After the meeting, I received such a WeChat message from Fa Xiao; I finally completed a major task in my life and ushered in the arrival of a new life. I just didn't have much to do, so I went to the hospital to visit her and the baby. What I didn't expect, however, was that her performance seemed to be a little different from what I had imagined.
When I walked into the ward and saw Fa Xiao lying there, her face did not have the joy and satisfaction of being a first-time mother as I imagined, but instead looked a little melancholy and confused.
I asked her softly how she felt, and she sighed and pointed to the cot next to her, where her newborn baby lay there.
"You look at how she looks, it's not good-looking at all." There was a slight disgust and helplessness in Fa Xiao's tone.
I was stunned for a moment, this was the first time I had seen someone dislike their children so "unceremoniously".
Fa Xiao has always been a beauty control, I heard colleagues say that eating grapes during pregnancy, the child's eyes are clear, eating apples, and the child's skin is good. The house was full of grapes and apples, and during pregnancy, I often fantasized about what my child would look like.
She also said that she and her husband are not low in appearance, and the child must be a good-looking little angel when he is born. However, reality gave her a big blow.
"What can I do, you see, the child's belly is round, his head is still "oval", and his hands and feet are all in sections. I'm going to cry ugly by her, is it that the baby is not developing well in my belly......" Fa Xiao continued to complain.
Thinking back to my previous childbirth, the pain of childbirth may have made me ignore these details of the baby.
After returning home, out of professional habits, with curiosity, I flipped through the books related to pregnancy and parenting, and I was too worried about the small one, it turned out that after the baby was born, there are 3 parts of the uglier the baby, which proves that the baby is developing better in the mother's belly.
After the child is born, there are 3 parts that are uglier, which proves that the baby is developing better in the mother's belly
Dear parents, do you think that some parts of your baby look a little "special" when they are born? Don't be nervous, don't be anxious, this may be a sign that your baby is developing well in your mother's womb!
1. Oval head shape
First, let's talk about the interesting topic of newborn head shapes. You may find that some babies come into the world with a cute "oval" shape on their heads, like an uncarved gem.
In fact, the child's head shape seems to be "uneven", but it is full of vitality and unique beauty.
The formation of this head shape is actually a natural and intelligent adjustment made by the baby in the mother's warm womb in order to adapt to the limited space.
Isn't it amazing wisdom to imagine that in such a small space, your baby can skillfully adjust his position and spend that time in the most comfortable way?
And this head shape is also regarded by many as a symbol of the baby's cleverness. After all, being able to find the best survival strategy in such a small space is not the embodiment of the baby's ingenuity?
They may not be able to speak or walk yet, but their every movement and expression shows us their unique charm and wisdom.
So, when you see that your baby's head shape is a bit "out of the ordinary", don't worry or be too anxious.
2. Small hands and feet section by section
Let's talk about the baby's little hands and feet. As soon as some babies are born, their hands and feet are like small lotus roots, one by one, which looks a little "weird". But in fact, this is exactly the trace of the baby's efforts to grow in the mother's belly. Imagine that the baby is in the mother's womb, such a small space, it is not easy to grow hands and feet! Therefore, those small "festivals" are actually proof of the baby's efforts and a sign of their healthy growth.
3. A round belly
Finally, let's talk about the baby's belly. As soon as some babies are born, their bellies are round, like a small watermelon. This is actually because when the baby is in the mother's belly, in order to absorb enough nutrients, he has to stretch his belly wide.
Although this "big belly" looks a little "cute", it is the guarantee of the baby's healthy growth. Because only by absorbing enough nutrients can the baby thrive and become a healthy and happy baby in the future!
So, all parents, don't worry about some "special" when your baby is born. On the contrary, we should be happy and proud, because this is exactly how well the baby is developing in the mother's belly.
What determines a child's appearance?
The appearance of children is such a wonderful topic! We all know that a child's appearance is a combination of genetics and environment, but how exactly is it determined? Let's talk to you about this interesting question today!
First of all, let's talk about the magical power of heredity. We all know that half of a child's genes come from their father and half from their mother. Therefore, the child's eyes, nose, mouth, etc., may be a "copy" of the parents.
Sometimes, you see a couple, and then their children are simply "miniaturized" versions of them, and it's just amazing!
But ah, heredity isn't absolute either. Sometimes, the child's appearance may be different from that of his parents, and there may even be some "unexpected surprises".
For example, some parents have single eyelids, but the child has double eyelids; Or some parents are dark-haired, but the children are blonde and blue-eyed. These "accidents" are actually the cause of variation and randomness in the gene mix.
In addition to genetics, the environment also has a certain influence on a child's appearance.
For example, eating habits, living habits, and even mood states may affect a child's appearance to a certain extent. For example, some children may have a yellow face and thin muscles because of an unbalanced diet;
And because some children often smile, their faces will be filled with a sunny smile, which looks more cute and moving.
Of course, we can't ignore the role of acquired factors. For example, good living habits, proper exercise, adequate sleep, etc., can make children look better and be more energetic.
Moreover, as children grow older, their temperament and demeanor will gradually appear, which is also an integral part of their appearance.
Therefore, a child's appearance is determined by a combination of factors. As parents, although we can't fully control our children's appearance, we can make our children healthier, more confident and more beautiful through acquired efforts and nurturing.
Thanks for reading! I'm a nursery-gi mother, a mother of two!