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My name is Tan Zhiliang, in 1991, when I was 25 years old, I studied rice planting technology in an agricultural college for four years, and after graduation, I was assigned to a rice planting research center in a certain province.
Later, the unit to which I belonged set up a branch of the seed research station in each county, and I was selected to be the head of the sub-station in a poor mountainous county.
Although in the eyes of my college classmates, I was lucky, after all, I was only twenty-five years old, and I had the title of stationmaster.
But I was actually ashamed of it.
Because this sub-station, including me, has only three staff members, and the other two are local farmers who can't read big characters, and our main job is to collect all kinds of agricultural planting data, so I don't have much chance to make any technical research and development achievements.
But I always remember the encouragement that the old leader of the unit, Liu Qingcan, the executive deputy director, said when I went to the countryside.
Back then, he also had such an experience of going to the countryside, and now he is a very important member of the CPPCC.
He told me that although the conditions and environment at the grassroots level are not good, they can temper people's will the most, and it will be of great benefit to my future development if they are tempered there.
After I arrived in the countryside, I found that the living environment and living standards here are really far from those in the provincial capitals.
I originally weighed 135 pounds, but I lost more than 20 pounds, and my white face also turned a healthy bronzer, so when I participated in the class reunion, I was ridiculed by those female classmates, saying that I was more sunny than in the past.
I thought to myself, it's really sunny, after all, it's sunning every day.
College students studying agriculture want to mingle with the peasant masses, integrate into the peasant masses, and become a member of them.
Later, I gradually got used to the work and life there, and I felt that such a life was very fulfilling, after all, I also contributed my youth to agriculture.
I had been working at this branch for three years, and by the time I was twenty-seven, I was starting to worry about my marriage.
My classmates have all gotten married one after another, and the female classmate I liked when I was in college was already married, and I wrote a letter to bless her at that time, but my heart was sour.
I thought to myself, there are too few people I can know in this job, although some of my classmates have helped me to introduce them, but due to the long distance, it is difficult for both parties to meet each other, let alone really get together.
My parents once told me to go back to my hometown for a blind date, and then I would come to the county where I worked with the person I met and live together.
But I only thought that I lived in a simple dormitory here, and when the other party came, I couldn't get a job arrangement, so I would definitely regret following me, so I said, don't talk about this blind date, I'll find it here.
However, I know very well that in this rural area, it is really difficult to find someone who I think is suitable and the other party thinks is suitable.
At that time, our various scientific research grassroots stations in the county could actually contact each other, and they came out to meet from time to time. Therefore, I also met a group of good comrades, but few of them were women.
But one day, they told me that each scientific research station formed a basketball team to participate in the basketball game held by grassroots cadres and personnel in various towns in this county.
I ended up participating, but I lost the first game and lost a lot of face.
The women's team lost even more of a mess, the score was quite different, I was sweating on the sidelines after playing my own game, but they were not angry at all.
What I didn't expect was that the female captain of the friendly team, a tall and beautiful lesbian with a height of about seven meters, actually walked up to me and said to me with a smile, can I stop shouting so loudly, it will affect their performance, thus causing the unfairness of the result of the game.
When this lesbian came up to me, I looked at her fixedly, and I only felt stunned.
Not only is she tall, but her figure is also quite good, her arc is quite smooth and obvious, and her skin is unusually white, which makes me feel that she is not like a rural girl who grew up in this countryside.
And when she spoke to me, a crimson appeared on her face, which made me blush.
I just nodded dumbly, apologized to her, and promised never to scream again.
During the whole process, I quietly watched such an amateur women's basketball game on the sidelines, and my eyes never left the tall and beautiful woman who came to talk to me just now.
I thought back to the way she had just spoken, and I only felt that she was not drunk, because I was not the only gay man who was shouting, why did she come to me and admonish me like this, obviously she wanted me to pay attention to her.
When the game was over, I just wanted to go back, and looked at her with reluctant eyes, thinking that this might be the last time I met her, because I had no excuse to know her, and the two sides could only be fated to each other, and it was estimated that there were very few chances of meeting her in the future.
What I didn't expect was that this tall and beautiful female captain looked at me the same way, and she laughed, as if asking me, why am I looking at her like this?
Eventually, I avoided her in embarrassment and shame, but she ran up to me and told me that she said that to me just now, and hoped I wouldn't mind, and she just wanted the outcome of the event to be fair, so she told me not to scream.
