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59-year-old He Saifei is sitting quietly on the balcony at the moment, enjoying the sunset, and the brilliant and dazzling sunset can't help but evoke endless thoughts in her heart. When she gently stroked an ancient and precious old photo in her hand, the faint smile that inadvertently appeared on the corner of her mouth seemed to tell her deep joy and satisfaction.
This photo was taken 34 years ago, and it was a beautiful moment when she and her husband Yang Nan were newly married to Yan'er. At that time, they were wearing unpretentious wedding dresses and hugged each other tightly, with extremely happy smiles on their faces.
Time flies, time flies, and now they have spent more than 30 years together. He Saifei is deeply grateful, because with such a confidant as Yang Nan, he has gone through countless difficulties and obstacles in his life together.
She stared at the young and handsome husband in the photo, her eyes full of kindness and love. It was this humble and courteous man who reached out to her when she was most lonely and helpless, and gave her unprecedented support and encouragement, thus creating her brilliance today.
She gently touched her cheek, which was carved with the marks of time. However, this old face is full of happiness because of Yang Nan's affectionate companionship for many years.
Those once hard years now seem like a dream, long since dissipated in the wind.
Looking back on the past, those past events that are as ethereal as smoke and clouds, He Saifei's life road is not all smooth sailing. She grew up in a poor family environment, her mother died young, and her father was left alone to take on the responsibility of raising their sisters.
The turning point of fate came when He Saifei was five years old, due to various reasons, her parents chose to separate, and she could only follow her father to leave her familiar hometown and come to a distant fishing village, where she began to live as a single parent.
During that time, the young He Saifei often missed his late mother, was confused about the reasons for his parents' divorce, and his heart was always shrouded in a layer of gloom.
Despite the family's poor financial situation, her father never treated her badly. With his own skills, he sewed clothes for his daughter himself, and even if he was frugal, he hired a private tutor to teach her martial arts and music.
What's even more rare is that he has a unique vision, discovered He Saifei's talent in opera, and did not hesitate to invite a famous teacher to teach her skills.
Looking back on those heartwarming moments in his childhood, artist He Saifei's tears couldn't help but slide down his cheeks. In these fond memories, my father's deep love and careful nurturing is undoubtedly the most important factor, and it is because of my father's love and selfless dedication that she has given birth to the high-profile she is today.
She will never forget that cold winter night, when her father sat quietly under the dim kerosene lamp, intently playing the shamisen in his hand for her, and telling the long history of opera and the moving stories of various repertoire.
Her father's expectations for her have always been like kerosene lamps, illuminating the way forward in the dark night, giving her the strength and guidance to move forward. It was that deep fatherly love that inspired her to study the road of opera, work hard, and finally climb to the top of her career.
In his early 20s, He Saifei has emerged in the Zhejiang Xiaobaihua Yue Opera Troupe, and his career is thriving. It was by chance that year that she met Yang Nan, who also worked in the troupe.
When she met Yang Nan for the first time, He Saifei seemed to have found a confidant in her heart, and his humility, elegance, stability and generosity deeply attracted her.
The tall, mighty, and personable Yang Nan brought the young He Saifei an unprecedented sense of security. He always has sincere feelings for the love of his heart, and goes all out to pursue passionately.
Whether it was coming all the way to see her performance, or using her mother as an excuse to ask about something, she sincerely invited He Saifei to come to her home as a guest.
What touched He Saifei even more was that when she encountered a predicament, Yang Nan did not hesitate to stand up and take care of her. In 1984, when He Saifei was filming the movie "Five Daughters' Birthday", the bad news came from the family that his father was seriously ill.
A thought struck her like a bolt from the blue: her father had raised her sisters alone, but now she was alone and unattended.
Just when she was in a dilemma, Yang Nan comforted her like sunshine: "My boyfriend can show his value at this moment!" You can rest assured that you can devote yourself to the filming, everything is with me! He immediately put down his work and guarded his father's sickbed around the clock, taking care of his daily life.
Whenever he had spare time, He Saifei would rush back to the hospital in a hurry and share the responsibility of taking care of his father with Yang Nan.
She still clearly remembers Yang Nan's figure in the ward: from daily washing to feeding, he took care of everything, and even the other patients in the ward mistakenly thought that he was He's father's biological son.
However, it has to be said that the relationship between Yang Nan and Father He is not as close as people expect. He just wanted to convey his deep and incomprehensible love to He Saifei in this way.
Although fate seemed to be extremely cruel, it still deprived his father of his life after all, but Yang Nan's meticulous and consistent companionship gave He Saifei the courage and strength to stand up again, watching her career gradually get on the right track, but the once prosperous peak moment could not be shared with her father, which undoubtedly brought her endless regrets
Thanks to Yang Nan's firm support and patient persuasion, He Saifei rekindled his passion for struggle and devoted himself to his career.
Yang Nan's selfless dedication made He Saifei completely open his heart. They stared at each other, smiling, and the affection that flowed from their eyes was like a pair made in heaven.
Their hearts grew closer and closer, and they eventually spent the rest of their lives together in that era.
In 1987, He Saifei finally ushered in an important moment in her life - marrying her soul mate Yang Nan, which opened a new chapter in her life. Although they don't have a new home, a new car, or a lavish wedding dress, as long as they have the sincere love for each other, it is enough.
In that unpretentious wedding photo, they hugged each other tightly, and their faces were filled with happiness.
After marriage, Yang Nan showed his carefulness and thoughtfulness and took good care of his wife. He had insight into He Saifei's desire to consider having children after his career was stable, so he silently supported her choice and took on most of the responsibilities of the family.
In that era of scarcity of materials, their lives were not well-off, and they could not even afford the cost of taking wedding photos.
Although the financial power of the family is nominally in the hands of He Saifei, she smiled and said, "Although the money is in my hands, it is he who really controls it." When their first child, He Xiaofeng, was born in 1998, ten years after they got married.
As a novice parent, in the face of various challenges of parenting, Yang Nan seems to be at ease and carefully guides He Saifei how to deal with it.
In order to be able to concentrate more on running his family, He Saifei decisively decided to take a break from his busy work and devote himself to caring for the children and handling housework.
From that moment on, Yang Nan took on the role of a full-time nanny and went all out to shoulder the heavy responsibility of the daily affairs of the entire family.
Every morning, he wakes up early before the first rays of sunlight shine on the earth, and then takes a vigorous stride to the bustling wet market to select the freshest, best quality ingredients for his family.
When he returns to the cozy nest with a full harvest, Yang Nan will personally cook a series of home-cooked delicacies with color and flavor.
In order to ensure He Saifei's health, he even spent a lot of time researching various recipes to carefully cook dishes that were both delicious and had the effect of lowering blood pressure. At the dining table, he would carefully sandwich He Saifei's favorite dishes into her bowl, which undoubtedly made He Saifei feel extremely warm and happy.
Whenever He Saifei needs to go out to work, Yang Nan will always give her meticulous care and care. He would repeatedly remind his wife to pay attention to her eating habits and her physical condition at all times, lest she be overworked and affect her health.
Sometimes, He Saifei would half-jokingly say, "You are like a nagging old mother." However, her tone was filled with deep love and gratitude for her husband.
The road of life is long and tortuous, but as long as two people work together, they will be able to overcome many difficulties and move forward bravely. Yang Nan consistently showed his thoughtfulness and care, and did his best to take care of the housework.
He Saifei, on the other hand, devotes more energy to his career and family, and is committed to becoming an outstanding actor and a virtuous wife and mother.
They have composed a symphony of happy life with practical actions.