behavioral gaffes lead to cyberbullying
After the incident was exposed on the Internet, it immediately set off a surging heated discussion on the Internet. Netizens have condemned the behavior of the bride and her best friend, believing that they have made some unreasonable mistakes:
First of all, the girlfriend's request for a "getting off gift" of 28,800 is completely vexatious. According to traditional customs, the bride needs to give some bride price when she gets on the bus, and some meeting gifts when she gets off the car, but the amount has a certain scale, and it will never be as exaggerated as the best friend's offer. Netizens questioned, did she trade the bride as a commodity obtained by the highest?
In addition, even if there is a traditional so-called "drop-off ceremony", it should be properly negotiated with both parties in advance, and it is really scary to make a sky-high price on the spot. What's more, wedding customs should also keep pace with the times, and don't always stick to the old ways.
Moreover, the bride's reaction was too much. As a party concerned, she should have been calm and reasonable, but instead of dissuading her best friend's unreasonable request, she started beating people because of the sentence "Your best friend is too lenient", which is like a small belly. Isn't the importance of marriage that she should have the most say? How could she listen to an outsider's words and ignore her marriage?
To sum up, netizens generally believe that the groom's family has survived a "disaster", and they criticize the bride and girlfriends for being "ill-intentioned" and "unreasonable", thinking that if the groom marries such a bride, he will be tortured in the future. Some people also joked that "fire prevention, anti-theft and anti-girlfriend", and denounced this "plastic girlfriend" for almost ruining the bride's life happiness.
The parents tearfully repented, and the groom resolutely refused to forgive
Afterwards, the bride's parents took their daughter to apologize in shame, but in vain. The groom's family was resolute and demanded that the bride return the full bride price, otherwise they would go through the legal process. It seems that the bride will not be able to enter this door at all.
For the bride's parents, what was supposed to be a festive day turned into an embarrassing scene. The daughter was impulsive and out of shape, not only was she scolded severely, but she was also beaten, and she would be laughed at for a lifetime. Although her best friend played the role of a "negative teacher", she was not completely innocent. Although she apologized publicly afterwards, there was no sincerity in her words, but she quibbled that she did it "according to traditional customs" and "for the good of the bride", which caused even more dissatisfaction and abuse among netizens.
I have to say that there is obviously a lack of sufficient love foundation between the couple. The bride listens to her best friend's words so much and ignores her life's affairs, which shows that she has no sincere feelings for the groom. Otherwise, how could they do such a thing to hurt the other party?
The so-called "lovers eventually become married", the cornerstone of marriage is love. Without love, the marriage will end like the newlyweds. Fortunately, this episode happened before the wedding, so that both parties could wake up before they made mistakes, so as not to ruin a doomed unhappy marriage.