I smiled shyly and shook my head, and said to her, it's nothing, anyway, I'm just here for an event, both to play and to cheer, and I think it's quite meaningful.
My heartbeat at this moment has accelerated many times, in fact, I really want to talk to her more, so as to get to know each other, and even make an appointment, we can have a good relationship, if we can talk about the object, it is really a good fate from heaven that I never dreamed of.
But in the end, she stopped talking, and looked at me as if she didn't want to say anything, so she waved her hand at me and signaled goodbye, because her teammates were waiting for her, and if she continued to talk like me like this, she would definitely feel shy and made fun of by those teammates.
And just like that, she ran back to her group, only to look back at me with a smile again.
At that moment, I was very disappointed, and I only thought about why I didn't seize the opportunity to get to know her well, ask her which place of work she is, and tell me my own work unit?
Eventually, I could only watch her and her teammates drift away.
The emotion and regret in my heart are difficult to express in words, after all, she is like a red plum bud blooming in early spring, flashing in front of my eyes, but I can't get close, I can only miss it.
I don't know her name, I don't know where she works, and even if I wanted to, it wouldn't be possible.
If you want to meet her in the future, it is even more probable, after all, a county is not big, but it is not small.
I had no choice but to sigh and look at the group of them, they all got on the Jiefang truck, and the Jiefang truck also started slowly and finally disappeared.
What I didn't expect was that when I was in a daze, there was actually a woman who was looking at me from the side, and she walked up to me.
"Xiao Tan, what are you thinking?"
As soon as I heard this, I immediately looked up and found that she was the sister I knew, Chen Shuzhi, who was five years older than me, 31 years old, majoring in finance, and now she is also doing related research work, working in a research institute in this county.
Chen Shuzhi is very friendly and friendly in our daily gatherings, and everyone says that she is a good big sister.
And she is not bad at all, very beautiful, and she is doing quite well in terms of learning, I heard that she has won several paper awards, all of which are national, and she has also been rated as an outstanding worker in the province for many years.
However, she is such an excellent lesbian, but she can't find a suitable partner to marry.
Although I have feelings for Chen Shuzhi, I know that my parents and my brother do not want me to find someone older than me.
And I only think that Chen Shuzhi also treats me as a junior on weekdays, and does not have any thoughts about me in love, her care for me and love for me is just like a mature sister, caring for young people.
I faced her with a slight smile and wondered if she had seen everything just now.
Eventually, I smiled in embarrassment and said to Sister Zhi, "It's nothing, Sister Zhi, I'm just--"
What I didn't expect was that Chen Shuzhi smiled and said, "I saw everything just now, you must be curious to know, what is the name of that girl and what does she do, right?" I know her and I know everything about her. ”
I couldn't help but be secretly stunned, just thinking, the tall and beautiful female captain just now came to tell me a word, and let Chen Shuzhi see it, and Chen Shuzhi saw my eye contact with this female captain, she could see everything?
And then, Chen Shuzhi said to me that the female captain who played basketball was actually from Nanhe Town, this county, and was the town accountant of this town, named Liang Qinrou, a graduate of the Provincial Finance and Business School, and was twenty-five years old, one year younger than me, and had not yet talked to anyone, that is, unmarried.
After listening to Chen Shuzhi say so specifically, I just nodded blankly, as if to tell her that even if she let me know all the details of Liang Qinrou, and Liang Qinrou is unmarried, it is none of my business.
After all, I rarely go to Nanhe Town, I am doing rice planting research here, and it can be said that it is completely impossible to rub any edge with Liang Qinrou, a female accountant, and have any intersections.
What I didn't expect was that Chen Shuzhi smiled at this moment.
She told me that just now she could completely see the eye interaction between me and Liang Qinrou, and she could feel that Liang Qinrou and I had feelings for each other, and they had a good feeling, which was love at first sight, but neither party dared to say this inner thought.
Now, she wants to get married on behalf of Yue Lao, so that Liang Qinrou and I can have a chance to get to know each other and see if they can develop into a romantic relationship.
As soon as I heard her say this, I was immediately nervous and shy, and my whole face turned purple.
I immediately said to her: "Sister Zhi, don't do this, since I talked to this Liang Qinrou just now, but you said that you want me to go on a blind date with her, she will definitely not agree." ”
In fact, what I am worried about is that even if Chen Shuzhi helps me, it is too white, which makes Liang Qinrou difficult to accept for a while, so she is unwilling to go on a blind date, so the blow in my heart and the humiliation I bear are very great, and I don't want to face such a setback.
