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In 1985, after four years in the army, I was discharged from the army and returned to my hometown, at the age of 22. I have spent the past few years in the army, and my physical fitness is indeed much better than before, but I am a little embarrassed about doing farm work.
What's more, I have three brothers, only the eldest brother is married and has a family, and the second brother is three years older than me and is still single.
It's not that no one told him to kiss, but when the girl's family asked about the conditions, they learned that there were three men in my family and two rooms, and it was not easy to arrange a new house after getting married, so they all retreated.
My father sent me to join the army in the early years, and he originally hoped that I would be able to make a difference. But when I first became Chinese, I had no long skills, and I was not visible in the army, so I still had to go home and farm after four years.
As soon as I returned, my father seemed to have a few more wrinkles. The father of someone else's family, the son who traveled far away, came back, and he could laugh for a few days. It was only my father, who sighed and lost his smile the next day after returning home.
It's not that my father hates me, it's because the second brother is still single, and he comes back with a 22-year-old third brother who should start a family, and sees that the two sons are older, but the daughter-in-law is not located, what can I do now?
But I'm not very impatient myself, after all, I also went to junior high school, and I opened my eyes in the army, and I think that a big husband has no wife, and there will always be girls who can see talents with a "gold" like myself.
It is also true that I was originally handsome, and with several years of strict training in the army, I sat like a clock and walked like the wind, which added a bit of heroism, and soon a matchmaker came to say goodbye to me.
It is said that the three girls in the family have reached the age of marriage, as long as I can see it, the three are as you choose, the only condition is that I want to be a son-in-law.
Being a door-to-door son-in-law is a bad "name" in our local customs. Generally speaking, it is because of some physical defects, or poor intelligence, and then the family is too poor to marry a wife.
My conditions are there, the first two have nothing to do with me, but the third can't run.
Originally, I was noncommittal, but after I learned from Aunt Zhang's mouth that the three girls on the other side were like flowers and jade, and the three sister flowers were famous far and wide, I was a little tempted.
In addition, my father was fueling the troubles, as if I was afraid that I would delay something at home, but Aunt Zhang's kindness was disrespectful to me and promised to meet one day.
In our local area, when a girl marries a boy's family, she must first "look at other people's homes", and since I am a son-in-law, that is my way to see other people's doors.
But I refused to go, and said to Aunt Zhang very boldly: I have no opinion on the four walls of the other party's house or carved beams and phoenixes, as long as the object is good.
This means that I don't need to go to see people, just let the girls come to my house to meet me.
So Aunt Zhang went back to her parents' house overnight, and learned that I was so generous and didn't care about the situation at home, and the other party was also very happy, and Aunt Zhang made an appointment with her.
On the day of the appointment, I got up early in the morning to pick up a jar of water for Aunt Zhang, hoping to get some inside information from her mouth:
If the three girls are generally beautiful, then you have to be picky, and then you have to know which one has a better temperament.
Aunt Zhang was also very satisfied with my attitude, and said to me at breakfast: The three nieces are indeed handsome, and her cousin can't tell the difference, but the second sister's personality is relatively gentle, and the eldest and third are hotter, especially the eldest is famous for her fiery temper.
Seeing that I seemed a little puzzled in my eyes, Aunt Zhang also told me the truth: my cousin only has three daughters, and in a family that has no sons in the countryside, he will be bullied.
The reason why the eldest sister has a hot temper is mainly because she has had to help her father "support the façade" since she was a child, and she also has to protect her two younger sisters from being bullied by others, so she has developed a hot temperament.
After listening to it, I understand that the home of a pure female household is indeed relatively poor in our local area, and when there is a dispute with others, someone else's sentence of "no household" can make you speechless.
After breakfast, I went home and changed into clean clothes, that is, the military uniform that was very popular at that time, other people's were bought in the market, but mine was genuine, although I washed the water a few times, it was still new.
