As we all know, it is very hard for a woman to give birth to a child and take a baby, especially after just experiencing childbirth, a woman who is confined, her body is still relatively weak, she needs to rest more, and she needs the considerate understanding of her family and husband, so that her mother can recover her health as soon as possible and devote herself to normal life and work.
The daughter-in-law gave birth to a child, and the mother-in-law seemed to have become an unshirkable responsibility to help take care of the baby, after all, it was the son's small family, and the in-laws should help.
Some mothers-in-law are relatively strong, so the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also a severe test for the family, so when there is a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, as a husband, his attitude is very critical.
The following man's approach has been praised by netizens, the family sat at the dining table to eat that day, the wife had just given birth a month later, and her body had not fully recovered, but she also insisted on coming over, sitting at the dining table and eating with her family.
There are two babies at home, and the eldest baby sits at his own small dining table, eats by himself, and behaves very well-behaved.
And the little baby, who had just been full moon, suddenly cried loudly, instantly breaking the silence in the room.
During the period, the position where the son and daughter-in-law were sitting, close to the baby, the mother-in-law saw the child crying, the son and daughter-in-law were indifferent, the mother-in-law immediately became anxious, pointed to the daughter-in-law's face, and asked loudly,
"The child is crying like this, you go and hug him! It's true, the children don't care, they know how to eat! ”
The daughter-in-law was taken aback by her mother-in-law's reprimand, she didn't react in a daze, and she didn't know why her mother-in-law was so angry.
In the middle of the daughter-in-law's stunned hesitation, the son next to him immediately stood up, and he shouted at his mother, "You eat, you can eat," and he turned around and picked up the child from the stroller.
The mother-in-law seemed to be very dissatisfied and continued to blame her daughter-in-law, but the son couldn't help it and said to his mother: "The child can cry if he cries, it's not a big deal!" What are you afraid of! ”
Seeing his wife's panicked expression, the husband was busy and comforted her: "You eat yours, don't worry about him!" ”
The husband's domineering behavior gave the wife a lot of confidence, she continued to eat silently, and no longer paid attention to her mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law finally shut up.
After netizens saw it, they felt a little suffocated, they said: Mother-in-law watched the child crying, why didn't she pick it up, but blamed her daughter-in-law?
In fact, in real life, many sensible mothers-in-law will eat with their daughter-in-law when they eat, they hold the child, coax the child, and wait for the daughter-in-law to eat when the daughter-in-law is full.
It can be seen from the mother-in-law's attitude towards her daughter-in-law that she should have had a grudge against each other for a long time, and it is estimated that the mother-in-law is not used to her daughter-in-law on weekdays, so she will accuse her loudly this time.
Fortunately, the man was very powerful, and immediately got up to protect his wife, and went to coax the child himself, so that his wife could eat well.
The man's actions gave many female netizens a reassurance, and they said that they had a vision for marriage again.
Many people are afraid of marriage, because they are worried that they will not be happy after marriage, their mother-in-law is strong, their husbands are inactive, and they are too hard to live as women.
Some netizens liked: My mother-in-law's hand is about to point to people's noses, which is really excessive, and my husband has improved my view of mate selection by himself.
In real life, there are still many good men who have a sense of responsibility and spoil their wives, and girls should not lose the courage to pursue love and marriage.
Of course, the man's attitude towards his mother is also debatable, he can talk to his mother well, and then remind his mother that such an attitude is not good, so that his mother will not be able to get off the stage, and the old man is actually for the good of the child.
In many families, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is tense, and the husband's inaction has a lot to do with it, as a man has to take on the responsibility of the family, he is the communication link between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law, the man does a good job, and gives his wife full respect and care, then, the rest of the mother-in-law's family does not dare to look down on the daughter-in-law.