Preface
An otherwise beautiful wedding has been plunged into unprecedented chaos by a ridiculous request. In the face of the double elevation of the conflict, the bride repented and was confused. Will the wedding be burned? What is the origin of this turmoil? Let's find out!
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01. The bride's best friend proposed a 28,800 cash drop-off gift
A wedding that should have been jubilant has been plunged into unprecedented chaos because of a ridiculous request. The bride's best friend insisted on asking the groom's family to cash 28,800 yuan as a gift money for getting off the bus. This is tantamount to turning the solemn ceremony of the wedding into a monetary transaction, which is simply unseemly.
The best friend's determination is stronger than anyone else's, and she doesn't seem to hesitate to make this request. In the face of the groom's opposition, she justifiably defended herself, believing that it was a manifestation of respect for the bride and the importance of the wedding. But what is the reason for a bridesmaid who should be interested in a wedding to make such excessive demands? The temptation of money, or ulterior motives?
I have to say that the influence of the girlfriend's behavior on the bride is too great. Under her persuasion, the bride resolutely refused to step out of the door of the groom's house, even if the groom was willing to make up the gift money afterwards. As a result, the wedding schedule was completely interrupted, and the families of both sides began to be tense, and the scene was out of control for a while. Seeing that the originally successful wedding was about to suffer like this, although the groom was willing to compromise, he was also constrained by the tough attitude of his girlfriend. In this stalemate, the peaceful festivities faded into obscurity, replaced by endless bickering and squabbling.
In this way, a couple who were supposed to be newly married had to face the dilemma of being forced to cancel the wedding. In the face of this unexpected result, it is inevitable that people will sigh, you know, for this day, how hard the preparation work! And once the girlfriend asks too much, all the efforts will come to naught. I can't help but wonder, what is the reason why she is so ruined about this wedding?
02. Conflict between parents on both sides
The groom's family was furious at her actions, and an argument ensued.
At first, it was just a fierce confrontation of words, and no one was willing to back down half a step. The elders of the groom's family panted and accused their girlfriends of being vexatious and ruining their children's wedding. And the girlfriend is full of words, thinking that she is trying to give justice to the bride. The two sides argued, and it soon turned into a physical altercation.
The scene was chaotic for a while, with pushing, pulling, and pulling occurring one after another. Friends and relatives are busy arguing for fear that the situation will escalate further. Someone accidentally pushed the bride to the ground on the pretext of stopping the dispute. Seeing this, the girlfriend was even more indignant and yelled at the groom's family.
This is undoubtedly the greatest harm to the bride. She cried and got up from the ground, her red and swollen eyes full of pain and grievance. Under the repeated persuasion of her best friend, the bride haggardly announced the cancellation of the wedding, and then turned around and left the scene with her best friend, as if she was the biggest victim.
It all happened so suddenly, leaving both families stunned. They never imagined that what was originally a happy event would turn into such a suffocating tragedy. Seeing the bride's decision, the groom's family burst into a rage and asked her how she would explain to her relatives and friends. The scene was crying and scolding, and it was a mess. Under the shroud of this atmosphere, the originally lively wedding scene fell into a deathly silence. Seeing this almost suffocating scene, the reader must be extremely worried about the development of events. How long will the situation continue to spiral out of control? Will the two sides be able to untie the knot? Will the wedding be a nuisance?
03. Netizens are hotly discussed
The news of the forced cancellation of the wedding spread quickly on the Internet, and the girlfriend's practice immediately triggered a surging tide of public opinion. People unanimously condemned her behavior of making excessive and unreasonable demands, and this extreme selfishness and lack of judgment undoubtedly ruined what should have been a happy wedding.
Netizens have slammed her best friend, believing that her actions have seriously crossed the boundaries of friendship and caused significant mental and financial losses to both the bride and groom. As a bridesmaid, she should sincerely bless and fully cooperate with the newlyweds, instead of making unreasonable demands and finally making things to such a point.
Some netizens questioned: "How can a friend's or relative's wedding be controlled by an inconsequential person?" Others bluntly said that the girlfriend's approach was entirely to satisfy their own selfish vanity, but they disregarded the happiness of the newcomer.
Of course, there are also people who put forward different opinions and try to excuse their girlfriends. They believe that the marriage custom has its own rationality, and there is nothing wrong with the bridesmaids asking for some reasonable gifts, and the parents of both sides reacted too violently to cause the situation to get out of control. However, such voices were quickly drowned out by more angry voices.