The person relied on clothes and horses to rely on the saddle, and he looked in the mirror, thinking that he had a bit of the smell of Yushu in the wind, calculated the time, and pretended to go to Aunt Zhang's house intentionally or unintentionally.
There are three young girls sitting in her house, the eldest is said to be the same age as me, the three sisters are separated by more than a year old, only the third can be distinguished at a glance, and the face is a little more childish, after all, it is only in the early 19s.
But the other two, between the eldest sister and the second sister, I really can't tell the difference. Seeing that the two girls are very beautiful, compared to me, they are indeed as good as they are, and I am quite satisfied.
Since the appearance is the same beautiful, it is better to choose a gentle temperament according to what Aunt Zhang said, so I decided to choose the second sister.
But who is the second sister and who is the eldest sister, this is really stumped me, I looked at Aunt Zhang a few times as if asking for help, and she just looked at me with a smile and didn't give any hints.
In the end, there was no way, I could only "choose" the second sister intuitively. Looking at the two girls, they didn't talk much, and even their voices were generally loud.
Fortunately, they whispered a few words and got up and entered the room together, and I saw the only difference between them: one of them was a little shorter than a grain of rice.
I immediately decided in my heart: that is the gentle second sister, and she is the object I want to choose.
When they came back and sat down, I "borrowed" an axe from Aunt Zhang and said that I was going to cut down the tree.
When Aunt Zhang sent me out, I told her my choice, Aunt Zhang was a little surprised, but she didn't speak, let me go back quickly, and she will bring your second sister to your house to recognize the door later.
Sure enough, it didn't take long for me to see the two girls leave Aunt Zhang's house, and a few minutes later, Aunt Zhang came to my house with her second sister.
Of course, the second sister didn't stay long, she just recognized the door, and everyone will be relatives in the future, but that's all in the future. After drinking a bowl of tea, the second sister shyly took out a red envelope and gave it to me, I didn't want it, but Aunt Zhang said:
You are "married" to her family, she is giving you a meeting gift, if her family regrets it, this meeting gift is an apology for you. But if you regret it, you'll have to compensate twice as much.
This is also our local custom, and I know a little bit about it, so I accepted it half-pushed. After the second sister left, I opened the paper bag wrapped in red paper and saw that it was a hundred yuan.
Oh my! That's a lot of money at the time. Get one or two more of these red envelopes, and our family will be able to build three big tiled houses.
In this way, my marriage with my second sister was decided, and I didn't know until this time that my future wife's name was Xiaoqing.
Xiaoqing and I started "patting", the so-called patting and dragging in those days was not like today's Huaqian Yuexia Qingqing me and me, it is nothing more than something in your family, then go and help. When you encounter any solar terms or birthdays, you have to go and walk around.
The pastime program is, at most, a meeting to watch a movie together when a movie is shown in a village.
After half a year, Xiaoqing and I got along very well. But I don't know why, every time I go to Xiaoqing's house, all their families call me brother-in-law, only Xiaoqing calls me by my name.
But I didn't really care, in our local area, for prospective sons-in-law, even father-in-law and mother-in-law will politely call you brother-in-law.
As soon as the end of the year came, my father-in-law and I discussed that we should do the happy event before the year, that is, to "marry me into the door", so that we could get a share of the land and plant it in the next year.
I have no opinion on this discussion, and my father is even more eager for me to "get married" tomorrow.
I actually have an itch in my heart, I have been dating Xiaoqing for more than half a year, and I haven't even pulled the other party's little hand a few times. A beautiful woman with a bright water will shake in front of your eyes for a long time, but you can only look at it and can't eat it, which bloody guy can stand it?
Anyway, I'm very satisfied with the other party, so I want to do it as soon as possible, so that I can do whatever I want.
Our wedding was scheduled for the twentieth day of the lunar month, and after consulting my opinion, there was no special event on the road, but there were still more than a dozen tables of banquets at home. In the words of his father-in-law, the old Li family has a man in charge from now on, and he will be able to raise his eyebrows and be a man from now on.
