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It seems that no matter what children are interested in in at that time, they will be regarded as "flood beasts", so that parents can avoid it.
And on internet platforms, you'll also find parents looking for ways to keep their kids away from what they consider "harmful" distractions – but always in a way that's a bit extreme.
I still remember that many years ago, parents sent the "Internet addicted teenager" in their eyes to Yang Yongxin's Internet Rehabilitation Center. This "Thunderbolt King" used very extreme electroshock therapy and mental suppression, leaving countless children with unbearable psychological trauma.
Of course, after the exposure, Yang Yongxin's various evil deeds have undoubtedly been condemned by everyone, and his online rehabilitation center has long been closed.
But who knows, before this "demon" was completely sanctioned, parents have recently begun to chase after another "sexual transfer Yang Yongxin".
Source: Douyin Hu Xiaoying
This "sexual transformation Yang Yongxin" is a "family education expert" named Zhao Juying. On the Douyin platform, the expert already has more than 400,000 followers and is sought after by many parents.
Why is this Zhao Juying able to make parents trust so much? In fact, from her personal experience, at first glance, she can really scare many people.
On Douyin, Zhao Juying is a 33-year teacher and homeschooling expert, a certified home and school instructor from the American Positive Discipline Association, and has also published several books.
What's more, she really trained her child to be a "genius child" before, and this prodigy has even appeared on CCTV's "Born to Be Talented", Anhui Satellite TV's "I Am a Speaker" and many other large-scale programs.
With such qualifications and educational experience, I think it's no wonder that parents believe in her education style.
Du Zhaozechuan, who has been on many shows
After experiencing many highlight moments, Zhao Juying switched to the short video platform and gained the trust and attention of parents through one-on-one offline interviews.
However, after she uploaded the video of the home visit to the Internet, it quickly aroused the anger of netizens - because her "bullying" education has been so bad that it is outrageous.
The most typical thing is that when Zhao Juying came to a boy's house once, she asked the boy to smash all his "animation figures", saying that "focusing on material things only stays at the animal level, and you must study hard when it is time to learn."
The video has been deleted by me, but I can still find a re-file version
It is worth mentioning that the body of this Gundam is also the "Destiny Gundam". It sounds ironic to let a child hold a hammer and smash his "fate".
In addition to forcing the child to smash Gundam, in another deleted video, Cho Ju-young also asked a girl to throw away all the grains (celebrity or anime peripherals) on the desk, and said, "At the age of pursuing your dreams, don't do this." ”
Although it can be seen from the video that the girl is very obedient and puts the things on the table into the garbage bag, judging from the before and after comparison pictures posted by netizens, after passively throwing away the grain that she bought with a lot of effort, it is estimated that this girl has the heart of a knife person (not
Of course, the above are just a few cases that make netizens feel very angry, but in fact, in the video, Zhao Juying's education method also makes everyone feel "blood pressure soaring" everywhere.
For example, installing surveillance cameras in students' rooms does not take children's privacy seriously at all;
It is also common to humiliate students' appearances during conversations, poke people in sore spots with family conditions, and corporal punishment;
even "brainwashes" students all the time, using repressive education methods to PUA children to abandon hobbies and focus on exams and scores.
During offline home visits, although parents took Zhao Juying's behavior as a guideline, such an outrageous and excessive education method always made people feel a little wrong.
So during a home visit, the child's grandmother questioned Zhao Juying and asked her "if she is a liar".
Not to mention, it's still grandma's sharp eyes - this "education expert" is really a liar.
After Zhao Juying became popular because of her strange education methods, some netizens discovered that she was actually a dishonest person, which is commonly known as Lao Lai.
In addition, although Zhao Juying claims to be a dual home and school lecturer certified by the "American Positive Discipline Association", when she checked the official website, she did not seem to find this person.
And as Zhao Juying's proudest prodigy son, who was inspired to go to Harvard and become president, there was no news after he reached junior high school. What's even more outrageous is that some netizens recently picked up Du Zhaozechuan's ins account, it seems that Du Zhaozechuan became a DJ abroad as an adult, which is very different from the growth route given by his mother at that time.
Some netizens also revealed the cost of her offline home visits, which does not seem to be cheap.
It seems that except for the identity of a teacher, all of Zhao Juying's personal experiences are full of loopholes. Some netizens joked that Zhao Juying chose to visit the whole country in order to make money and avoid debts.
Some people even compare her to Umbridge, the villain teacher in "Harry Potter", after all, Umbridge is also good at belittling and insulting students, and uses various measures to gain power for herself.
Not to mention, it's quite similar
With the increase in the popularity of the video and the voice of questioning, more and more netizens began to stand up against Zhao Juying's strange education method. They use their own experience to prove that hobbies don't actually ruin children.
Yes, the real way of education is not to let children lose their interest.
In the comment area of Zhao Juying's video, many netizens mentioned "Artistic Ideas" that they watched on TV when they were children.
For many children, Uncle Neil is like a magician, able to "turn waste into treasure" many things in daily life, knocking on the door of their artistic and creative cognition, and is the best teacher for their childhood artistic enlightenment.
What's more, Uncle Neil always uses the most positive and optimistic words in the show to encourage the children in front of the screen to "try it for yourself". This kind of "encouraging education" has also inadvertently made many children have a better attitude.
Judging from Zhao Juying's turmoil, compared with the Yang Yongxin Internet Rehabilitation Center, which has hurt countless students in the past ten years, everyone still has a deeper understanding of this incorrect educational behavior.
It has only been half a year since the video was posted at the end of last year, and everyone has begun to realize that Zhao Juying's treatment of children is not wise, and they have begun to stop this suppressive and PUA-style education method.
Therefore, on the bright side, this kind of "repressive education" will gradually be replaced by a more correct way of education.