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Liu Yan's life originated from an ordinary Shonan family, although their family economic situation is not rich, but the family has always lived a harmonious and happy life.
Liu Yan has a pampered brother, and she grew up carefree in such a family environment.
With the passage of time, Liu Yan made the decision to study in Guangzhou deep down, and it was in this prosperous city that she experienced the first love in her life, and the pain like a knife was deeply imprinted in her heart.
During that time, because Liu Yan had a graceful figure, many people favored her, but she was deeply bound by traditional concepts, and often felt helpless and helpless in the face of other people's pursuits.
She had to start self-reflection to figure out what kind of man she really liked, but she couldn't stir up a single bit of excitement among these passionate suitors.
Until one day, a fresh and handsome young man appeared in Liu Yan's sight, he approached her, but he was a little timid and shy. When Liu Yan looked at the boy, an urge to uncover his mystery surged in her mind, she couldn't explain why she had such special feelings for this teenager, maybe it was his handsome face or excellent basketball skills that attracted her.
The moment the young man confessed his heart to Liu Yan, she did not refuse coldly, but bravely took that step and embarked on this journey of love full of unknowns. In the first time of love, the teenager cared for her and was considerate.
He often brings Liu Yan delicious snacks and cool thirst-quenching drinks, and is always by her side when she needs her most attention. Liu Yan was deeply moved by this deep friendship, and even fantasized about spending the rest of his life with him.
However, the complexity of human nature is elusive, especially for those who are known as "scumbags". As the relationship gradually deepened, Liu Yan gradually noticed that her boyfriend's attitude had changed.
Every time the two quarreled, her boyfriend no longer comforted her as gently as before, but chose to leave decisively. Liu Yan plucked up the courage to ask him if he had changed his mind, but in exchange for the back of her boyfriend who shook his head lightly and left resolutely, tears poured up her cheeks like a flood.
Soon after, her boyfriend appeared in front of Liu Yan again under the pretext of borrowing money. Considering that he may have really realized his mistake, Liu Yan did not hesitate to lend him all his remaining living expenses, and could only eat steamed buns every day to fill his stomach.
However, to her consternation, her boyfriend got back together with her just for the purpose of exploitation! One day, when Liu Yan inadvertently saw her boyfriend talking intimately with a woman on the side of the street, she couldn't help but be suspicious.
She wonders if she is looking at the wrong person, so she decides to follow her and finally reveals the truth - the woman who interacted intimately with her boyfriend turned out to be the one she spent with day and night! This made Liu Yan heartbroken, and it was difficult to understand why her boyfriend would be so treacherous! .
Just when Liu Yan had infinite expectations for love, her academic career came to an end, and she began to get involved in the entertainment industry. However, Liu Yan, who has just entered this industry, has encountered many obstacles, and her once proud figure has become the focus of her criticism.
Although she is full of enthusiasm for her hosting career, she is always treated indifferently by the staff: "You just need to dress up and stand in the center of the stage".
Just when Liu Yan was full of beautiful visions for the future, her originally loving and sweet boyfriend suddenly left her and refused to give any explanation. Liu Yan burst into tears, puzzled, what caused him to be so ruthlessly abandoned? .
Soon after, the boyfriend reappeared under the pretext of borrowing money. Liu Yan didn't see through his tricks, and she didn't hesitate to use what little living expenses she had left to help him, with the good hope that the two of them could start again.
However, as time passed, Liu Yan gradually noticed that her boyfriend's attitude towards her was becoming more and more cold, and she was even bumped into by her on the street to talk intimately with other women.
At that moment, Liu Yan was completely shocked, and she finally understood that what she loved at the beginning was an out-and-out "scumbag". Soon after the breakup, her boyfriend quickly started a new relationship, but she was never able to let go of this relationship, and that unforgettable love experience pierced her heart like a sharp needle, and every time she recalled it, she felt extremely painful.
This painful experience left Liu Yan tormented, and she threw herself into her career, trying to forget the trauma in her heart through her busy work. However, just as she was about to enter a new stage of her life, a sudden blow broke her again - her boyfriend's family never really accepted her.
Since the relationship was confirmed, her boyfriend's mother has been constantly involved in Liu Yan's daily life. Whenever Liu Yan took a break from her busy work and was looking forward to sharing sweet time with her boyfriend, her boyfriend's mother always unceremoniously forced her to rush to the house immediately and plunged into the hustle and bustle of the kitchen, frying, cooking, stewing, steaming, stir-frying, and doing her best to show respect and kindness to her taste buds.
