Original translated by Liu
Some couples often quarrel or even fight because of disagreement on certain things in their married life, which gradually wears out each other's feelings, and also makes married life full of many unpleasant experiences, and even leads to the breakdown of the couple's relationship and the dissolution of the marriage.
And those couples with the same goal, their married life is always full of laughter, the family atmosphere is harmonious and beautiful, the husband and wife are harmonious and loving, the family members are happy, the family life is prosperous, and the married life can be happy for a long time.
Alignment of goals is very important for marital happiness, as long as the husband and wife can reach the same goals in the marital relationship and marital life, then their marital life will be harmonious and beautiful, and the marriage can be happy and happy for a long time, which is the magic power of unity of purpose.
The goal is consistent including many aspects, such as financial management, consumption, parenting, values, etc., as long as the husband and wife have the same concept, the strength to make a place, the force to a place, many things will be solved, a lot of good will be unexpected, a lot of luck will follow.
On the contrary, if the concepts of husband and wife often go against each other, they don't like each other, and they do their own things and tear each other down, it is difficult for such a marital relationship to last long, even if they barely make do with each other, it will be a kind of torment, and after a long time, it will give rise to various mental diseases.
Marriage is a major event in life, what kind of partner you choose directly affects the quality of life in the second half of your life, if you choose a partner with the same goals, then your future married life will be happy, sweet and happy, if you choose a partner with inconsistent goals, then your future married life may be sad and difficult day by year.
In real life, we often see some couples quarreling over a trivial matter, and even fighting when encountering important disagreements, such a family atmosphere will leave a bad psychological shadow on the child, which is not only not conducive to the healthy growth of the child, but also makes the child afraid of marriage.
Children who grow up in families where their parents often quarrel are sensitive in their hearts, have low self-esteem, are psychologically fragile, have poor psychological endurance, are afraid of quarrels, dare not take the initiative to face up to problems and solve problems, and like to evade responsibilities and avoid problems.
In real life, we often see some couples respecting each other, discussing big and small things, they have the same goal, work together, respect the old and love the young, are hardworking and kind, live a picturesque life, and have a happy family atmosphere. Children who grow up in families where their parents love each other are smart, independent, psychologically strong, and dare to take the initiative to face problems, solve problems, dare to take the initiative to take responsibility, analyze problems, face problems, and constantly improve their abilities and improve their personalities.
If husband and wife have the same financial outlook, they can help families accumulate wealth quickly, improve their ability to cope with sudden and unknown risks, and create a more stable living environment for family members. If the husband and wife have the same consumption concept, they can live within their means, not excessive waste, and not excessive consumption, and the family's economic situation will not fluctuate, which is conducive to the healthy growth of children.
If the husband and wife have the same view of parenting, they can better cultivate their children's learning habits and living habits, make them more self-disciplined and independent, and may become the pillars of the country when they grow up in the future, and make greater contributions to the country and society.
If husband and wife have the same values, they can have more common topics and hobbies, which can not only enhance the relationship between husband and wife, but also improve the quality of marriage, making marriage sweeter, happier and longer.
On the contrary, if the husband and wife have different financial concepts, it will be difficult for the family to accumulate and maintain wealth, and it may even drag down the family due to the financial situation in the wrong investment, which will cast a psychological shadow on the marriage.
If the husband and wife are inconsistent in the concept of consumption, then the family may have a debt situation that cannot make ends meet, the level of consumption should be measured according to the economic situation of the family, the more you can spend more, and the less you can save, otherwise the family will fall into a vicious circle of debt, do what you can, and live within your means is the correct concept of consumption.
If the husband and wife have the same view of parenting, it is difficult to cultivate the child into an excellent talent with all-round development of morality, intellect and body, unilaterally only pay attention to the child's academic performance but ignore the child's ideology, morality and physical fitness, even if the child has a good academic performance, it is difficult to go further in the future, because the great success is the character and physical strength in the end.
If the values of husband and wife are inconsistent, it is difficult to have common topics and common interests and hobbies, and after a long time, married life will be boring, and it is difficult to produce happiness in such a married life.
The same goal can stimulate the enthusiasm and passion between husband and wife, and can inject intangible spiritual power into the marriage, so that both husband and wife are always full of strength, high morale, overcome difficulties, move forward bravely, persevere to the end, create miracles, create beauty, and create happiness.
As the saying goes, husband and wife are of the same heart, and their benefits are broken. A good marriage needs the guidance of the same goal, the goal is the same, the joint force is formed, the benefit is maximized, the competitiveness is improved, the success rate is also improved, the sense of happiness is also improved, the family atmosphere is also harmonious, and the laughter of the children is more, which is the best choice for two-way running, and it is also the best choice for long-term happiness.
Running a marriage is also a university question, first of all, you need to establish an intimate relationship, and the same goal is just right to maintain the intimacy between the husband and wife, which is why those couples with the same goal can get better than their family.
Goals are the original motivation for our efforts and struggles, as long as the husband and wife have the same goals, many marital problems will be solved by themselves; As long as the husband and wife have the same goals, the married life will be full of hope and laughter, so that the marriage can be happier and longer.
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