1. The marriage story of He Zhengjun and his wife Fan Yu full of warmth and love
As the evening sun sets, the warm golden light shines through the courtyard. He Zhengjun sat comfortably under the shade of the tree, staring intently at his wife Fan Yu, who was working hard in the garden, his eyes full of love and affection.
Time flies, and thirty spring and autumn have passed in a blink of an eye. They supported each other, went through the ups and downs of life together, and finally ushered in a quiet and happy old age.
Recalling the moment when he met Fan Yu for the first time, He Zhengjun seemed to be able to feel that heartbeat. At that time, he was filming in Yunnan, and Fan Yu's shy and elegant demeanor, as well as the unique charm revealed between his words, made him fall in love.
The two hate to see each other late, and there are always endless topics to talk about. He Zhengjun was deeply impressed by her intelligence and humor, and as time went on, he became more and more convinced that Fan Yu was the soul mate with whom he could spend the rest of his life.
After careful consideration, He Zhengjun mustered up the courage to express his innermost emotions to Fan Yu. Fortunately, Fan Yu has already developed a deep affection for this sunny and cheerful big boy. With the blessings of relatives and friends, they entered the palace of marriage and established a warm and harmonious family.
From acquaintance to old age, they have always been with each other. He Zhengjun was full of emotion, and he was glad that he bravely pursued Fan Yu at the beginning. Now, although they have entered the old age, the flame of their love is still burning hot and has never been extinguished.
They take care of each other, respect each other, and enjoy the joy of family. Whenever he sees his wife busy at home, He Zhengjun always sighs sincerely: "Having her by my side is really the greatest blessing in my life!" ”
In the face of the ups and downs of life, as long as there is the support and companionship of a loved one, there is no difficulty that can stop them from moving forward. It is precisely because of the full support of Fan Yu, a virtuous wife, that He Zhengjun was able to move forward steadily in his career and finally achieved remarkable achievements.
They are full of hair, but that deep love will never fade.
2. He Zhengjun's secret love for Gong Li when he was young
Before meeting Fan Yu, He Zhengjun's emotional road also experienced a period of twists and turns. During his college career, a beautiful and moving girl appeared on campus - Gong Li.
She has a delicate face and a pure and kind temperament, which deeply attracted the attention of He Zhengjun, a talented young man.
Whenever he witnessed the touching side of Gong Li's faintly hidden face and smile, He Zhengjun's heart would involuntarily ripple with indescribable warm emotions. He often thought to himself, what a beautiful scene it would be to be able to spend the rest of his life hand in hand with this woman with excellent cultivation and extraordinary temperament. However, it is a pity that he was still young at that time, and his cognition of love was still in the ignorant stage, and he never mustered up the courage to reveal his heart to Gong Li.
Time flies, and Gong Li ushered in an important turning point in her life. She was favored by director Zhang Yimou and successfully starred as the heroine of the classic film "Red Sorghum". This also means that she is about to say goodbye to campus life and go to the distant Yinchuan to shoot movie locations. After learning the news, He Zhengjun was in a complicated mood and full of melancholy.
The friend reassured: "If you don't try to beat the jujube tree, how can you know if there is a sweet fruit hidden in it?" These words of encouragement were like a beacon that illuminated He Zhengjun's determination. He decided to bravely confess his heart before Gong Li left.
When he hurriedly rushed out of the school gate, he saw that the platform was empty, and Gong Li's vehicle had already left. In this way, he missed this crucial opportunity to confess.
Since then, Gong Li has become famous with "Red Sorghum", and her life path has become broader and brighter. And He Zhengjun worked silently, constantly tempering his acting skills on the stage, and only endless regrets lingered in his heart for the relationship he had missed.
Although he is well aware of this regret, he did not indulge in the past because of this, but firmly devoted his energy to his career and no longer dwelled on the gains and losses of the past.
In the long years that followed, whenever he saw Gong Li's shining demeanor on the screen, He Zhengjun would always have an indescribable complex emotion in his heart. However, he thought about it, life is like this, if he blindly chased her footsteps at the beginning, how could he meet his own happiness? Perhaps, this is the so-called fate without separation, everyone has their own destiny trajectory, and only by cherishing everything in front of them is the right way.
3. The relationship between Gong Li and Zhang Yimou ended without a problem
At the same time, Gong Li met the well-known director Zhang Yimou in the crew of "Red Sorghum". In the beginning, the relationship between them was just an ordinary director-actor partnership, and there was nothing out of bounds.
With the in-depth development of the plot and the gradual extension of the time spent together, the relationship between the two quietly sprouted and took deep root in each other's hearts.
