1. Reveal the current state of society and the values it shapes
In today's society, we are in the tide of high material development, and the importance of marriage seems to have become increasingly blurred in people's minds. In the past, marriage was the supreme mission, symbolizing the sincere love of two people and the solemn commitment to spend the last years of life together.
Unfortunately, nowadays, many people regard marriage as a business, and what they pursue is nothing more than the short-term pleasure of power and wealth. What is sad is that some immoral arranged marriages and marriages subservient to money are still frequently staged, like a deeply piercing picture.
In the face of such a sinister environmental situation, there is an elderly 55-year-old man who sticks to his original intention and waits for his marriage partner for a long time with an innocent heart.
He is Mr. Zhang from Gaodian Town, Zhumadian County, Henan Province.
When Mr. Zhang was young, his family was poor and his status was low, and despite the ups and downs, he was always lonely and helpless. Sadly, just when he thought he was destined to be lonely in his life, a 20-year-old girl unexpectedly came into his life.
The girl, Miss Liu, was born with a mental disability and suffered from a serious illness since childhood, and has been unable to speak since. She has a childlike innocence on her face, often loses her temper for no reason, and needs to be taken care of by others for every thing in her life.
Seeing her like this, the Liu family was in pain, but they still tried their best to give her love and care. For them, Miss Liu is not only a source of happiness for them, but also an endless source of concern for them.
2. The beginning of the story: family members look for a solution to the problem
Ms. Liu's mental disability undoubtedly brought a heavy burden to her family. Her father was a simple farmer, and whenever he saw his daughter like this, he had to worry about his daughter's future.
As time went on, he and his wife could no longer take care of their daughter until old age. If one day they die, how will their daughter survive? As a result, Mr. and Mrs. Liu could not sleep at night and could not sleep well.
At this time, a matchmaker recommended Mr. Zhang to Liu's family. In this small village, Mr. Zhang has always been a highly respected figure.
Although his family was not wealthy, he never deceived anyone and always maintained the quality of honesty and trustworthiness. The townspeople have a very high opinion of him and express their sincere admiration for his actions.
At the beginning, the Liu family and his wife were really worried about their daughter's situation, after all, as parents, who wants to see their daughter live an unhappy life? However, based on Mr. Zhang's integrity and kinship with his family, the parents eventually chose to trust him to take care of their disabled daughter.
In this way, the two families reached a consensus and decided to marry Miss Liu Xiaoli to Mr. Zhang Fugui, and hoped that Zhang would treat this daughter with increasing intellectual disability until her death.
However, this marriage, which is full of warmth and responsibility, has attracted widespread attention and controversy from all walks of life in a short period of time. The combination of Miss Liu Xiaoli and Mr. Zhang Fugui is like a pebble thrown into a calm lake, stirring up layers of ripples.
This video is unpretentious, in which Miss Liu Xiaoli is dressed in a festive pink cotton jacket, with a pair of simple black trousers, a cherry-like mouth slightly upturned, and her eyes wandering around, like an innocent child.
And beside her, it was Mr. Zhang Fugui, who was over half a hundred years old, holding a tissue with one hand, constantly wiping the tears from the corners of her eyes, and the other hand tightly wrapped around her thin shoulder, softly comforting her not to cry anymore.
It is such a picture that has aroused the endless imagination and speculation of the majority of netizens. Some people think that Miss Liu Xiaoli's tears are so grief-stricken that she must have been forced or oppressed by some kind; Some people also accuse Mr. Zhang Fugui of being scheming and ill-intentioned; Some even wonder if the couple has a deep relationship, or maybe it's just a manipulative marriage.
This originally uneventful event instantly caused an uproar in the online world. All kinds of speculation and doubts poured into the comment area like a tide, making the otherwise ordinary wedding scene mysterious and eye-catching.
The development of the situation quickly attracted the attention of the local government departments, and they immediately organized a professional investigation team to go all out to pursue the truth behind this bizarre marriage.
First, they quickly contacted Ms. Liu's relatives and asked them for explanations and elaborations. Liu's father confessed sincerely that he and his wife decided to marry their daughter to Mr. Zhang, completely out of a deep understanding of kindness.
Mr. Cheung's honest, reliable and outspoken character is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, coupled with the favorable factor of being a fellow villager with them, which facilitates daily communication and mutual support. The most important thing is that my daughter suffers from this kind of intellectual disability, which indicates that the future will inevitably be inseparable from the care of caring people.
Immediately afterwards, the members of the investigation team visited Mr. Zhang himself again to try to find out his true intentions for the marriage. "I am over half a hundred years old, and I am very satisfied to be able to marry a wife.
Mr. Zhang's words were simple and sincere, and his eyes were firm, "She can't take care of herself in life, so I take on the responsibility of taking care of her; If there is one more person in the family, we can spend lonely time together and relieve each other's sorrows."
When the team fed back this information to the government departments, the leaders looked at each other with doubts on their faces.
Therefore, the team patiently guided Liu's family to elaborate on the relevant matters. Liu's father responded frankly: "They just held a simple wedding, and they have not yet gone to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the formal marriage procedures.
After learning the truth, the group finally breathed a sigh of relief.
Subsequently, they carefully studied the relevant national laws and regulations on marriage. According to the law, a marriage may not be registered if one of the parties has a severe mental illness or intellectual disability that causes him or her to lose his or her civil capacity.
Clearly, Ms. Liu, who suffers from an intellectual disability, is in such a situation and is unable to make rational and voluntary marriage decisions.
5. Conflict mitigation: The fierce collision of demands and values of all parties
The results of the investigation were quickly made public, successfully quelling the heated controversy over the incident on the Internet. For the Liu family, it is undoubtedly overjoyed and relieved to be able to let their daughter enter Mr. Zhang's family.
In this remote village, it is not uncommon for patients like Miss Liu to be born with intellectual disabilities. Every family expects their children to grow up healthily, safely and happily, and they love and care for children with disabilities.
However, as the parents grew older, the daughter was unable to leave the court, and the son was unable to marry the bride, which became a worrying event.
For the elders of the Liu family, their beloved only daughter, Miss Liu, is the lingering worry in their hearts. She was born a victim of intellectual disability, and unfortunately suffered from a serious illness, losing the ability to speak at an early age, and relying on others to take care of her daily life.
However, such a delicate situation makes the future development and survival of children a difficult problem for parents. As they get older, they worry about how their daughter will cope with the next stage of her life when she passes away. Therefore, they are desperate to find a trustworthy partner for their daughter.
At this time, the appearance of Mr. Zhang, a bachelor, undoubtedly became their best choice. Mr. Zhang is honest and trustworthy, and despite his poor family, he has always maintained a resilient spirit.
What's more important is that he and the Liu family are in the same village, and mutual assistance between them is naturally not a problem. Most importantly, Mr. Zhang has a deep affection for this mentally handicapped lady and promises to accompany her for the rest of her life until the last moment of her life.
For the elders of the Liu family, this is undoubtedly the most precious gift in life.
As for Mr. Zhang himself, he has an innocent wish: "Now that he is over half a hundred years old, he is already satisfied to marry a wife to share his family." He said with relief, "One more person in the family will add a little laughter and laughter, and it will no longer seem lonely and lonely."
I will do my best to take care of her, and at the same time, she can accompany me through lonely times and share our joys and sorrows.