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Ning Hui'er's precious life came to an end in her own son's "negligence" so hastily. When she fell into a deep coma and her life hung by a thread, her only son Ning Shu was indifferent to this matter!
At this crucial moment, Ning Shu only had a strong emotion that could not be forgotten in his heart—that is, deep hatred for the Jian family!
However, the shocking fact is that he knew that his mother's physical and mental health was in trouble, but in order to satisfy his personal desires, he kept his mother in his last years by his side and used her as a hostage to contain the enemy Jian Hongcheng.
What's even more chilling is that in order to ensure his own safety and comfort, Ning Shu did not hesitate to push his mother into the sinister abyss, allowing her to suffer Jian Minmin's crazy revenge.
Tian Jingye, who witnessed all this, angrily accused: "You are so unscrupulous to put your mother on top of the crater, you know that the volcano is about to erupt, but you still do nothing and fail to do anything to protect your mother.
Because you know very well that kidnapping your mother is kidnapping Ning You, and kidnapping Ning You means tying other people's hands and feet, and your behavior is really despicable. If you dare to shirk your responsibilities again, I will make you pay a terrible price.
Please keep that in mind. ”
However, in the face of Tian Jingye, who worked day and night in the hospital and went all out to save Ning Hui'er, Ning Shu did not show any gratitude. On the one hand, he thought that his own affairs had nothing to do with Tian Jingye, and on the other hand, he handed over his mother, who was being treated in the emergency room, to Tian Jingye, but he went to participate in social activities.
The doctor once clearly pointed out that Ning Hui'er, who was in a coma, only reacted to the name "Brother Ning Shu". And only forgiveness can awaken the sleeping mother.
However, at this critical moment, in the face of her sister Ning You's bitter pleading, Ning Shu hung up the phone ruthlessly.
Ning Hui'er's life and death have long been forgotten by Ning Shu. All he is concerned with is how to carry out his revenge plan and take revenge on the Jane family. When he finally took care of his affairs and rushed to the hospital, what an astonishing thing did he do? He completely forgot the advice of his sister and the doctor, and fell asleep in his mother's hospital room until his mother died.
Looking back at Ning Hui'er's legendary life, we can clearly glimpse the many regrets she left behind as a wife and mother. As a wife, her attitude towards her husband Cui Hao is really chilling. When Cui Hao was injured in the line of duty, was at the lowest point in his life, and needed the love of his relatives the most, Ning Huier, as his wife, should have stepped forward and brought hope to her husband with warm care and endless support.
However, the truth is quite different! Instead of understanding her husband's predicament, she satirized Cui Hao's frustration and ignited the flames of war until the last trace of warmth vanished.
After Cui Hao left unjustly, Ning Huier showed her ugly face of selfishness to the fullest. In the face of her husband's misfortune, she did not feel the slightest sadness, but intensified her insult to Cui Hao's incompetence, accusing him of dragging down the entire family. What's more, she ignored the huge harm caused to the children by Cui Hao's death, threw herself into the arms of others without shame, and became the culprit of destroying other people's families.
As a junior, Ning Huier's acting skills are superb. With her unique charm, she attracts married men to seek her own interests, and when the benefits are in hand, she turns away without hesitation, completely ignoring the pain and despair of the victim's family. This kind of selfish, cold-blooded and ruthless behavior is really outrageous.
In addition, Ning Huier also has a serious moral bottom line problem in terms of her personal life style. According to the original book, she often picks up other people's lost items without taking the initiative to return them, because in her eyes, taking advantage is a matter of course, and other people's losses have nothing to do with herself. Her thirst for money has transcended basic moral norms.
Judging from Ning Hui'er's bad behaviors such as treating her husband, destroying other people's families, and greedy for ill-gotten gains, she is undoubtedly an extremely selfish, unprincipled, and morally degraded woman. As a mother, her unbounded lifestyle will have a profound and irreversible negative impact on the growth of her children.
Not only as a wife, Ning Hui'er performed unsatisfactorily; As a mother, her philosophy of educating her children is also seriously flawed. She was deeply poisoned by patriarchal thinking, and even though Ning You was still young at the time, she still did not pity putting all the heavy tasks such as taking care of her younger brother Ning Shu and running the housework on the shoulders of her young daughter.
She is a misbehaving mother herself, and what is worse is that she values male children far more than women, and this concept has planted deep-rooted prejudice in the hearts of Ning Shu's children, which directly leads to the loss of his respect and gratitude for his sister Ning You, who raised him as an adult!
In Ning Shu's eyes, his mother always showed a warm and kind face, but Ning You was the "bad guy" who stood up to correct his wrong behavior, which undoubtedly deepened his disgust with his sister.
Such a phenomenon is not uncommon in patriarchal families. Those neglected and oppressed girls are often emotionally rich and empathetic; Boys who are overspoiled and have high hopes can become callous, ungrateful and think that the world should revolve around them.