What I didn't expect again was that Chen Shuzhi told me that of course she knew that such an arrangement for a blind date was too abrupt, she would not arrange it like this, and she could find a legitimate reason for me to go to Nanhe Town with her, so as to meet this Liang Qinrou and have an acquaintance.
Immediately afterwards, she said that because she would also go to Nanhe Town in the past to deal with the financial and tax personnel there, she met Liang Qinrou, and this time, Liang Qinrou also needed to report some local financial statistics to her, so I followed, naturally, the three of them could get to know each other together, and they could even have a meal.
"How? It's just a trip like this, if she really doesn't feel it, if it's boring, you can run back with me, no problem. ”
Chen Shuzhi said to me.
After listening to her words, although I blushed again, I thought that if Sister Zhi was really so enthusiastic about helping me, then I would go on such a trip to see if it could be done, even if it couldn't be done, I could become ordinary friends with Liang Qinrou, and neither party would be hit or unpleasant.
Eventually, I agreed.
After the next 10 days, Chen Shuzhi and I were not too busy with work to complete, so she and I each pedaled a bicycle and set off for Nanhe Town.
On the way, I talked and laughed with her, a beautiful eldest sister, and chatted happily, completely forgetting the hard work on the road, although such a trip, it actually takes an hour and a half to pedal a bicycle.
Chen Shuzhi's conversation and cultivation are very good, so much so that I sighed, if my parents didn't ask me to find a daughter-in-law younger than me, I really hope that I can talk to Chen Shuzhi.
And what makes me always sigh is that her conditions are so good, such an excellent woman, she has been single until she is thirty-one years old, and she has become an older leftover girl, and her future marriage problem is actually very difficult to solve.
Although I wanted to know why she was so old and not married, I never asked, because I just felt that it would touch the weakness of her heart, which I didn't want to happen.
But I jokingly said to her: "Sister Zhi, you are so enthusiastic to help me this time, if I really succeed, I really don't know how to thank you, or I'll find you one too, and then help you match, how about it?" ”
Her face turned red to the base of her ears, and she said to me, "Don't! You're doing me a disservice, you're making trouble with me, my old and difficult problem is difficult to solve, and I don't want to solve it! ”
Then she told me that if I mentioned her again, she would turn her back on me and ignore me.
I told her right away that I was just joking, and I promised never to mention her in this regard again.
But my heart was full of sighs, just because I heard her words, she was ready to solve it, which means, is she going to be single for the rest of her life and refuse to find a partner to marry?
It's a lonely life, and I really don't want her to be such a woman.
In about an hour and a half, Chen Shuzhi and I each pedaled a bicycle and finally arrived at Nanhe Town.
However, we couldn't find Liang Qinrou in the town hall, because at this time, the drought in the fields in Nanhe Town was more serious, and all the staff in the town hall went outside to participate in artificial irrigation, and no one was inside.
Although Chen Shuzhi and I have been pedaling bicycles for so long and are quite tired, we still rushed to find Liang Qinrou.
After half an hour of searching, we finally saw Liang Qinrou who was constantly stepping on a manpower pumping truck, she seemed to have been stepping for a long time, so her eyes were blank and quite tired.
And when she saw Chen Shuzhi, and then saw me next to Chen Shuzhi, her eyes immediately lit up, a burst of surprise, and her face flushed.
"Huh? Is it Sister Zhi? What are you doing here? The one next to you—" She smiled shyly as she said the last sentence, and seemed to look at me, which also made her very embarrassed.
Chen Shuzhi hurriedly helped me to introduce me, so that Liang Qinrou knew what my name was, which unit I worked in, and what kind of position I was doing, and she emphasized that I was not married yet, and I did not have a partner, and I was one year younger than Liang Qinrou.
Liang Qinrou was stepping on the waterwheel, this was the work she needed to do, and Chen Shuzhi and I didn't want to delay her, and even stepped forward to help her, taking turns to help her step on.
In the end, Chen Shuzhi stepped on the waterwheel and pushed me, and then said to Liang Qinrou: "Hurry up and go over there with this handsome guy to have a good chat, this is the first day of your official acquaintance, you have to get to know each other well!" ”
Although Liang Qinrou and I both felt quite shy, at the urging of Chen Shuzhi, we walked under the plum tree on the side and chatted with each other.