The wedding event went smoothly, and there were no weddings in the countryside at that time, but we still have a tradition of haunted houses in the local area.
But the strange thing is that I saw that dinner had also been eaten, and the relatives and friends who came were about to leave one after another, but there was no sign of a cave house at all.
Although I was secretly happy in my heart, after all, the matter of the cave room, somewhat vulgar words or actions, in the eyes of people like me who have "seen the world", there are still some things that cannot be put on the stage.
But who makes himself the person of this place? If someone else wants to make a hole in the house, I have to endure it with a smile, because then others can afford you.
Without the link of the haunted room, I am even more looking forward to the next "show".
Although today's Xiaoqing didn't say anything about makeup, she also wore festive clothes, and she was already beautiful and pretty, and she was a little more charming.
When everyone dispersed one after another, there were only me and Xiaoqing in the new room, and she finally became a little shy under the light, and a pair of Danfeng eyes were almost dripping.
I couldn't hold back any longer, walked over and took the hand of Xiaoqing, who was sitting on the edge of the bed waiting for me, and whispered softly with tenderness: Second sister, I like you so much......
Who knows, my tender and sweet call did not get Xiaoqing's warm response, I saw her eyebrows rise upside down in a blink of an eye, and she raised her foot and kicked at me.
I was completely defenseless, thinking about kissing Fang Ze with the lover of my dreams, Xiaoqing's sleep easily kicked me off the edge of the bed and sat on the ground. I was puzzled, but I didn't dare to make too much noise, I looked at Xiaoqing and asked:
Xiaoqing, you used to always say that you would wait until the cave room had a candle, but at this time today, why did you suddenly kick me?
Xiaoqing also stood up and said: What did you call me just now? Second sister? Could it be that in your heart, I am the second sister? Or did you just want to be with your second sister in the first place? Tell you, I'm not the second sister you call me, I'm the eldest sister, the eldest sister is Xiaoqing, and the second sister is Xiaohong.
I immediately understood that my second sister had caused trouble just now.
But that can't be blamed on me, although in the past six months, I also feel that the gentleness of the "second sister" and Aunt Zhang doesn't seem to match, but it is also gentle to me. But no one has ever told me that my fiancée is not a second sister.
I told Xiaoqing all the questions I had in my stomach, and finally even made a vow and said: Aunt Zhang said that you are the second sister, I always thought that Xiaoqing was the second sister, and the second sister was Xiaoqing, anyway, whether you are the second sister or the eldest sister, you are my beloved wife.
Speaking of this, Xiaoqing turned his anger into joy, the Spring Festival was worth a thousand gold, and in the end, he became my prisoner half-pushed and half-on-the-spot.
After the wind and rain stopped, Xiaoqing shrank in my arms like a kitten, which made me feel even more pity, and she told me quietly:
When I was a child, I was actually not spicy, and among the three sisters, I was the most quiet. It's just that later, my father was often abused by others, and the two girls were also bullied by their playmates, and I was really angry, so I "pretended" to be ruthless and not afraid of heaven and earth.
I didn't think that this trick was very good, since I became spicy, the two sisters have never been bullied by others, so that I have unconsciously become a habit, and in the eyes of others, I have become a "tigress".
Now that I have you as a family, I think I still have to be my old self.
Yes, Xiaoqing after marriage is like being reborn as a new person, not only is she as tender as water to me, but she is even more dignified and polite in dealing with people.
In the second year of our marriage, our child was born. Later, in the 90s, the two younger sisters also got married, and our husband and wife went to the south to work together.
Now, Xiaoqing and I are both over the age of sixties, and we have also reached the age of getting Sun Hanyi, ask ourselves in this life, there is no other person's wealth and wealth, but it is finally safe. But occasionally when I talk to my wife about the embarrassment of the wedding night, my wife will still laugh half-truthfully at me looking at the bowl and thinking about the ......#精品长文创作季 in the pot#