1. The unique concept of marriage is deeply rooted in unmarriage
The first thing we need to know about Mr. Dou Wentao is that he has a high reputation in the professional field, and as a senior host, his achievements are among the best in the industry.
However, when it comes to marriage, he has a different opinion: At the scene of an invitation to participate in the talk show "Luyu Appointment", he did not shy away from expressing a strong criticism of the marriage system, believing that it was "the shackles of sin", and firmly chose not to marry the lifestyle.
Recalling that period of romantic time, Dou Wentao can still emerge from the bottom of his heart with endless sweetness. When he handed over the cute kitten to his beloved girlfriend with his own hands, looking at her ecstatic expression, his heart was suddenly surrounded by warmth.
However, this innocent and beautiful campus romance ended regrettably because it was too immature.
For Dou Wentao, who was in the prime of his youth at that time, this was undoubtedly a sudden storm, which made him unable to bear such a cruel reality. In the days after the breakup, his whole person fell into a deep decadence, like a walking corpse, losing interest in anything, and falling into a state of confusion and loss.
Second, the shadow of first love lingers, looking for an outlet for catharsis
The blow of the breakup was too heavy for the young Dou Wentao, and he couldn't easily accept this fact. In order to alleviate the pain and trauma in his heart, he began to embark on a long journey, trying to find a sense of release and comfort in this way.
Once, he stood alone under the dormitory where his ex-girlfriend used to live, staring at the lights gradually going out, and his heart was mixed. During the journey, he also walked aimlessly under the scorching sun, letting the wind and rain rage and baptize his whole body.
He is like a wandering prodigal son, wandering around, but he has never been able to heal the wounds in his heart.
During that time, Dou Wentao's whole person fell into unprecedented depression and loss. No matter what you do, you can't lift your spirits, and your heart is like a pool of stagnant water, lifeless. In order to liberate himself, he even decided not to pin his joys and sorrows on others.
Until many years later, Dou Wentao has made remarkable achievements in his career, and when he reaped fame and fortune, when he mentioned this relationship again, his eyes still showed deep melancholy and melancholy.
The gentle teenager who once drove hundreds of kilometers just to surprise his girlfriend has now completely lost the courage to regain happiness.
3. The career is booming, and the love life is wonderful!
Leaving the bustling university campus, Dou Wentao bravely stepped into a new life journey - going to the south to work hard. At first, he worked as a host for a children's program on a TV station in Guangdong, and occasionally took on some trivial tasks, but his ambition was far from that.
The leader persuaded him to wait patiently on the grounds that the time was not yet ripe, but Dou Wentao silently held on to it for seven years.
It wasn't until 1996 that he finally ushered in a major turning point in his career. That year, Phoenix Satellite TV was about to be established in Hong Kong, and it was in urgent need of excellent hosting talents.
Since then, Dou Wentao's career has been like opening a green channel, and the journey has been smooth. He has hosted many high-profile programs, such as "Current Affairs Express", "Qiang Qiang Threesome" and so on, and has made countless star friends in the Hong Kong and Taiwan entertainment industry.
Accompanied by the vigorous development of his career, Dou Wentao's colorful emotional life is coming. Some media have captured the sweet moment of his date with Faye Wong in Singapore, but both parties are silent about it and are unwilling to respond too much.
In addition, he has publicly expressed his appreciation and admiration for the "Frozen Age Goddess" Yu Feihong many times, and has been praised as a "male girlfriend" by the majority of netizens, and the two seem to have a deep friendship in private.
Of course, there are many unconfirmed rumors about Dou Wentao's love life. For example, he was photographed interacting with actor Zuo Jia in the car; There are also media reports that he has a child with an ordinary woman; Even athlete Wang Jiajia has publicly admitted that they used to spend quality time together.
All in all, after the profound baptism of first love, Dou Wentao is comfortable in the emotional world, and he can be called a countless reader.
Fourth, the unique insight into marriage comes from the shadow of first love!
Despite the twists and turns in his love life, Dou Wentao has a unique view of the marriage system. He was frank and opposed to the so-called "evil marriage system" and always firmly adhered to his concept of non-marriage.