In the early days, Zhang Yimou, who was like a torch, treated Gong Li who was not deeply involved in the world as patient and meticulous as a mentor, and he personally guided Gong Li to deeply understand and perfectly interpret the role of "Jiu'er". As a diligent and hard-working outstanding student, Gong Li devoted herself wholeheartedly to the performance of this drama, and Zhang Yimou was extremely pleased with her hard work.
As filming progressed, the line between director and actor blurred. They looked at each other and smiled at each other on the set, and the emotions in their eyes went beyond a simple partnership. It seems that overnight, the original innocent feelings are instantly sublimated into something deeper.
After the unprecedented success of the movie "Red Sorghum", Gong Li's name spread all over the country, and Zhang Yimou also became a well-known director from an unknown little person in one fell swoop. However, behind this great success, there is an incredible story.
In fact, although Zhang Yimou has long been a married man, in the process of accompanying Gong Li day and night, they gradually understand each other, resonate, and finally bravely choose to be together regardless of everyone's eyes. Zhang Yimou's wife Xiao Hua tried her best to save this marriage many times after learning the unfortunate news, but in the end she was powerless to change the fate of being separated. After some painful struggles, she had to tearfully agree to a divorce.
Since then, Zhang Yimou has been like a wild horse on the loose, completely breaking free from the shackles and starting an eight-year romantic relationship with Gong Li. At that time, Gong Li was full of beautiful expectations for entering the palace of marriage, but Zhang Yimou was always vague about this, and his attitude was ambiguous, as if he was intoxicated with the sweetness of love, and he didn't want to think too much about the future.
In the end, Gong Li, who couldn't bear it, turned to her mother's family for help, hoping that they could say a few words of justice for herself. However, Zhang Yimou seemed to have been prepared, and in the face of his mother's accusations, he responded calmly: "It's just a piece of paper, why should you value it so much?" This sentence caused an uproar.
For most women, a marriage certificate symbolizes the final destination of the soul. In Zhang Yimou's eyes, however, it seems to be just an inconsequential piece of paper.
These words undoubtedly hit Gong Li's soft heart deeply, like a giant hammer smashing the bright future she was looking forward to, making the original hot feelings disappear in an instant, leaving only endless pain and regret. Looking back on this eight-year poetic love journey, the ups and downs and painful struggles it has experienced are difficult to speak, and it is difficult to express the complex emotions contained in words.
Fourth, Gong Li's current situation and past regrets
After experiencing this regretful relationship, Gong Li's life journey did not stagnate. She quickly threw herself into a new love affair and entered the palace of marriage hand in hand with Huang He, a wealthy businessman in Hong Kong. However, this marriage only lasted for a short period of three years, and then ended in tragedy, which once again gave her a bitter taste of broken love.
Fortunately, fate always seems to favor those who are brave enough to pursue happiness. After the Yellow River, the famous French musician Michel entered Gong Li's life. The two gradually developed a deep emotional bond, and eventually tied the knot and spent the rest of their lives together. In a sense, Gong Li finally found her own happy home in the company of this confidant.
If we look back and re-examine the "regretful" relationship between Gong Li and He Zhengjun, what kind of feelings will we have? Everyone may have their own unique opinion on this issue.
Some people believe that this regret is destined to prevent them from going to the end, thus achieving the happy marriage between He Zhengjun and Fan Yu.
There are also people who hold different views, they think that even if the two really come together, who can guarantee that they will be able to grow old together? There is a huge difference between the life circle of popular superstars and unknown young actors, and it is inevitable that there will be estrangement.
We can never predict where life will go, everything is just assumptions and imaginations. However, there is no doubt about one thing, that is, in the face of the reality of fate, it is the wisest choice to accept it calmly.
On the road of life, many things are not ifs, and tracing back to the root is just adding to the troubles. It's better to calm down and live the day in front of you with all your attention.
Letting go of the meaningless entanglements and memories of the past and welcoming the future with a positive attitude is the attitude we should have towards life. Whether it is Gong Li or He Zhengjun, they were once confused and confused on the road of feelings, but in the end they all survived the difficulties and made remarkable achievements in their careers.
Indeed, it is undoubtedly very emotional to look back on the past bit by bit, however, we must not indulge in the beauty of those years and abandon the unknown wonderful! The road of life is like a wide road, and what awaits us in the future is more endless possibilities worth looking forward to and yearning for.
Let us sincerely wish them fruitful results in the two important areas of career and family, a happy life, a long and healthy life, and a bright future!
As ordinary people, we also need to create a positive atmosphere for our lives. Reduce unnecessary disputes and suspicions, and broaden the heart of tolerance, so that the road of life will become broader and broader.
Only in this way can each of us go all out to embrace the light of happiness that belongs to us.