Liang Qinrou whispered to me and asked me some basic information about my family, and I answered truthfully, and I was naïve throughout the whole process, making her laugh constantly when she looked at it.
And I also asked, what is Liang Qinrou's usual work and life, and she also said it frankly and clearly, anyway, she and I are actually tacitly at this moment, we both know each other, each other is interesting, and we also default to each other as future love objects.
I thought to myself, maybe this is because Chen Shuzhi, the introducer, made such a formal introduction, so the relationship between me and Liang Qinrou can warm up so quickly.
That night, Liang Qinrou also took Chen Shuzhi and me to a snack bar outside, and the three of us had a meal together.
Because Liang Qinrou and I got to know each other, I knew a lot of her situation, in fact, she was in the same condition as me, very compatible, and she was not the kind of arrogant and unattainable woman I imagined, although her appearance and conditions in all aspects were quite good.
Later, after Chen Shuzhi and I went back, another half a month passed. Chen Shuzhi told me that when she went to Liang Qinrou again, she asked Liang Qinrou what she thought of me, and she felt that although Liang Qinrou was shy and didn't say it, she also felt that Liang Qinrou liked me, so I just had to work harder to establish this object's relationship.
She then encouraged me and asked me to ride a bicycle alone to find Liang Qinrou, so as to ask Liang Qinrou to come out, and the two of them continued to deepen their understanding, and it is estimated that this relationship will be settled.
Later, in a month, I went to Nanhe Town three times, all to find Liang Qinrou, and finally she promised me to be my object and establish a relationship with me.
When I happily went to Chen Shuzhi and told Chen Shuzhi the good news, Chen Shuzhi's eyes were full of excitement and joy, and she said that she wanted to bless me and Liang Qinrou, and if I married Liang Qinrou, she would preside over the wedding.
I nodded, indicating that I would definitely look for her.
But I found that when she turned around, there were tears in the corners of her eyes that were not easy to be noticed, and I thought to myself that this was because Chen Shuzhi felt that her own marriage problems could not be resolved, so she was so sad?
I couldn't help but feel a burst of compassion in my heart, just thinking, now Chen Shuzhi helped me find my ideal lover and made me happy, but she is full of confusion in the matter of marriage, shouldn't I help her, so as to repay her affection?
Later, when I went on a date with Liang Qinrou one day and talked about marriage, Liang Qinrou said to me: "You have to promise me something, if you can't do it, then I won't agree to marry you." ”
When I heard this, I couldn't help but be extremely nervous, and immediately asked Liang Qinrou, what did she want me to promise and what I needed to do?
Liang Qinrou said to me, no matter what, I have to find a wishful gentleman for Chen Shuzhi, otherwise, she will not marry me.
After hearing this, I nodded vigorously and said to her, even if she doesn't make such a request to me, I have to do it, and I must do it, and really help Chen Shuzhi solve this problem.
In the end, in the following time, I continued to help Chen Shuzhi find a partner, and I just wanted to help her find a suitable life partner.
Under my arrangement, Chen Shuzhi went on several blind dates and met several gay men with very good conditions, all of whom I met and introduced through classmates or colleagues in the unit.
However, the result was very disappointed for me and Liang Qinrou, Chen Shuzhi's blind dates failed, and she failed to meet a suitable partner, so she didn't talk about it.
Liang Qinrou and I both know that after all, this is a lifelong thing for Chen Shuzhi, so she doesn't want to compromise, she doesn't want to be far-fetched, and she wants to find the most suitable partner before she is willing to fall in love and get married.
We had to continue to work hard and continue to help Chen Shuzhi find a suitable candidate, at that time, Liang Qinrou and I had a consensus, if we really couldn't help Chen Shuzhi, then we would not enter the marriage hall.
Finally, after working hard for a whole year, a classmate I knew, he said that there was a 30-year-old director of the personnel department of a rural cooperative who had not yet married a wife, who had a good personality and was not bad at all in appearance and height, so he was probably suitable for Chen Shuzhi.
I made such an introduction, and I didn't have much hope at the time, and told Chen Shuzhi that if she still didn't like it, it didn't matter, and we would continue to help her find it.
As a result, this time, Chen Shuzhi went on a blind date, and she had a good conversation with the male director, and soon met her parents and talked about marriage.
My wedding with Liang Qinrou was co-organized with the wedding of Chen Shuzhi and her husband, and the four of us felt very happy and happy at that time.
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