However, despite Liu Yan's hard work, purchasing all kinds of high-quality ingredients, and carefully cooking unique flavors, her boyfriend's mother would only lightly drop a sentence of "okay" after tasting the food, and then let her leave in a troubled way.
In desperation, Liu Yan tried to win her mother-in-law's recognition and love through hard work, but her mother-in-law's prejudice against her remained the same. She had to take on all the tedious chores of her boyfriend's housework, but no matter how hard she tried, she could not get half of her mother-in-law's approval, but was often accused of being groundless and accused of not doing things quickly and neatly.
However, just when Liu Yan was caught in the whirlpool of the "bridesmaid door" incident, the turmoil had not subsided, but she unexpectedly received a breakup call from her boyfriend. One is full of longing for marriage, while the other is ready to leave.
When Liu Yan heard the news, she was shocked, and she really couldn't understand what mistake she had made to be treated like this.
As fate played, Liu Yan starred in the movie "Beneficiary" in 2019, and she shocked the audience with her superb acting skills, instantly getting rid of the stereotype of "proud figure" in the past.
People are finally able to get a glimpse of the rich world inside her, and no longer confine her to the framework of sexy beauty.
Before participating in "Beneficiary", Liu Yan has been working tirelessly for his acting career. In order to improve her acting skills, she bravely challenged various new forms of stage performance, such as the traditional art of cross talk.
At first, she didn't know anything in the field of cross talk, but with her diligence and enthusiasm for art, she quickly mastered the essence of cross talk. When she first appeared on the stage and performed cross talk with vivid and humorous imitation and exaggerated body movements, the audience laughed constantly and applauded.
Liu Yan's dream of becoming an excellent actor has never wavered, and she has worked tirelessly to sharpen herself in various fields. In addition to cross talk, she has also dabbled in a variety of stage performances such as sketches and dramas, from which she has absorbed rich and diverse life experiences and valuable experiences.
In this experience, Liu Yan gradually accumulated his own strength and skills with his tenacity and perseverance and unremitting efforts. Finally, in 2022, she stepped on the big stage of the Beijing Spring Festival Gala with a dazzling light, showing her profound technical foundation and perfect performing arts to the national audience.
Looking at Liu Yan's confident and charming figure on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala, the audience present was deeply affected and fell for it. Someone described it with vivid brushstrokes: "We thought that Liu Yan was just an actress with a proud figure, but we didn't expect her acting skills to be so good and talented."
It is through such unremitting efforts that Liu Yan has successfully let people see the unique light in her heart.
Despite his impressive career achievements, Liu Yan's desire to find true love has always been the same. However, in the long years, the road she has walked to find love is full of ups and downs, and blind dates have ended in failure again and again.
Whether it is the recommendation of a dating website or the matchmaking of relatives and friends, Liu Yan has tried various ways, hoping to meet the heartwarming him. However, every time the other party appeared in front of her, there was always a trace of hesitation in her heart.
Liu Yan began to reflect, is it because of his too outstanding appearance that these troubles have been caused? It's like the prejudice of her ex-boyfriend's mother against her.
Even if Liu Yan was dressed plainly and wore the simplest no-makeup makeup, she couldn't hide her excellent temperament and bright face. When most blind dates meet her for the first time, their eyes tend to be involuntarily attracted to her beauty and lack in-depth knowledge and attention to her inner qualities.
Liu Yan didn't intend to show a lofty posture, but the "bridesmaid door" incident had left a deep wound on her soul. Since then, she has become extremely sensitive to the fact that she is "seen as a sexy beauty".
Faced with failed blind dates again and again, Liu Yan also fell into frustration. However, whenever she recalls the brief reunion after breaking up with her ex-boyfriend many years ago, her heart is filled with endless sadness.
At that time, Liu Yan could never have imagined that the man she had loved so much would completely forget her and start a new relationship only a month after the breakup.
This unexpected, sudden blow was like a fatal blow, making Liu Yan feel as if his heart had been torn apart like an unprecedented pain. She felt that the world in front of her had fallen into the abyss of darkness in an instant, and she could not find a little light in life, and there was no glimmer of hope and strength to move forward.
