Today's parents, it can be said, that many people do not have teachers at all, because as soon as they encounter their children's problems, they blame the teacher - whether the child is wrong or not, it is the teacher's fault, this is their bandit logic.
On May 7, such a strange scene occurred in a middle school in Hanzhong City, Shaanxi Province. The old lady Zheng heard that her granddaughter had a tense relationship with her classmates and was bullied. Seeing her granddaughter crying, Zheng was so heartbroken that she chose a surprising approach in anger.
She took a loudspeaker, rushed directly into the campus of the middle school, stood in front of the teaching building, and started her "wonderful performance". I saw her holding a loudspeaker, ignoring the many stunned eyes around her, and began to vent like a shrew scolding the street-
She thinks that the teacher did not deal with the conflict between her granddaughter and her classmates, and deliberately favored the other party, so that her granddaughter was hurt physically and mentally, and the teacher had to give herself an explanation. As a teacher, you can't treat children fairly and fairly, what kind of teacher is this? Did you not give a gift, or did you not have a treat? Today's teachers, don't talk about dedication, they don't even have teacher morality, are they still worthy of being teachers?
She scolds whatever she thinks, she has no scruples at all, she completely regards the school as a garbage dump for her to pour emotional garbage, hysterical, no one's persuasion is useless, she just wants to stand in front of the teaching building and abuse, and she will not die.
In the face of the sudden "voice of protest" - the sharp sound of horns and fierce rhetoric echoed through the campus, deafening, it not only interrupted the ongoing class, but also caused panic and confusion among the teachers and students in the school. Normal teaching activities were interrupted, the learning environment of students was seriously affected, teachers were also extremely distressed, and the entire campus order fell into a temporary turmoil.
When the persuasion failed, the school had no choice but to call the police. The Beiguan Police Station of the Hantai Branch of the Hanzhong Public Security Bureau responded quickly and took Zheng away from the scene.
Subsequently, the police gave her a punishment of five days of administrative detention for disturbing public order. This time, the old lady can finally rest assured and won't nag anymore.
It is normal for children to have conflicts with each other, even when they bite their tongues when they eat? As a parent, when encountering this kind of thing, it is not to intensify the conflict, but to think about how to deal with the conflict. If there is a conflict between children, you can find a teacher, find each other's parents, and negotiate with each other to solve it, after all, between children, how big is the contradiction? The two sides have opened up the problem and made it clear, what else can they not untie?
And it is the constant conflicts between children, so that children are wronged or injured, as parents, they should also be treated rationally, after all, fists cannot solve the problem. The best solution is to cooperate with home and school to regulate children's words and deeds.
And this old lady's approach is not to solve the problem at all, but to intensify the contradiction - you run to the campus, use a loudspeaker to abuse the teaching building, and you don't want to die, is this a "long face" for your granddaughter? If she makes such a fuss, even if her granddaughter has not done anything wrong, I am afraid that the teacher will not be on her granddaughter's side.
And the relationship between the granddaughter and the students may not be easy to handle. There is such a grandmother, if anyone intersects with her, it will be such a result, aren't the students worried? And the teacher is afraid that she will stay away, because no teacher wants to deal with such an unreasonable parent, because whatever you say, as long as it is not good for her granddaughter, she will not listen, and may even toss with you endlessly - what about this situation? Isn't that unpleasant to yourself? This old lady's behavior undoubtedly had a great impact on the normal order of the school, and also put her granddaughter in an embarrassing situation. Such a way of dealing with the problem will not only fail to solve the problem, but may exacerbate the conflict and make things more complicated.
In fact, parents should remain calm and rational when facing the problems their children encounter at school, and actively communicate with teachers to find solutions together. Teachers and parents have the same goal, and they both want their children to grow up healthily. Only when both parties work together can we create a good environment for children to learn and grow.
In addition, parents should also educate their children to learn how to get along with others and how to deal with conflicts with classmates. After all, children have to go out into society after all, and learning to get along with others is a basic skill they must master. Parents should guide their children to face setbacks and difficulties in life with a positive and tolerant attitude, instead of blindly complaining and blaming.
For this old lady's behavior, we can't help but reflect: in family education, have we ever had similar impulses and extremes? Have we ever neglected to communicate and collaborate with our teachers? It is only when we truly recognize our mistakes and work hard to correct them that we can set the right example for our children and guide them on the right path.
Finally, we should understand that both parents and teachers should focus on the growth and development of children. When facing problems, we should remain calm and rational, based on cooperation and communication, and work together for the future of our children. Only in this way can we truly escort the growth of children.
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