In reality, the bride and groom and their families are suffering tremendous mental trauma. A couple of newcomers who were supposed to spend candle nights in the cave room broke up unhappily. In order to prepare for this wedding, the families of both sides have worked hard and paid countless efforts and money. The momentary mistakes of girlfriends not only let down others, but also disliked their friends for many years. Seeing such a disturbing scene of public opinion, one can't help but worry, will the people involved in the incident be affected by this and do more extreme things? Or has the pandering to public opinion subsided?
04. The bride regrets it
When she returned home, she felt like she was in an ice cellar and trembled. After repeated persuasion from her parents, she finally came to her senses and realized how reckless and hurtful her decision was.
Remorseful, the bride cried and fell into the arms of her parents, hating that she was bewitched by her best friend for a while. She knew that she had lost the money first, and that she had to apologize to the groom and his family in order to save the marriage that had completely broken down. So, she asked her parents to accompany her to the groom's house, and she confessed her mistake to the other party.
However, no one could have imagined that the accompanying parents would be rejected so harshly on the way. The door of the bridegroom's house was kept tightly closed, and no matter how they knocked on the door, there was no answer inside. In the end, the only greeting that a family member had ever said to them was to announce the groom's decision: to cancel the marriage completely!
The bride was poured cold water, and the more terrible was still to come, and the other party next put forward a request to return all the bride price and three gold! This is undoubtedly a complete economic separation between the two sides, allowing them to taste the gifts and hardships given by relatives and friends.
After the news came out, the public opinion that once spurned his girlfriend gradually cooled down. Under the persuasion of everyone, the girlfriend finally realized how terrible her childish and selfish approach was at that time, and decided to officially appear and apologize to everyone.
Although she cried and apologized to the bride and groom and the families of both parties, all the apologies were exchanged for more anger and hatred. Because the trauma she caused is irreparable. Former friends can no longer rebuild their old friendships. Faced with the bride's crying in front of herself, her best friend finally realized that she had caused all this!
05. Reflection and lessons
This wedding turmoil that shocked the society not only reflects the contradiction between traditional marriage customs and modern values, but also makes people reflect on the harm of individuals being interfered with by others when making decisions.
Traditionally, it is understandable for bridesmaids to ask for some reasonable gifts, and this old custom reflects the importance people attach to marriage. However, the 28,800 yuan get-off gift proposed by the girlfriend is too outrageous and unreasonable, far beyond the ability of ordinary people to bear, and incompatible with the concept of modern society.
From another point of view, the bride was completely bewitched and manipulated by her best friend's words and deeds at a critical moment, giving up the ability to think and judge independently. As a client, she should have been decisive and measured, but she was completely coerced by the opinions of others, and finally made a big mistake. This has to make people reflect on the fact that when making important decisions, no one should listen too much to the opinions of others, but should maintain independent thinking and autonomy.
At a deeper level, this incident has triggered a reflection on human nature and social values. The reason why the girlfriend behaves so deviantly is it out of greed or ulterior motives? Didn't she think about what kind of harm her actions would bring to the newcomer? In the same way, after the wedding was cancelled, was the groom also too paranoid and heartless, not giving the relationship a chance to start over?
All these questions point to the complexity and changeability of human nature. In fact, there are negative emotions such as greed, selfishness, and paranoia in each of us, but the form and degree of expression are different. This enlightens us that instead of judging the rights and wrongs of others, we should reflect on whether we have a similar psychological dark side, so as to guide society to develop in a more civilized, rational and mutually loving direction.
Of course, in terms of this specific incident, there is no doubt that the groom's actions are quite surprising. In the face of the sincere apology of the bride and his family, he was still merciless, and his attitude was resolute to the point of despair. Years of affection, is it just in vain? When the reader learns of his decision, there will undoubtedly be a new wave of thought in his heart, should he be more magnanimous and give this relationship a chance to start over?
epilogue
While this incident has caused great pain and trauma to all involved, we should not focus too much on the black-and-white judgment of who is right and who is wrong. On the contrary, we should reflect on ourselves and guide society to develop in a more rational, tolerant and mutually respectful direction.
Life is like this, there are challenges everywhere, and we need to stay focused in the face of difficulties. The same is true for marriage, both husband and wife need to use enough wisdom and courage to face difficulties one by one, and use understanding and tolerance to resolve differences, rather than sticking to small things. As far as the groom is concerned, although his approach is somewhat confusing and surprising, it is precisely because of the emotional trauma that he is so absolute.
Therefore, we should be more considerate of everyone's situation, rather than making too arbitrary judgments in black and white. Only with an open and inclusive attitude can society achieve steady and long-term success. There is still a long way to go, so let us work together to resolve differences with wisdom and courage, embrace reconciliation with understanding and tolerance, and work together to build a more harmonious society.