Ning Shu has shown ruthlessness, unrighteousness, and ungrateful traits since he was a child, just like his mother Ning Hui'er, who is completely self-centered and completely disregards the life and death of others.
His deep dependence on his mother was not actually due to the nourishment of maternal love, but the words and deeds of his mother in daily life deeply influenced him.
Ning, who has been exposed to his mother's way of doing things since he was a child, naturally embarked on a path of revenge that seems to be bright but is actually dark. And the culprit of all this is Ning Huier's dereliction of duty in her children's education.
Sadly, when Ning Shu decided to start implementing the revenge plan against the Jian family, Ning Hui'er showed two shocking characteristics: first, she only longed for a comfortable and comfortable life; Second, her partiality towards her son has reached the point where she can sacrifice her daughter Ning You's happiness and safety for her son's selfish desires.
As a mother, when she found out that her son was making a serious mistake at a critical moment, she should have done her best to stop him and guide him back on track. However, Ning Hui'er's approach was diametrically opposite, her first thought was her pursuit of a better life, and she allowed Ning Shu to slide into the abyss of misdirection step by step.
What's even more shocking is that at the last moment of the matter, she turned out to be her son's "shield" and the most powerful "weapon".
Just when Ning Shu, in order to realize the cruel and ruthless obsession for revenge in her heart, had indifferently pushed the entire family to the edge of endless darkness, and even sinisterly led it into the abyss of no return, as a mother, Ning Hui'er's behavior was so extremely selfish and arbitrary, she never thought that her son's crazy behavior would bring disastrous consequences to her daughter Ning You's life!
Ning Hui'er's indulgence and connivance with her son undoubtedly became a glimmer of life for Ning Shu to continue to move forward. She chose to stay with her son in the end, in fact, she made her firm position clear: she firmly supported and fully supported Ning Shu, and for Ning You, she let her make her own choice.
When Ning You had to take her child away from home and leave her familiar home in order to get rid of the threat of Shao Qinglin's avengers, Ning Hui'er learned this shocking news and instantly fell to the ground like a thunderbolt from the sky! Because her last hope and sustenance were also completely shattered.
Although she knows that her son has long ignored her safety, she still stubbornly sticks to her position, trying to use herself as a bargaining chip to contain her daughter and find a way to survive.
However, when she discovers that this retreat has also been ruthlessly cut off, her body and mind completely collapse, and she eventually falls into a coma. What is even more ironic is that even at this moment of life and death, her consciousness still only reacts to the word "son", and even the last life is unreservedly entrusted to the son Ning Shu, who has long since completely ignored her safety.
The strong hatred and indifference shown by Ning Shu towards his sister Ning You also stemmed from her mother Ning Hui'er's negligence and neglect of her daughter.
Since childhood, her mother Ning Hui'er has often instilled this concept in front of Ning Shu: "Let your younger brother take care of your younger brother." No matter what mistakes Ning Shu makes, her mother always asks Ning You to take most of the responsibility.
Time flies, time passes, and under his mother's words and deeds, Ning Shu gradually formed a deep-rooted psychological cognition - he can do whatever he wants unscrupulously, and he can make any mistakes as he wants, because there are always people who bear everything silently behind his back.
Since childhood, Ning You has not known how much effort he has silently dedicated to his family, but Ning Shu has always turned a deaf ear to this situation and turned a blind eye to his sister's existence. In his mind, his mother Ning Huier is the real beacon on his life path, and she is also a model for him to learn and imitate unconsciously.
Although his mother never directly interfered with his growth stage, she deeply imprinted her deep-rooted values in her son's heart in a moisturizing and silent way.
Whenever his mother showed a kind and kind smile in front of his eyes, Ning Shu would have a strong dislike for his sister Ning You, thinking that his sister was playing the role of a "bad person" and always correcting his younger brother's wrong behavior, which undoubtedly deepened his resentment towards Ning You.
The mother's excessive pampering and favoritism towards her son made Ning Shu's attitude towards Ning You increasingly arrogant and rude. As time passed, his deep dislike for his sister had reached an unspeakable level.
When her mother's life was dying, Ning You earnestly begged Ning Shu to rush to the hospital to wake up her sleeping mother, but Ning Shu ruthlessly hung up the phone, completely ignoring her mother's life and death.
In Ning Shu's eyes, Ning You was just a stumbling block blocking his way forward, an obstacle that had to be cleared. He had long forgotten his sister from the trajectory of his life, regarded her as a mustard, and was indifferent to her safety.
When Ning You had to take the child away in order to avoid Shao Qinglin's threat, Ning Shu was still indifferent to this, and he didn't care about his sister's whereabouts.
It is not difficult to find from her mother's education concept that Ning Hui'er's negligence and misguidance of her daughter Ning You are the fundamental reason why Ning Shu is so disgusted and indifferent to her sister.
The mother invisibly instilled her own values into her son, so that he lacked the most basic respect and gratitude for his sister since he was a child.