Ask love Zhu Shenyong, you ask and I answer
Zhu Shenyong
Ask love Zhu Shenyong, you ask and I answer. I am Zhu Shenyong, the founder of the extramarital affair system, and I have 10,000+ students. Tutor a student to start a war every day, and there are offline classes to practice and start a war every month. There are a lot of cases about extramarital affairs that are inconvenient to publicize here, about being ruthless, and about special methods of starting a war, all of which I share in counseling and offline classes.
If you have similar marital problems, give me a way to find you in the background, and I will teach you how to go to war!
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A student asked:
Mr. Zhu, a marriage without love is immoral, I fell into an extramarital relationship, but we are true love, so is it immoral to have an extramarital affair with love?
Teacher Zhu answers:
You assume that there is true love in extramarital affairs, which is problematic in itself.
Is there true love in an extramarital affair?
There is real love, real sex, and real excitement in extramarital love, but there is no real love.
True love has the following criteria:
1. Pay hard
True love has real dedication.
A man will give his body, he will give his development, he will give money, he will give his time, he will share everything he has with a woman, not just in bed and on his mouth.
2. I can't bear to let the other party be wronged
True love can't bear to let the other party be wronged, and can't bear to let the other party work hard and be sad.
In the extramarital relationship, the third party is not accepted by the mainstream of society, cannot see the light, hides in Tibet, cannot be made public, and has been in grievances.
If a man has true love for a third party, he will not let the third party bear so much social pressure, so much discrimination and grievances all the time without doing anything.
3. Exclusivity
True love is exclusive, possessive, and can't tolerate another person.
The third person knows that the man has a family and is willing to share it with the man's wife, which in itself loses exclusivity.
Some men specialize in married women, and there is no exclusivity at all.
4. Plans that can be implemented
True love is not about scratching in bed, it has a plan for the future, and the plan can be implemented step by step.
For example, when to get married, when to buy a car and a house, when to have children, there is a plan for the other half of your life in the future.
Just like many cases I have counseled before, every time a man is asked "when will he divorce his wife" and "when will this relationship see the light", he is vague and repeatedly refused.
True love is not only planned between two people, but these plans can be implemented step by step.
5. True intimacy
There is true intimacy in true love, and intimacy means that there is no long-lasting big lie between the two parties.
And extramarital affairs themselves are built on lies.
In order to get the mistress, a man must say that his marriage is very unbearable, and that his wife is very unbearable.
Some men will even say that they are already divorced, they are going through the formalities, and the two of them have long since stopped caring about each other.
In fact, the marriage was not that bad at all.
The man is talking nonsense in order to get the mistress to coax the mistress, this relationship is full of purpose and lies, what does it have to do with true love?
Extramarital love does not reflect a man's true love for the mistress, if the man really loves the mistress, he can divorce first, give the wife and children the compensation they deserve, express his apologies with practical actions, and bear the consequences and responsibilities with practical actions.
Since you fall in love with someone else and don't want this home, you can leave this home to your wife and children, and go out by yourself.
Or give your wife an explanation and explanation, give a certain amount of compensation, and get a good divorce.
Then use the identity of a single person to pursue the mistress and develop true love with the mistress.
In this way, the mistress does not need to be a mouse, and the wife does not have to face betrayal and deception and struggle with self-doubt and suffering.
But not many men actually do that. They all stepped on the marriage of their wives and children, and went to quietly find the mistress to get satisfaction by themselves.
The junior is often kept in the dark and stupidly thinks that he has met true love.
Extramarital affairs reflect the man's selfishness, greed, and sometimes vulnerability and powerlessness.
It is that he does not want to be responsible and does not want to pay, he just wants to use the lowest cost and the lowest price to obtain the greatest satisfaction, neither has to marry the mistress, does not have to be responsible for the future of the mistress, and does not have to face the pain and major loss of losing his marriage.
An extramarital affair reflects the man's use of two women.
Embodying his own love and satisfaction for himself.
What can love others?
If you want to talk about morality, it is absolutely immoral to have this deviant party in an extramarital affair with marriage.
And Xiao Sanming knew that the other party had a family and intervened, not only was it immoral, but he was also tricked by a man, used by a man, captured by a man, and coaxed by a man.
At the same time, it is also the party who is hurt by the wrong decisions of the man and himself.
If you have similar marital problems, give me a way to find you in the background, and I will teach you how to go to war!