She began to question herself, had fate already arranged for her to die alone? Will you never be able to find that soulmate in the depths of your heart, the partner you can rely on for life?
Even if he bravely stepped on the road of acting and created brilliant achievements, the shadow in Liu Yan's heart has not completely dissipated. She is always looking for the soul mate who can communicate with her heart, but she also makes her inner defense line stronger and stronger, and it is difficult to open her heart.
The trajectory of life always seems to be repeated, and the desire to love and be loved is like a ring on a seesaw, and it is always impossible to find the fulcrum of balance.
Liu Yan, who is now 41 years old, is still alone. However, after countless hardships, she chose to be independent and self-reliant, shining in the art world with a strong will, showing the unique style of women.
Looking back on the trough years, Liu Yan was also on the verge of collapse for a time. The public opinion turmoil caused by the bridesmaid gate incident caused her to lose a lot of valuable job opportunities and her career suffered a heavy blow.
However, with Liu Yan's perseverance, she was not completely overwhelmed by these predicaments.
Even in the midst of many difficulties, Liu Yan has never given up his persistent pursuit of career. She always wept silently, but at the same time persevered in her hard work, ready to set off again.
It is this never-say-die determination and perseverance that made Liu Yan finally get rid of the haze and step towards a new stage of life.
However, despite his remarkable career achievements, Liu Yan's emotional life is still blank. At the age of 40, she does not have any stable partner by her side, so she can only move forward on the journey of life alone.
This loneliness was not what Liu Yan expected, but after experiencing too much trauma, she gradually lost the courage to embrace a new relationship. The injuries she had suffered were like sharp steel needles, piercing deep into her heart, and the pain was indelible.
When faced with the enthusiastic pursuit of others, Liu Yan will always unconsciously erect a high protective barrier, trying to avoid falling into a situation that may bring harm again. Even if she is lucky enough to meet the person she likes, she will inevitably develop an instinctive alertness, so that she often fails to make it to the last step, leading to futility.
However, it is undeniable that Liu Yan in solitude does not seem arrogant and cold because of this, but gathers strength in an ethereal state, she is trying to learn how to be truly independent, and do her best to fill the hole in her heart, and then become a strong and independent woman in the new eraOnly in this way can she get rid of the merciless pain and torture of the past, glow with new vitality, and face a new journey of life.
In fact, Liu Yan has gone through many injuries and hardships, but he has never given up the pursuit of a bright future, bravely stepped into the road of rebirth, and met new challenges in life. Her story shows us a shining example of how women can be independent, self-reliant, and never say die.
Looking back on the path she has traveled, its essence is from the innocence and immaturity of her school days to the betrayal of love when she was injured by an accident; From the difficulties and heavy blows in the process of career development, to the final reinvigoration and courage to stand up bravely, Liu Yan has successfully overcome the shadow of the past with his firm will and tenacious perseverance.
Today's Liu Yan is committed to finding the home of his soul. Although she has encountered countless setbacks and losses on the road of pursuing love, she has never given up her longing and expectation for a happy marriage.
In the face of all kinds of difficulties and obstacles in real life, Liu Yan is no longer as easily shaken as in the past, she began to learn to think independently, learn to face all kinds of ups and downs of life with a positive and optimistic attitude, whenever she recalls that unforgettable love experience, Liu Yan always admonishes herself, "to move forward bravely, don't let the past pain restrain the pace of progress."
Liu Yan is well aware of the direction of life he is pursuing. Although the road ahead is long and winding, she has a clear plan and pursuit for the future. She will continue to improve herself in the field of business and contribute her modest contribution to the progress of society.
At the same time, she also has an ardent expectation for a beautiful love, hoping to find a relationship worth cherishing.
For Liu Yan, although the future road is full of unknowns, she has full confidence in herself. After years of baptism of wind and rain, she has become extremely tenacious and will definitely be able to write a more brilliant chapter in her life.
Indeed, what is admirable is that the greatest courage of women is not how strong and resolute they become, but in bravely facing their inner world and not being at the mercy of fate and completely sinking.
Taking Liu Yan as an example, she truly interprets the power of women's independence with her life, and naturally exudes a unique and extraordinary light.
This light, even in the midst of endless darkness, can still lead us forward and illuminate the way ahead. Let us be full of confidence in the future and firmly believe that Liu Yan will be able to write his own brilliant chapter on this broad road to happiness!