"Love is so fragile, like a delicate flower, it needs to be carefully cared for, and it must not be tested lightly." In an interview, Dou Wentao elaborated affectionately.
He is convinced that marriage is precisely a kind of bondage and test of fragile love, which can easily make it overwhelmed under the pressure of reality, and eventually break and wither.
After a long parting of ways, he tried his best to explore new outlets for catharsis, traveled all over the world, marched into the wilderness, longing to find solace in nature, but he still couldn't erase the memories that were once good, even after many years, his eyes still showed deep sadness and melancholy when he talked about that relationship.
The thoughtful boy who had quietly brought back a kitten to his hometown in an attempt to please his girlfriend had lost hope of reuniting with her. The trauma of that tragic breakup made him deeply suspicious and resistant to the traditional marriage system.
In the depths of Dou Wentao's heart, there always seems to be a lingering haze, which has become a major psychological obstacle to his marriage. He feared that he would suffer that kind again, and would rather die alone than set foot in the territory of traditional marriage.
Fifth, the work attitude is almost perfectionism, and the pursuit of excellence is fully dedicated
In the face of the magnificent love life, Dou Wentao poured all his enthusiasm and energy into his work. He is a workaholic, almost perfectionist, who has extremely high requirements for the quality of the show and is never satisfied with the status quo.
The audience who has watched "Qiang Qiang Threesome" is all impressed by the thousands of thoughts in his mind. Dou Wentao seems to be casual in the show, and his words are casual, but in fact, he is quick thinking and insightful.
He can easily dig into the secrets of the guests' hearts, and know when and where to say which words are most appropriate. In the face of sudden unexpected situations, he can also deal with changes without panic and resolve crises with ease.
This ability is by no means superficial, but comes from his meticulous polishing of the content of the program and years of research.
In fact, Dou Wentao has never been completely satisfied with his work, and always feels that there are still areas for improvement and some things that need to be touched. In order to pursue excellent quality, he often repeatedly scrutinizes the content of the show, and can be called a rigorous perfectionist.
It is precisely because of this persistent pursuit of perfection that his new variety show "Qiang Qiang Xing World 2" hosted last year has achieved great success. This show breaks the traditional sightseeing travel variety show model, and is more like a "cultural journey".
In this program, the camera skillfully captures the magnificent natural scenery of the motherland, and more importantly, it reveals the rich and diverse ethnic customs of various regions, making us deeply feel the diversity of life! The whole program is like a wonderful human geography book, which skillfully integrates knowledge and interest.
Thanks to Dou Wentao's enthusiasm and curiosity and his extraordinary hosting talent, this originally bland travel variety show has become interesting, allowing the audience to enjoy the joy while also gaining something.
From here, we can gain insight into his dedication and pursuit of work, showing that a host has an unwavering belief in the quality of the show.
Sixth, the shadow of first love may have shaped his unique personality charm
Dou Wentao has such a unique and distinct view of the marriage system, and has almost strict high standards for work, and this unique personality charm may come from the unforgettable first love experience in his college career.
A seemingly ordinary campus romance has brought too much blow to him, a hot-blooded young man. After the breakup, he tried all kinds of ways to relieve the pain in his heart, and traveled around to soothe his mood, but the beauty of the past was always unforgettable, and he could only do nothing about this shadow.
Until many years later, when he had achieved a certain amount of success and talked about this relationship again, his eyes were still full of melancholy and melancholy. The attentive boy who once quietly brought back the little milk cat to win his girlfriend's favor has now completely lost hope of hugging her again.
It is precisely because the trauma was so deep that he had such strong doubts and resistance to the marriage system, and would rather choose to die alone. In the same way, in order to avoid falling into the same predicament again, he devoted himself to his career, with almost demanding requirements for his work and a persistent pursuit of perfection.
Imagine, if it weren't for the shadow of this first love, would Dou Wentao's attitude towards marriage and work be completely different? Perhaps it was this campus romance that shaped his unique personality traits and made him the eye-catching personality he is today.