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watched the drama "Parents' Love" 4 times, revealing the secret: Why is Xu Hong, who is "lazy and lazy", a good wife?
To be honest, I've watched "Parents' Love" four times recently, and I never get tired of watching it! Every time I see the plain but warm life of An Jie and Jiang Defu, I am very emotional. But today, let's not talk about the protagonist, let's talk about Xu Hong in the play who was complained about by everyone as "delicious and lazy".
Xu Hong's role was really unpopular at first. You see her, she doesn't do anything at home, she knows how to eat and play. But after watching the drama so many times, I suddenly found that this Xu Hong is actually quite cute, and it can even be said that she is a good wife!
Why do I say that, you ask? Come, listen to my analysis.
First of all, although Xu Hong doesn't do housework, she has a home in her heart. You see her concern for her husband and children, it comes from the heart. When her husband was not happy at work, she did not complain, but comforted him and cheered him up. If the child has a problem, she is also the first to rush to solve it. Isn't this sense of responsibility to the family a sign of a good wife?
Moreover, Xu Hong is actually quite smart. Don't look at her usual lazy, in fact, she seems to be a mirror in her heart. If there is something going on at home, she will be the first to notice. If her husband has something on his mind, she can always find out at the first time, and then give him the support he needs most. This kind of keen insight is not something that every wife has!
Of course, Xu Hong is not without shortcomings. She is indeed a bit too dependent on her husband and lacks independence. But then again, isn't this the real life of a couple? Who doesn't have a little flaw and inadequacy? The key is to see if we can tolerate and accept these shortcomings.
In the process of watching the drama four times, I feel more and more that Xu Hong actually represents another image of a modern wife. She is no longer the kind of traditional wife who only revolves around the pot, but a modern woman with her own ideas and personality. She may not be good at housework, but she is good at loving her family and supporting her husband in her own way.
To be honest, the drama "Parents' Love" really inspired me a lot through the role of Xu Hong. The definition of a good wife is no longer singular. Now a good wife can be "lazy" like Xu Hong, but at the same time, she also maintains her love for her family and her support and understanding for her husband.
You say that this is not the kind of plain and real happy life that we ordinary people are pursuing! So, I think the role of Xu Hong is really a highlight in this drama!
Now let me ask you why Xu Hong, who is "lazy and lazy", is a good wife, do you understand? Because she is real and down-to-earth, she interprets what is called greatness in the ordinary in her own way!
In this fast-paced society, it's easy to overlook the seemingly insignificant but loving details. Xu Hong is one such example, she uses her "lazy food" to convey her deep attachment to her family and firm support for her husband.
So, I think we should revisit our definition of a good wife and not always be limited to those traditional standards and expectations. Because a really good wife is the one who can see greatness in the ordinary and convey love in the details. And Xu Hong is such a good wife, she uses her way to let us see the truest and most beautiful side of marriage!
Finally, I would like to say that everyone's definition of a good wife is different, but I think understanding and support are one of the most important factors in marriage. Although Xu Hong is a little "lazy", she has given her husband the most precious understanding and support, which may be the real secret of her becoming a good wife! Hopefully, we can all find that partner who is willing to understand and support us to spend the rest of our lives hand in hand!