introduction
"Chapel" is a marriage ceremony.
"Chapel" is the old custom of Han marriage, commonly known as "great ceremony", is the most important part of the wedding process, when a couple of people worship the church, they will become a formal couple. Since this part of the ancient wedding was held in the hall, it was called "worship hall".
An etiquette expert said that before the Northern and Southern Dynasties, there was no "worship" ceremony, and when the bride arrived at her husband's house, she would be sent to the cave house, and after the Northern and Southern Dynasties, the "worship hall" was set as a fixed marriage etiquette.
The etiquette expert went on to say that in some areas, when the bride is brought home, she is led into a room decorated with a green cloth curtain to "worship" the bridegroom, and only after the "worship" is completed, is sent to the cave room. In the Northern Song Dynasty, on the day of marriage, a couple would first worship the family temple and then hold a "worship ceremony".
The etiquette expert went on to say that in the Qing Dynasty and the Republic of China, the "worship ceremony" was expanded, and a couple had to "worship heaven and earth first, and worship the high hall twice", and then they could "worship husband and wife".
The etiquette expert finally said that under normal circumstances, when a couple is preparing to "worship the church", they should light candles, burn incense, sound firecrackers, and play music. After the music sounds, the wedding celebrant begins to chant, and after the recitation, the newlyweds are allowed to "worship in the church"!
This etiquette expert emphasized that when the husband and wife "worship", the husband and wife should "stand side by side" to show the closeness of the husband and wife, only in this way can it be regarded as a perfect "worship" ceremony!
However, in real life, there will always be some newlyweds, and I don't know why, they are always unwilling to "stand up" side by side, which makes their wedding seem quite abrupt!
No, a couple of newlyweds in Shandong got married, and the bride Huang was unwilling to "stand up" side by side with the groom He, and when the groom He tried to get close to Huang, Huang would scold: "Stand farther away", which led to a great discount in the atmosphere of their wedding!
So, what's going on here?
Next, let's talk about it.
affair
May 11 is the wedding day of the groom He and the bride Huang. When the two held a worship ceremony, the bride Huang refused to allow the groom He to get close to him, and whenever the groom He planned to get close to the bride Huang, Huang would scold He, thus casting a shadow on their worship ceremony.
So, why did the bride Huang refuse the groom He to come close to her?
According to the bride Huang herself, the situation is like this-------
Huang is the second marriage, while He is the first marriage. Because He looked a little sorry for the audience, Huang did not fall in love with He. However, He's family was relatively wealthy, and Huang encountered financial difficulties, so Huang agreed to marry He for a bride price of 480,000 yuan. So, the two of them registered and held a marriage ceremony.
Huang said: "When I see He, I feel disgusted, and in the case of disgust, how can I be willing to stand with He?" ”
When some netizens asked how they would live in the future, Huang replied bluntly: "One day at a time, if you feel that you can't go on, you will go your own way!" ”
When netizens heard Huang say this, they instantly felt very uncomfortable. Netizens said that they were happy, and He's 480,000 dowry would be wasted!
The above is a general process of this event.
When many netizens learned about this incident, netizens started a heated discussion.
Netizen voices
Netizen Chunhua Qiuyue: Huang's statement is really thunderous! Since Huang doesn't like He, don't marry He! I was forced to marry He for the bride price, will my marriage be happy? If he finally divorced He, wouldn't it be a fraudulent marriage?
Netizens chattered: I really feel sad for the groom He! I spent 480,000 dowry to marry a wife who was alienated from me, wouldn't I have died?
In short, netizens have a lot to talk about.
Lao Hu's point of view
Marriage is the crystallization of love, and marriage is not improvised.
Lao Hu believes that the bride Huang's view is extremely wrong. Since he has no relationship with He, and he doesn't fall in love with He, don't marry He, otherwise, you will not only wronged yourself, but also may harm He. It should be said that the marriage of the two is improvised, not the crystallization of love.
Lao Hu felt that the groom He should wake up in time and end his marriage with Huang as soon as possible, so that he could lose less of his bride price. Otherwise, if you don't get it right, you'll end up with a chicken and an egg!
What do you think?